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« Reply #14460 on: April 25, 2021, 07:53:46 PM »
Also I'm too old for everyone on here :\

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« Reply #14461 on: April 25, 2021, 07:59:50 PM »
I also feel like there's a lot higher chance of getting murdered on this site.

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« Reply #14462 on: April 26, 2021, 12:33:12 AM »
So I may have spent $150 to message that person on the previous page  :doge

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« Reply #14463 on: April 26, 2021, 07:31:14 AM »
I also feel like there's a lot higher chance of getting murdered on this site.

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So I may have spent $150 to message that person on the previous page  :doge

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« Reply #14464 on: April 26, 2021, 07:53:31 AM »
So I may have spent $150 to message that person on the previous page  :doge

Add "sound financial decisions" to your dating profile.

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« Reply #14465 on: April 26, 2021, 11:21:38 AM »
It takes money to lose money
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« Reply #14466 on: April 27, 2021, 03:12:06 AM »
So the ironic part of this all is gonna be that the one person I signed up to send a message to probably bailed from the site and never even saw my message. I don't think SA shows read receipts on messages, but it shows profile views and I've gotten like 100+ views and like 25 messages but nada from that person.

If I don't hear anything back by the weekend I guess I'll make some use out of the rest of this one month sub and try talking to someone else.

One thing I've noticed is that there's definitely some attractive and interesting people on here, but most of them are the same type of people that I'd meet on other dating sites and if they were on a different site I'd probably throw them a message since they seem cool, but I wouldn't want to do it on SA because of the implications.

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« Reply #14468 on: April 28, 2021, 12:01:12 AM »
So I forgot which of y'all were using and talking about SA last year, but how does this work? If someone messages you and wants to set up a date somewhere but in their profile they say given the nature of the site it should be mutually beneficial, like what are they expecting? Buying things for them on a date? Taking them to a nice restaurant and taking care of the bill? The latter seems pretty normal to me in dating, but the former isn't really something I've ever done and I don't want to be taken advantage of. Not sure how to approach this. I'm getting a looot of messages and there's been a couple nice messages from women with cool profiles.

I haven't replied to anyone yet, and had a couple people rage quit, but I wanna figure things out so I don't waste anyone's time before replying.

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« Reply #14469 on: April 28, 2021, 01:43:32 AM »
Also have you ever gotten a message or like on a dating app (not SA, normal dating apps) from someone with an impressive resume before?

I just got a like on one of the dating apps from someone that is like the equivalent of like VP of Marvel Studios. I'm kind of flattered....and kind of interested.

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« Reply #14470 on: April 28, 2021, 02:27:03 AM »
she's gonna dom you  :rash
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« Reply #14471 on: April 29, 2021, 09:32:54 PM »
you should definitely just jump into a date with one of the sugar babies you find the most sexy and go from there. you're wealthy enough to figure it out on the fly. swing that BDE bebs
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« Reply #14472 on: April 30, 2021, 06:03:45 AM »
So the ironic part of this all is gonna be that the one person I signed up to send a message to probably bailed from the site and never even saw my message. I don't think SA shows read receipts on messages, but it shows profile views and I've gotten like 100+ views and like 25 messages but nada from that person.

If I don't hear anything back by the weekend I guess I'll make some use out of the rest of this one month sub and try talking to someone else.

One thing I've noticed is that there's definitely some attractive and interesting people on here, but most of them are the same type of people that I'd meet on other dating sites and if they were on a different site I'd probably throw them a message since they seem cool, but I wouldn't want to do it on SA because of the implications.

The implication is the best part  :sicko
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« Reply #14473 on: April 30, 2021, 02:44:35 PM »
In casual conversation with friends or whatever, do you guys say plenty of bad things about your significant other? To the point that a friend could say theyíve never heard you say anything positive about them?

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« Reply #14474 on: April 30, 2021, 02:56:23 PM »
You mean do people vent about their relationships with their friends? Yeah, thatís normal.

And itís true a lot of people donít do the opposite and gush about their relationships to their friends so from the friend perspective it can come off mostly negative.

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« Reply #14475 on: May 02, 2021, 05:07:25 AM »
Do you guys usually find youíre SO to be the most attractive person or do you find other people more attractive then whoever youíre with?

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« Reply #14476 on: May 02, 2021, 05:26:58 AM »
Do you guys usually find youíre SO to be the most attractive person or do you find other people more attractive then whoever youíre with?

