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« Reply #840 on: September 30, 2017, 12:59:31 PM »
Can I get a Bobby update?
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« Reply #841 on: September 30, 2017, 01:10:04 PM »
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« Reply #842 on: September 30, 2017, 01:20:34 PM »
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« Reply #844 on: September 30, 2017, 01:59:33 PM »
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"New Rule:" it is now okay to punch Bill Maher.

He actually gave a shout out to "rule of law," the exact line of shit that Trump uses to come after immigrants. A liberal who doesn't realize how "rule of law" is a construct that enforces white supremacy is of use to no one except the right wing.

Sadly that video felt more like Tom was getting ganged up on by a bunch of milquetoast jackasses, not like "schooling" was going on.
http://m.neogaf.com/showpost.php?p=250508591
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« Reply #845 on: September 30, 2017, 02:13:11 PM »
Can I get a Bobby update?

https://mobile.twitter.com/bobbyrobertspdx

In Papi Babi Rabi's absence, let's ritualistically consume the content he's written on those links on his twitter profile.  I'll start:

Of Life, Loss, Princess Leia, and the Crushing Weight of 2016
https://fatboyroberts.wordpress.com/2017/05/30/of-life-loss-princess-leia-and-the-crushing-weight-of-2016/
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« Reply #846 on: September 30, 2017, 02:16:41 PM »
Wait, how is he affiliated with 80s All Over? I listen to that podcast and I haven't heard him on it at all. It's by a former AICNer (Drew McWeeny), so Bobby would probably find it #problematic.
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« Reply #847 on: September 30, 2017, 02:18:28 PM »
Wait, how is he affiliated with 80s All Over? I listen to that podcast and I haven't heard him on it at all. It's by a former AICNer (Drew McWeeny), so Bobby would probably find it #problematic.

Perhaps his social "justice" is a facade like with most SSWs?
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« Reply #848 on: September 30, 2017, 02:19:08 PM »
I don't see his name anywhere on the 80s All Over site. Maybe he -IS- Drew McWeeny.

EDIT:

"'80s All Over is co-created and co-owned by Drew McWeeny, Scott Weinberg, and Pretentious Hobo."

Huh, I've certainly never heard him on the podcast. If I did I wouldn't listen anymore.
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« Reply #849 on: September 30, 2017, 03:07:22 PM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=250460243&postcount=4068

What a piece of shit. It's a fucking Super Nintendo in 2017 that can only play 21 games  :crazy

This is a great idea. Scalpers are scum, I don't care what it is.
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« Reply #850 on: September 30, 2017, 03:36:21 PM »
Can I get a Bobby update?

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« Reply #851 on: September 30, 2017, 04:07:59 PM »
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« Reply #852 on: September 30, 2017, 04:55:27 PM »
https://mobile.twitter.com/bobbyrobertspdx/status/913856901607124992


https://mobile.twitter.com/bobbyrobertspdx/status/913865347693817856

https://mobile.twitter.com/bobbyrobertspdx/status/913868245454675968




He comes off as an utter twat even when talking to himself. Breh is obsessed with Star Wars yet has multiple tweets over the past few days complaining about people who only go see big budget Hollywood movies, complaining about originality, and comparing them to corporate food chains. Clearly he has no self awareness outside of GAF, either. 

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« Reply #853 on: September 30, 2017, 05:00:14 PM »

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« Reply #854 on: September 30, 2017, 05:17:54 PM »
https://mobile.twitter.com/bobbyrobertspdx/status/913856901607124992

He's the film critic equivalent of Cracker Barrel.

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« Reply #855 on: September 30, 2017, 05:30:37 PM »
Oh how he wants that verified checkmark.
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« Reply #857 on: September 30, 2017, 05:54:14 PM »
His arch-rival has a checkmark

https://twitter.com/JohnDiesattheEn

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« Reply #858 on: September 30, 2017, 06:11:48 PM »
Mod signal


http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=250523120&postcount=220

Attempt .  . .        . . .         . . .    failed.
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« Reply #859 on: September 30, 2017, 06:20:43 PM »
http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=1429313&page=1

Footage came out today that doesn't support Michale Bennett's story 100% an eeeeeeeveryone is offering the hottest of takes.
We've got:

Edited footage
MIchael Bennet lied!
All cops are racist
All cops lie
All cops have a low IQ
Having a high IQ doesn't absolve someone of being a racist
But the officers were minorities!
Minorities shouldn't kneel (?!)


Maybe there's not a lot to discuss on this incident but I'd sure not do it on GAF.

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« Reply #860 on: September 30, 2017, 06:24:33 PM »
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imo anyone who says there is sexual dimorphism in Homo Sapiens should be banned from neogaf. you can't build an inclusive, pro-discussion community while allowing these attitudes to exist.

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« Reply #861 on: September 30, 2017, 06:30:31 PM »
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« Reply #862 on: September 30, 2017, 06:31:14 PM »
What about sexual animorphism? :phil
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« Reply #863 on: September 30, 2017, 06:59:41 PM »
I don't see his name anywhere on the 80s All Over site. Maybe he -IS- Drew McWeeny.

EDIT:

"'80s All Over is co-created and co-owned by Drew McWeeny, Scott Weinberg, and Pretentious Hobo."

Huh, I've certainly never heard him on the podcast. If I did I wouldn't listen anymore.

The sound frequency is too high for the human ear to discern.

