Author Topic: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011 (Read 780272 times)

shosta · « **Reply #13680 on:** April 01, 2020, 11:13:26 PM »

got hit with "I thought you were gay?"

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toku · « **Reply #13681 on:** April 02, 2020, 12:10:52 AM »

Quote from: shosta on April 01, 2020, 11:13:26 PM

got hit with "I thought you were gay?"

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time to put the far left literature and existential philosophy down and watch more anime

I'm a Puppy! · « **Reply #13682 on:** April 02, 2020, 12:30:40 PM »

bluemax · « **Reply #13683 on:** April 02, 2020, 04:34:57 PM »

Matched on Tuesday with a girl on OKCupid, had a nice short conversation (we were both watching the same Twitch music stream).

Today she messages me and tells me she might have COVID, or at least pneumonia and said she's probably going to just sleep for a few days.

I hope for her sake it is not Corona and that she recovers quickly from whatever it is (and yes I told her this I'm not a jerk).

Ghoul · « **Reply #13684 on:** April 02, 2020, 04:36:28 PM »

Quote from: bluemax on April 02, 2020, 04:34:57 PM

Matched on Tuesday with a girl on OKCupid, had a nice short conversation (we were both watching the same Twitch music stream).

Today she messages me and tells me she might have COVID, or at least pneumonia and said she's probably going to just sleep for a few days.

I hope for her sake it is not Corona and that she recovers quickly from whatever it is (and yes I told her this I'm not a jerk).

Should have said, wanna share the load?

bluemax · « **Reply #13685 on:** April 03, 2020, 02:29:13 PM »

Good news, she messaged me today! No worsening symptoms!

shosta · « **Reply #13686 on:** April 03, 2020, 02:30:54 PM »

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #13687 on:** April 03, 2020, 02:46:19 PM »

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Nabbis · « **Reply #13688 on:** April 03, 2020, 04:57:01 PM »

Man, holy shit did i get played.

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I dunno if anyone still remembers but basically started dating a girl i met on a cruise. She seemed super into it and it was i who was a little sceptical at first. We kept dating, spend some nights together and did basically bf/gf stuff. This went on for about 3 months. Just as i warmed up a bit comes a 180 attitude change where she aint sure if she wants to commit but could still see each other. Im pretty chill with it, i mean sure, things change etc. I take some distance. Sounds pretty normal so far.

Now, after two weeks i pretty much had enough and started setting up dates. I told her i don't do exclusivity if shes unsure or does not want to continue etc. The response was priceless "Yeah, sure i can't ask that from you. We were never in a realtionship anyway so it does not matter". Now i dunno if she will come around or not and at this point i would not act on it even if she did.

I had casual flings and FWBs, what we two did was far more then i do in those situations. So believe me if i say that the illusion seemed very real.

Dunno if there's any point to this story but it kinda fucks with me that a woman can be so into you and still do a colossal attitude change all of a sudden. Never seen anything like this before.

tiesto · « **Reply #13689 on:** April 03, 2020, 05:47:54 PM »

Sorry, Nabbis - yeah I've seen the total change in attitude from before... it sucks when it happens, I feel ya.

I assume since you two met on a cruise, that this was somewhat of a long distance situation? It's usually the long distance relationships where I've found the "change on a dime" attitude to occur.

Nabbis · « **Reply #13690 on:** April 03, 2020, 06:28:36 PM »

Yeah, thanks. Just gotta lower the expectations on stuff, i guess. I can really only blame this on myself in the end. It's a 3h train ride, but it would not have been a long distance thing for long though due to various reasons.

toku · « **Reply #13691 on:** April 05, 2020, 11:49:40 AM »

you will make it out the desert mashallah

VomKriege · « **Reply #13692 on:** April 05, 2020, 05:50:40 PM »

Wow a match that actually messages. In a style not too dissimilar with some of the shit we do here. That one may be actually promising.

Raist · « **Reply #13693 on:** April 06, 2020, 02:55:52 AM »

OK, which one of you is catfishing Vom.

shosta · « **Reply #13694 on:** April 06, 2020, 02:56:29 AM »

Quote from: VomKriege on April 05, 2020, 05:50:40 PM

Wow a match that actually messages. In a style not too dissimilar with some of the shit we do here.

that is a HUGE turnoff

team filler · « **Reply #13695 on:** April 06, 2020, 02:58:24 AM »

fematra rides again!