There are many beautiful people in the world, of course some will be better looking than any given current partner. Who you choose to be with is ideally based on more than just physical attraction.

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« Reply #14477 on: May 02, 2021, 06:42:57 AM »
I perhaps somewhat unhealthily do not complain about my gf to my friends ever  :doge Even when she really pisses me off. I normally try to keep it real whenever possible but for some reason don't feel right telling other people about my dirty laundry  :doge

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« Reply #14478 on: May 02, 2021, 06:35:39 PM »
You mean do people vent about their relationships with their friends? Yeah, thatís normal.

And itís true a lot of people donít do the opposite and gush about their relationships to their friends so from the friend perspective it can come off mostly negative.

this is what i first thought haha. i know people who bitch about their partners and they get characterized by their friends as being in unhealthy relationships. im sure there are good things, but yeah, it's not usual for people prone to bitching to balance it with positive comments.
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« Reply #14479 on: May 02, 2021, 08:47:18 PM »
Yeah, I remember when a friend was getting married and all of his friends including me told him it was a bad idea because all we ever heard about her when getting drinks with him was him complaining about her for five years or so.

But a decade later they're super happy and have kids and everything and so she problem wasn't a bad fit, it just seemed like that because all we heard were negatives.

When I'm in relationships I'll vent from time to time, but yeah I normally don't tell my friends like "my gf is so awesome and amazing because of x/y/z", so I never really thought about it but that definitely makes it appear like there's only negatives to friends. I'll keep that in mind to say more positive stuff about the good things next relationship.

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« Reply #14480 on: May 02, 2021, 11:18:55 PM »
you should definitely just jump into a date with one of the sugar babies you find the most sexy and go from there. you're wealthy enough to figure it out on the fly. swing that BDE bebs

I haven't logged onto SA for a week, a little under 3 weeks left of my $99 first month.

Been focusing on getting my life back on track somewhat and getting over some health stuff keeping me down. I definitely jumped the gun on SA, I was meaning to just browse around but I saw a girl I was interested in and pulled the trigger on a 1 month + $50 background check. I probably shouldn't have touched SA until I was at a place where I was comfortable and ready to date.

I'm allllmost there. Got a lot done this weekend and health is sorta improving. I think I might end up paying another $99 and giving it two months because once I'm up for dating and starting to go on dates on other apps like Hinge/Bumble/OKC I might try just some quick hookups on SA for the thrill of it and to get it out of my system so I'm less horny on dates since it's been like 1.5 years since my last dating.

But I also feel like with SA I'd only hookup at hotels. I wouldn't feel comfortable with someone in it for the money knowing where I live, maybe it's paranoid but just feels like could be prime for break ins and stuff.

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« Reply #14481 on: May 03, 2021, 12:45:18 AM »
p sure your prized DS collection will be safe  ;)
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« Reply #14482 on: May 03, 2021, 11:39:03 AM »
Wedding venue shopping fucking sucks... a lot of the venues near me are super tacky and guido (and I've been to a lot of weddings, they all end up being at the same 2-3 places because the rest are even worse), and it seems that everything even somewhat unique and interesting is way out of our price ranges. And not to mention the whole specter of covid looming over everything (we are gonna wait till 2022, maybe even 2023, but who knows what will happen then?)
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« Reply #14483 on: May 03, 2021, 02:06:07 PM »
Do they have venues at historical parks near you? My friends did theirs at a low key park and it was the opposite of pretentious. Just like in the woods.

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« Reply #14484 on: May 03, 2021, 05:41:26 PM »
Wedding venue shopping fucking sucks... a lot of the venues near me are super tacky and guido (and I've been to a lot of weddings, they all end up being at the same 2-3 places because the rest are even worse), and it seems that everything even somewhat unique and interesting is way out of our price ranges. And not to mention the whole specter of covid looming over everything (we are gonna wait till 2022, maybe even 2023, but who knows what will happen then?)

I have a friend that got married at a ymca summer camp and it was a lot of fun
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« Reply #14486 on: May 04, 2021, 03:19:25 PM »
Still dating Belt Daddy, and heís absolutely wonderful.

Damn, is this what a non-toxic relationship feels

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« Reply #14487 on: May 05, 2021, 09:05:29 AM »
This has been my life in the past 3 months: Dad died of cancer, Separated from wife of 20 years, turned 47, Changed jobs after 23 years, got  back in shape(again),  fell in lust with a nympho (age appropriate). 

Still not sure how long I can fake that I want sex every day. But I'm enjoying the ride.



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« Reply #14488 on: May 09, 2021, 09:31:52 PM »
Guys it appears my ex is engaged???

She moved away one year ago this week.

Does this mean shes not coming back
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« Reply #14489 on: May 10, 2021, 08:59:20 PM »
Your avatar's expression is really fitting for those questions.

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« Reply #14490 on: May 10, 2021, 09:17:09 PM »
Your avatar's expression is really fitting for those questions.

Me finding out via instagram

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Me 5 minutes later

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20 minutes later

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30 minutes

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40 minutes

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Today

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« Reply #14491 on: May 12, 2021, 07:34:26 PM »
The person she is engaged with is a woman
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« Reply #14493 on: May 13, 2021, 04:02:39 AM »
The person she is engaged with is a woman
hot  ???
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« Reply #14494 on: May 15, 2021, 09:10:56 PM »
I'm kinda worried I'm gonna fall for any girl I meet up with on SA. I haven't been messaging with hot superficial people because it feels too superficial and I'm demisexual so I just can't do hookups without getting to know someone first and getting feelings anyway. Instead I've been talking to the same type of normal looks, closer to my preferred but not creepy age range (~5-10 years younger),  people who share some similar interests. Basically the same people I talk with on normal dating sites, except the girls here have been a lot nicer and better at forming full sentences (you wouldn't believe some of the conversations I've had lately on normal dating sites, like people can't even spell anymore).

But because I'm treating this site like a normal dating site I just know if I go on a few dates with someone who is cool and we hit it off and things go well, I'm gonna fall pretty hard and be looking for a LTR, which I know is a bad idea for this site, but maybe it'll work out?

Probably going to go on my first date this week. Starting to feel a little healthier and up to going on a date.

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« Reply #14495 on: May 16, 2021, 07:30:57 AM »
I'm now a daddy Dom to a wonderful MILF that's into all sorts of awesome kink stuff. Healthiest and most warm relationship I've ever been in. Found out my ex still finds me fuckable and has the same feelings for me, but we can't resume the relationship due to circumstances. Which is validating and comforting, since we can pick up where left off potentially, and all my partners being poly, means I have multiple experiences and people to make love with.

Relationship wise, my life has been the best it's ever been.  :)
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« Reply #14497 on: May 16, 2021, 08:51:50 PM »
Welp date is asking for PPM, dream of true love relationship on SA is ded

Anyone familiar with this stuff, can you DM me. I donít get how this works.

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« Reply #14498 on: May 16, 2021, 09:05:50 PM »
You deserve better Beb

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« Reply #14499 on: May 17, 2021, 12:02:07 PM »
Anyhow I was very naÔve about this whole site. I thought it was just like normal dating except the women expect fancy $$$ dates.

Now I see that this is essentially an escort service site  :(

Otoh, this has motivated me to get back to the normal dating apps like Bumble/Hinge and start putting some real effort there. Need to get a better headshot first though. Might actually hit up a photographer friend for the first time to get something semi-professional until I'm back out socially with friends and get some good recent photos.

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« Reply #14500 on: May 17, 2021, 01:18:21 PM »
Welp date is asking for PPM, dream of true love relationship on SA is ded

Anyone familiar with this stuff, can you DM me. I donít get how this works.

Maybe she meant Pounding Per Minute

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« Reply #14501 on: May 17, 2021, 01:24:54 PM »
Anyhow I was very naÔve about this whole site. I thought it was just like normal dating except the women expect fancy $$$ dates.

Now I see that this is essentially an escort service site  :(

Otoh, this has motivated me to get back to the normal dating apps like Bumble/Hinge and start putting some real effort there. Need to get a better headshot first though. Might actually hit up a photographer friend for the first time to get something semi-professional until I'm back out socially with friends and get some good recent photos.

Professional or semi pro shots are a big turn off to some on dating sites so be careful when using them!

Hope all goes well man. SA does seem like some weird sugar baby shit.

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« Reply #14502 on: May 17, 2021, 02:46:07 PM »
Interesting, never heard that before.

Yeah, my problem is I haven't been out socially since before the pandemic so I got nothing but selfies for 14 months and selfies are a big turn off too. Don't want to catfish my dates with only pre-pandemic photos where I'm 25 pounds heavier and have short clean hair.