Ghoul · « **Reply #13696 on:** April 06, 2020, 08:54:46 AM »

Quote from: Raist on April 06, 2020, 02:55:52 AM

OK, which one of you is catfishing Vom.

Glenda.

bluemax · « **Reply #13697 on:** April 07, 2020, 07:55:10 PM »

I'm going to take part in the quarantine equivalent of speed dating via CMB tonight. Wish me luck bros.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #13698 on:** April 07, 2020, 09:01:05 PM »

Quote from: bluemax on April 07, 2020, 07:55:10 PM

I'm going to take part in the quarantine equivalent of speed dating via CMB tonight. Wish me luck bros.

Break the ice by saying you've been practicing for it on chatroulete.

bluemax · « **Reply #13699 on:** April 07, 2020, 11:55:41 PM »

This whole thing was super weird and awkward, but I guess it wasn't too much different from going to a party where you don't know everyone. Just less booze.

Nabbis · « **Reply #13700 on:** April 08, 2020, 12:29:17 PM »

So... Cruise girls want to come over tomorrow. I don't understand why she wants to spend time and money on this.

Meh, women.

Already had my first Tinder date(yay) and it was a disaster. I had no chemistry with her and just froze my ass outside. Im not really feeling motivated to message my matches and try to set something up cause everything is closed and it's kinda creepy to invite them over first without seeing them. Skype or some other crap could work first but like i said, im not very motivated atm. Tbh this is a pain in the ass even if you match with people you like appearance wise, im glad i stayed out of online stuff before and just stuck to events/bars.

bluemax · « **Reply #13701 on:** April 08, 2020, 12:44:18 PM »

I am absolutely not considering this time as a point when I'm gonna meet someone to date. I put on all my profiles that I am okay with just finding someone to talk to for whatever amount of time the conversation lasts. It's kind of a good low-stakes period to just converse and figure yourself out and what you might be looking for. Given that we are at least a month away from even a few things opening in California, this feels like the safest approach.

Also, of course I'm still getting through my breakup, so just putting myself out there with no expectations attached is helping.

Bebpo · « **Reply #13702 on:** April 09, 2020, 06:49:09 PM »

I was on okc last night and a cute girl liked my profile and she had a rabbit.

I like pets, but thought about this and a rabbit is bigger dealbreaker than almost anything outside smoking. Like even if the person was amazing, you gotta have a rabbit running around your place shitting everywhere all the time eating all your cables? Yeah, I just can't. (btw this is my experience of rabbit pets from friends who have rabbit pets).

team filler · « **Reply #13703 on:** April 09, 2020, 06:52:07 PM »

bebps is high maintenance

Bebpo · « **Reply #13704 on:** April 09, 2020, 08:25:43 PM »

Quote from: riotous on April 09, 2020, 06:54:25 PM

Rabbits live in cages and then you take them out to play outside if you aren’t a weird fecal freak.

They are fucking adorable too

Her photos are the rabbit running uncaged around eating all her stuff.

I’ve known two people with rabbits and their places always stank. They just don’t seem like good pets.

shosta · « **Reply #13705 on:** April 09, 2020, 08:31:43 PM »

They only live for two years. Deal with the rabbits or be alone!

nachobro · « **Reply #13706 on:** April 09, 2020, 08:37:31 PM »

rabbits and ferrets are both

bluemax · « **Reply #13707 on:** April 09, 2020, 09:07:51 PM »

I dunno, this former coworker of mine has at least one rabbit and judging from her pics and vids on Instagram her place looks pretty clean. Actually thinking on it, another former coworker of mine had a rabbit as well and his place was very clean and didn't smell.

I think it just depends on the owner. My ex had 4 cats and if you didn't seem them or the cat furniture you wouldn't have known it.

Tripon · « **Reply #13708 on:** April 09, 2020, 10:52:36 PM »

I had rabbits growing up, and I took care of a former roommate's rabbit for a couple of months. They poop like crazy.