As I get back out I'll get some new photos eventually, so this is just an interim issue. I noticed on dating sites the second I put up some recent selfies my matches/likes dropped to close to zero lol, I don't think the long hair look on guys is appealing, either that or selfies.

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« Reply #14503 on: May 17, 2021, 07:11:43 PM »
Interesting, never heard that before.

Yeah, my problem is I haven't been out socially since before the pandemic so I got nothing but selfies for 14 months and selfies are a big turn off too. Don't want to catfish my dates with only pre-pandemic photos where I'm 25 pounds heavier and have short clean hair.

As I get back out I'll get some new photos eventually, so this is just an interim issue. I noticed on dating sites the second I put up some recent selfies my matches/likes dropped to close to zero lol, I don't think the long hair look on guys is appealing, either that or selfies.

Pay for one of the SA girls to take a bunch of photos of you.
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« Reply #14504 on: May 25, 2021, 12:14:51 AM »
Been in a bit of a funk after some confidence hits last week.

Went out with my friend for the day mid last week. I've known her a year online and texting, but was first time meeting up in person because the pandemic. Was just friend hangout and seemed normal? But after a year of texting almost daily she's kind of ghosted me since and it makes me feel like I did something wrong? I don't know what's up. It wasn't a date and you don't typically ghost friends after a hang out...

Then the next day I went on my SA date, drove to another city far, far away. We met up and...clicked pretty well? Like we both were into horror films and eastern languages (she was a Korean major and me with my Japanese major and we both lived overseas) and pretty progressive and political. We had some really good discussions and she seemed pretty into me and brought up a second date a couple times in our date.

It turned out that she signed up for SA when drunk with her friends since one friend uses the site and was talking about it to her and I was the only guy she talked to since all the rest of the guys were creepy and old and treated her like a prostitute and I just talked to her normal like a normal dating site, and this was her first date on the site and she didn't know what she was doing and I didn't know either and we both laughed about it and got along.

At the end of the date she made the first move and we made out. She's leaving the country in a few months and I'm looking for something long-term/marriage-minded, so it seemed like maybe it'd just be a short-term thing that could work for both of us. When we were leaving she had totally forgot about the pay-per-meet thing and was gonna leave without asking for any money but I stopped her and gave her the money cause we had agreed on it beforehand and I didn't want to act like I was gonna stiff her. Gave her a little extra just to be nice.

She invited me to hang the rest of the night with her friends at karaoke, but the idea of karaoke in a small enclosed room with strangers given covid seemed like a bad idea so I passed. She texted me drunk photos that night from karaoke. Seemed like she was into me? She didn't look like her photos which were obviously pre-pandemic like mine. She had gained weight over the pandemic like lots of people and I'd say in terms of attractiveness she seemed like the kind of person that wouldn't get a lot of people hitting on her. She wasn't bad looking, but very normal. So I thought maybe she was actually interested in me and having a good time.

But then I didn't hear from her the next day and in the evening I texted her and she kinda half-assed texted me back and we texted very shortly and then I think she went to bed and never responded to my last text. That was Friday and it's almost Tuesday and I haven't heard from her since.

It's weird because I'd think if she was legit into me she'd be hitting me up. But otoh if she wasn't into me but saw me as an easy $$$ target...she'd still be hitting me up. So it almost seems like she was actually interested in me in a non-money way, but then just lost interest the next day like sometimes happens in dating and moved on. I did bring up on Friday that I'd like to see her again and she said she'd need to see her next work schedule to know when she's free. It's possible she's just not planning on texting me until then...

Anyhow, having two women that I thought I had connections with (friend & date) two days in a row last week both totally ghost on me over the weekend definitely hit me and knocked me into a depression by Sunday. Getting past it, but it just kinda sucks when I've been off-social for a year and half since the pandemic and then my first time hanging out with women I get ghosted afterwards like I just sucked so much. Just kinda hurts :\

I started talking to someone else and might go on a walk date on Saturday. Not really feeling it since my mind is still hung up on this dumb date from last week, but I'll get over it.


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« Reply #14505 on: May 25, 2021, 05:49:07 AM »
I would just get out there and become a serial dater, the friend is certainly a weird ghost, the SA one I think just seems like bit of a bitch tbh, lured you on in a way, you deffo should have just held back on the $$$.

But yeah man, just get out there. I think that'll do you more good than you just staying in and overthinking some silly shit. I would 100% expect some dumb drunk texts from SA one in the future....