Ghoul · « **Reply #13709 on:** April 10, 2020, 12:17:21 AM »

Yeah I had a rabbit and they shit loads and piss everywhere whilst chewing absolutely anything they can get their teeth on, also when my one died the fit they have before they do is terrifying, wasn’t cool to see as a 12 year old.

Raist · « **Reply #13710 on:** April 10, 2020, 02:07:18 AM »

Quote from: Bebpo on April 09, 2020, 06:49:09 PM

I was on okc last night and a cute girl liked my profile and she had a rabbit.

I like pets, but thought about this and a rabbit is bigger dealbreaker than almost anything outside smoking. Like even if the person was amazing, you gotta have a rabbit running around your place shitting everywhere all the time eating all your cables? Yeah, I just can't. (btw this is my experience of rabbit pets from friends who have rabbit pets).

Counter point: rabbits are delicious.

team filler · « **Reply #13711 on:** April 10, 2020, 02:08:44 AM »

had some rabbit tacos about a month ago. a bit overpriced for tacos, but overall worth it

VomKriege · « **Reply #13712 on:** April 10, 2020, 02:10:40 AM »

Quote from: Raist on April 10, 2020, 02:07:18 AM

Quote from: Bebpo on April 09, 2020, 06:49:09 PM
I was on okc last night and a cute girl liked my profile and she had a rabbit.

I like pets, but thought about this and a rabbit is bigger dealbreaker than almost anything outside smoking. Like even if the person was amazing, you gotta have a rabbit running around your place shitting everywhere all the time eating all your cables? Yeah, I just can't. (btw this is my experience of rabbit pets from friends who have rabbit pets).

Counter point: rabbits are delicious.

Cute rabbit ! Do you have any mustard ?

Bebpo · « **Reply #13713 on:** April 10, 2020, 03:27:57 AM »

Quote from: Raist on April 10, 2020, 02:07:18 AM

Quote from: Bebpo on April 09, 2020, 06:49:09 PM
I was on okc last night and a cute girl liked my profile and she had a rabbit.

I like pets, but thought about this and a rabbit is bigger dealbreaker than almost anything outside smoking. Like even if the person was amazing, you gotta have a rabbit running around your place shitting everywhere all the time eating all your cables? Yeah, I just can't. (btw this is my experience of rabbit pets from friends who have rabbit pets).

Counter point: rabbits are delicious.

Feel like chances of a second date are low if you eat their pet.

Raist · « **Reply #13714 on:** April 10, 2020, 05:04:54 AM »

Quote from: Bebpo on April 10, 2020, 03:27:57 AM

Quote from: Raist on April 10, 2020, 02:07:18 AM
Quote from: Bebpo on April 09, 2020, 06:49:09 PM
I was on okc last night and a cute girl liked my profile and she had a rabbit.

I like pets, but thought about this and a rabbit is bigger dealbreaker than almost anything outside smoking. Like even if the person was amazing, you gotta have a rabbit running around your place shitting everywhere all the time eating all your cables? Yeah, I just can't. (btw this is my experience of rabbit pets from friends who have rabbit pets).

Counter point: rabbits are delicious.

Feel like chances of a second date are low if you eat their pet.

Yes, BUT

Rabbits are delicious.

team filler · « **Reply #13715 on:** April 10, 2020, 05:12:37 AM »

Quote from: Bebpo on April 10, 2020, 03:27:57 AM

Quote from: Raist on April 10, 2020, 02:07:18 AM
Quote from: Bebpo on April 09, 2020, 06:49:09 PM
I was on okc last night and a cute girl liked my profile and she had a rabbit.

I like pets, but thought about this and a rabbit is bigger dealbreaker than almost anything outside smoking. Like even if the person was amazing, you gotta have a rabbit running around your place shitting everywhere all the time eating all your cables? Yeah, I just can't. (btw this is my experience of rabbit pets from friends who have rabbit pets).

Counter point: rabbits are delicious.

Feel like chances of a second date are low if you eat their pet.

forget the girl, you're only in this for the delicious rabbit now

rabbit>stank rona pussy

team filler · « **Reply #13716 on:** April 10, 2020, 05:16:43 AM »

https://www.instagram.com/p/B8nbphJl8Cv/

VomKriege · « **Reply #13717 on:** April 10, 2020, 05:20:41 AM »

I want some rabbit to eat now.

VomKriege · « **Reply #13718 on:** April 23, 2020, 03:32:06 PM »

Love can bloom on the battlefield but less so in a pandemic.

Quote from: VomKriege on April 05, 2020, 05:50:40 PM

Wow a match that actually messages. In a style not too dissimilar with some of the shit we do here. That one may be actually promising.

Not so promising after all. We exchanged a dozens or more messages initially (including Ghana pallbearers) but she didn't pickup on the last message. I guess I could try talking cinema because she loves it but honestly... Not really in the mood for it. Pen palling without any IRL meeting in sight (we're still 2-3 weeks away from restrictions being eased) is not motivating to me. Or it has to really click, which is obviously not the case here.

Quote from: VomKriege on March 18, 2020, 04:46:52 PM

In the grand GAFERA tradition, I'll now ignore all convergent advice and message my crush in LinkedIn.

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Nah you're all right. Would be dumb.
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I have to confess that 10 days later I did send a message, idle hands invite the devil and all that. Now in my defense, last time we met and discussed a bit I did suggest, if the lockdown was to last long I might drop in a message on LinkedIn for "professional news" and that didn't seem to bother her, quite the contrary. I kept it very simple, saying I kept getting work, hoping she was doing fine. She confirmed she went down south to stay in with her parents, thought I was really lucky to work while she was bored to tears, we wished each other well for the rest of the lockdown and left it at that. The employer we work at is currently planning on reopening (though they didn't officially told us so yet) so I could follow up but I'll wait to see if I get some planning there early May, I'd rather offer her a coffee. She did not suggest to take the discussion elsewhere so I'm lukewarm about a there being there.

Valkyrie · « **Reply #13719 on:** April 23, 2020, 07:12:32 PM »

Get stalked irl by Tinder incels who sends you pics of yourself getting on and off the bus, brehs

VomKriege · « **Reply #13720 on:** April 23, 2020, 07:26:11 PM »

Quote from: Valkyrie on April 23, 2020, 07:12:32 PM

Get stalked irl by Tinder incels who sends you pics of yourself getting on and off the bus, brehs

Obviously keep some archive and info to report if need be.

StealthFan · « **Reply #13721 on:** April 23, 2020, 07:30:25 PM »

Quote from: Valkyrie on April 23, 2020, 07:12:32 PM

Get stalked irl by Tinder incels who sends you pics of yourself getting on and off the bus, brehs

team filler · « **Reply #13722 on:** April 23, 2020, 08:34:35 PM »

tinder incels need BBC

do they know your thebore.com account

bluemax · « **Reply #13723 on:** April 23, 2020, 09:07:20 PM »

Quote from: bluemax on April 03, 2020, 02:29:13 PM

Good news, she messaged me today! No worsening symptoms!

Have not heard from her in awhile. No biggie. I did hit up this girl I matched with a long time ago and got some responses. I feel like if the lockdown wasn't happening I would see if she was free this weekend, so I don't really know where to go with it next, but I feel like a girl who tells you that the Tale of games are among her all time favorites is probably worth waiting for ;-)

team filler · « **Reply #13724 on:** April 23, 2020, 09:21:20 PM »

protect valk at all costs

remy · « **Reply #13725 on:** April 23, 2020, 09:25:16 PM »

Quote from: Valkyrie on April 23, 2020, 07:12:32 PM

Get stalked irl by Tinder incels who sends you pics of yourself getting on and off the bus, brehs

Fuckin whoa

BIONIC · « **Reply #13726 on:** April 23, 2020, 09:47:03 PM »

Quote from: filler on April 23, 2020, 09:21:20 PM

protect valk at all costs

filler: a simp denied his message board date

chronovore · « **Reply #13727 on:** April 23, 2020, 11:02:15 PM »

Quote from: Valkyrie on April 23, 2020, 07:12:32 PM

Get stalked irl by Tinder incels who sends you pics of yourself getting on and off the bus, brehs

That's insanely creepy. Have you spoken with the police?

Raist · « **Reply #13728 on:** April 24, 2020, 09:22:34 AM »

wtf Valk

Quote from: chronovore on April 23, 2020, 11:02:15 PM

Quote from: Valkyrie on April 23, 2020, 07:12:32 PM
Get stalked irl by Tinder incels who sends you pics of yourself getting on and off the bus, brehs

That's insanely creepy. Have you spoken with the police?