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« Reply #14506 on: May 25, 2021, 11:06:22 AM »
Went out with my friend for the day mid last week. I've known her a year online and texting, but was first time meeting up in person because the pandemic. Was just friend hangout and seemed normal? But after a year of texting almost daily she's kind of ghosted me since and it makes me feel like I did something wrong? I don't know what's up. It wasn't a date and you don't typically ghost friends after a hang out...

Don't worry about it, this happens all the time. Just means you're butt ugly. Welcome to the club!

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At the end of the date she made the first move and we made out.

This is good.

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Is she Korean or just a massive weeb?

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« Reply #14507 on: May 25, 2021, 04:35:04 PM »
Bebpo, have you ever talked to a therapist? You seem to get stuck in your head a lot, and it might help.

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« Reply #14508 on: May 25, 2021, 06:01:14 PM »
Bebpo, have you ever talked to a therapist? You seem to get stuck in your head a lot, and it might help.

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8 years or so and counting. Yeah, therapy is good.

I mean I agree I'm in my head too much, but also weird shit consistently happens in my life and I dunno what to make of it.

Is she Korean or just a massive weeb?

Just a weeb.

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« Reply #14509 on: May 25, 2021, 09:53:02 PM »
You participated in a for-pay dating site, and encountered a woman who signed up at a for-pay dating site.

When someone goes to bars to meet people, they meet the type of people who go to bars.

Friend of mine went to a physical classroom to learn how to make a YouTube channel, which I thought sounded entirely redundant or ironic, but he ended up making a heap of new friends. We never know where we'll make new connections, and good relationships can come from unexpected sources, but you can definitely tweak the odds in your favor.

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« Reply #14510 on: May 25, 2021, 11:01:10 PM »
I think SA girl might have got pissed off you didn't go to kareoke  :doge hence the photos like "LOOK AT ALL THE FUN YOU'RE MISSING" and maybe got irritated you weren't bothered by it

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« Reply #14511 on: May 25, 2021, 11:08:49 PM »
seemed like bebp was the one keeping it business by giving the money when she didn't ask for it, then cut out early on her. sometimes you gotta make it happen when you can, bebp probably could have smashed that night tbh  :snoop
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« Reply #14512 on: May 25, 2021, 11:44:30 PM »
All very plausible. Though she didn't seem super eager to bring me to karaoke. She made plans with her friends for a couple hours after our date to karaoke, I'd assume as an exit strategy in case the date was going bad. She basically just let me know that and asked if I wanted to come and if so she'd ask her friends if that was alright.

But yeah, maybe she did want me to go. I dunno, my gut feeling is she just wasn't feeling it and like often in dating I read the other person wrong during the date itself.

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« Reply #14513 on: May 26, 2021, 12:19:25 AM »
i skimmed over the bit where you were slinging benjamins around  :-[

sa is a brave new world for me  :doge

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« Reply #14514 on: May 26, 2021, 12:47:22 AM »
All very plausible. Though she didn't seem super eager to bring me to karaoke. She made plans with her friends for a couple hours after our date to karaoke, I'd assume as an exit strategy in case the date was going bad. She basically just let me know that and asked if I wanted to come and if so she'd ask her friends if that was alright.

But yeah, maybe she did want me to go. I dunno, my gut feeling is she just wasn't feeling it and like often in dating I read the other person wrong during the date itself.

eh, if you were actually into her I think you would've gone out, and I'm sure if she invited you she really did mean she wanted you to come. you said yourself she made out with you at the end. i can imagine you detecting some hesitation from her at bringing a date along (especially an SA one) to a hang with friends (she said she'd check right), but it's also fun and you would've received a lot of attention.
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Re: RELATIONSHIPS: helping wizards deplete their mana since 2011
« Reply #14515 on: May 26, 2021, 09:04:09 AM »
Online dating sites/apps and the people you find on it are generally trash.  Online "friends" are just that, 9 times out of 10, once you meet IRL any spark you had will be snuffed out.

The weather's getting nice and people are vaccinated, get outside and meet people.


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« Reply #14516 on: May 26, 2021, 10:15:50 AM »
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« Reply #14517 on: May 26, 2021, 10:37:09 AM »
Filler is the 1 in 10.

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« Reply #14518 on: May 26, 2021, 10:45:07 AM »
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« Reply #14519 on: May 26, 2021, 03:36:37 PM »
Im pretty good IRL

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