Yes, this x100

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #13729 on:** April 24, 2020, 10:52:07 PM »

Dude I would shit myself so hard that’s scary

team filler · « **Reply #13730 on:** April 24, 2020, 11:17:50 PM »

Quote from: ExoYZA on April 24, 2020, 11:06:38 PM

Sorry that happened to ya, val. Hope you're staying safe and being careful.

On a lighter note: I got the "miss you" drunk ex text for once! I was the recipient and I got to turn the bitch down. Felt so good!

"I belong to da skreetz"

bluemax · « **Reply #13731 on:** April 24, 2020, 11:19:26 PM »

Quote from: bluemax on April 23, 2020, 09:07:20 PM

Quote from: bluemax on April 03, 2020, 02:29:13 PM
Good news, she messaged me today! No worsening symptoms!

Have not heard from her in awhile. No biggie. I did hit up this girl I matched with a long time ago and got some responses. I feel like if the lockdown wasn't happening I would see if she was free this weekend, so I don't really know where to go with it next, but I feel like a girl who tells you that the Tale of games are among her all time favorites is probably worth waiting for ;-)

Lulz, showed up to my friend's weekly Zoom happy hour. 10 minutes or so in... the lawyer lady joins. I messaged her on OKC and said "Are we in the same zoom happy hour?" and a minute later she asks "is there anyone named myrealname here?". So that's fun.

BIONIC · « **Reply #13732 on:** April 25, 2020, 02:08:06 AM »

Quote from: ExoYZA on April 24, 2020, 11:06:38 PM

Sorry that happened to ya, val. Hope you're staying safe and being careful.

On a lighter note: I got the "miss you" drunk ex text for once! I was the recipient and I got to turn the bitch down. Felt so good!

Have enough self-respect and self-esteem to pass on free pussy brehs

bluemax · « **Reply #13733 on:** April 25, 2020, 05:25:18 PM »

Quote from: bluemax on April 24, 2020, 11:19:26 PM

Quote from: bluemax on April 23, 2020, 09:07:20 PM
Quote from: bluemax on April 03, 2020, 02:29:13 PM
Good news, she messaged me today! No worsening symptoms!

Have not heard from her in awhile. No biggie. I did hit up this girl I matched with a long time ago and got some responses. I feel like if the lockdown wasn't happening I would see if she was free this weekend, so I don't really know where to go with it next, but I feel like a girl who tells you that the Tale of games are among her all time favorites is probably worth waiting for ;-)

Lulz, showed up to my friend's weekly Zoom happy hour. 10 minutes or so in... the lawyer lady joins. I messaged her on OKC and said "Are we in the same zoom happy hour?" and a minute later she asks "is there anyone named myrealname here?". So that's fun.

After sleeping on it, I don't really know what to do next or if I even do anything. Blech.

Rufus · « **Reply #13734 on:** April 25, 2020, 06:31:02 PM »

Binging this guy's videos currently. Thought I'd drop this one here, since it seems useful. Ignore the title, most if it ends up being general advice.

tiesto · « **Reply #13735 on:** April 25, 2020, 06:32:00 PM »

Quote from: Rufus on April 25, 2020, 06:31:02 PM

Binging this guy's videos currently. Thought I'd drop this one here, since it seems useful.

Holy shit, I've been watching his videos too recently. I watched the incel related ones in particular.

VomKriege · « **Reply #13736 on:** May 02, 2020, 10:59:01 AM »

Been getting a few likes in OKcupid and a couple of matches who don't talk.

With lockdown coming closer to being relaxed, I shot back a message to coveted coworker, had a response inviting more details. We'll see where this goes.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #13737 on:** May 02, 2020, 11:39:33 AM »

What have I missed in the last few seasons, brehs

toku · « **Reply #13738 on:** May 02, 2020, 11:43:37 AM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on May 02, 2020, 11:39:33 AM

What have I missed in the last few seasons, brehs

lust, lies, and lamentations

team filler · « **Reply #13739 on:** May 02, 2020, 03:32:36 PM »

p big cliffhanger with valk getting stalked irl

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