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« Reply #864 on: September 30, 2017, 08:53:19 PM »
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“Never believe that anti-Semites are completely unaware of the absurdity of their replies. They know that their remarks are frivolous, open to challenge. But they are amusing themselves, for it is their adversary who is obliged to use words responsibly, since he believes in words. The anti-Semites have the right to play. They even like to play with discourse for, by giving ridiculous reasons, they discredit the seriousness of their interlocutors. They delight in acting in bad faith, since they seek not to persuade by sound argument but to intimidate and disconcert. If you press them too closely, they will abruptly fall silent, loftily indicating by some phrase that the time for argument is past.”


― Jean Paul-Sartre

I'm seeing this a lot on gaf these days.  Is it really such a bad thing to talk to a nazi and get them the shut the fuck up?  Sounds like a net plus to me.
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« Reply #865 on: September 30, 2017, 10:39:07 PM »
Tbh, Bobby should really have a verified account.
Can someone offer him a verified bore account?
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« Reply #867 on: October 01, 2017, 03:52:59 AM »
Referring to Portland as "PDX" is somehow even worse than calling it "Rip city".
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« Reply #868 on: October 01, 2017, 04:10:23 AM »
Referring to Portland as "PDX" is somehow even worse than calling it "Rip city".
That's their airport's name, it's valid imo.
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« Reply #869 on: October 01, 2017, 04:50:16 AM »
You bums think I don't know that? It's just as dumb as calling LA "LAX".
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« Reply #870 on: October 01, 2017, 04:59:11 AM »
lax sounds like a street gang or mouth wash tbh

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« Reply #871 on: October 01, 2017, 08:20:05 AM »
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=1441211

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« Reply #872 on: October 01, 2017, 08:24:43 AM »
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« Reply #873 on: October 01, 2017, 08:48:55 AM »
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Don't support GamerGaters please folks.

K thanks bye.

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EDIT: Wait what, gamergater? Seriously?
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This shouldn't be a surprise...

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It's painfully obvious what kind of people wrote it, IMO.
Gamergaters.

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Disgusting.

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"Personality: Repressed Slut".

What the fuck is wrong with this game.
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Please tell me that isn't the actual description...

Edit: never mind just saw the photo, what the fuck.

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If you're going to buy trash, at least support ethical trash.

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« Reply #875 on: October 01, 2017, 09:27:32 AM »
fucking spoiler tag that shit

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« Reply #876 on: October 01, 2017, 09:29:36 AM »
I like how it's trying to fix the ears.

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« Reply #877 on: October 01, 2017, 10:45:41 AM »
Referring to Portland as "PDX" is somehow even worse than calling it "Rip city".
That's their airport's name, it's valid imo.

This. I call my town by the airport code at times.

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« Reply #878 on: October 01, 2017, 10:49:33 AM »
Referring to Portland as "PDX" is somehow even worse than calling it "Rip city".
That's their airport's name, it's valid imo.

This. I call my town by the airport code at times.

Where did it all go wrong for you?

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« Reply #879 on: October 01, 2017, 11:03:47 AM »

http://m.neogaf.com/showpost.php?p=250582997

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Is this considered a terrorist attack just because the man yelled Allah Akbar? It's horrible that two people died, but I feel like this kind of attacks are carried out by crazy/horrible people all the time. Seems like the label "terrorist attack" is a bit much.

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« Reply #880 on: October 01, 2017, 11:54:44 AM »
You don't have to be crazy to work here be a terrorist, but it sure helps!
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« Reply #881 on: October 01, 2017, 12:03:02 PM »
https://mobile.twitter.com/bobbyrobertspdx/status/913856901607124992

He's the film critic equivalent of Cracker Barrel.

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You've had a lot of quality posts, Joe, but I think this is your finest work. :lol I'm dying here. :rofl

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« Reply #883 on: October 01, 2017, 01:33:22 PM »
 NeoGAF: where cumming in a child's flute is hilarious, but a cartoon drawing of a Muslim woman is highly problematic.

http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?t=1441253&page=100000
http://m.neogaf.com/showthread.php?s=fe5c3b7a3bb0a2fc51940dafb77edf4f&p=250587752#post250587752

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« Reply #884 on: October 01, 2017, 01:59:11 PM »
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This thread is kind of going of the rails. Please make a new thread if there's any important developments to discuss. Going forward, regarding threads about politics / Trump, we're going to expect two things: 1) No assassination musing. This is going to catch you a very long ban. 2) No unsubstantial shitposting. If something like: "Fuck Trump and fuck his supporters" is all you have to offer, there's not really any need for you to post. We're eager to read your substantial criticism and and we welcome any discussion about newsworthy statements and actions of his. We don't really expect anyone to have warm feelings towards Trump, but we have to do something about the quality of discussion in our many Trump threads around here. We're not interested in being an emotional trash can for you guys. Stay focused. Contribute with substance.

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« Reply #885 on: October 01, 2017, 02:18:46 PM »
Seems even NeoGAF.com has finally fallen into the hands of Gamergate.

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« Reply #886 on: October 01, 2017, 02:20:33 PM »
Cracker Barrel is p good tho.  Robert Robertson is more like huddle house

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« Reply #887 on: October 01, 2017, 02:26:39 PM »
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And people love him for statements like this. “Some people only understand violence. Sometimes violence is the only answer”, my dad likes to say whenever North Korea comes up

Says a mod on a site where "violence is the answer" is the prevailing rhetoric  :lol

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« Reply #888 on: October 01, 2017, 02:32:22 PM »
Amazed it took 9 months for someone to step in and tell people to stop asking/wishing/hoping/talking about the sitting president of the United States to be killed on a daily basis. If Neogaf was as big as posters on Neogaf seem to think it is, those posters or Evilore would have been contacted months ago.

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« Reply #889 on: October 01, 2017, 02:36:59 PM »
Cracker Barrel :yuck
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« Reply #890 on: October 01, 2017, 02:48:18 PM »
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Should probably sticky this.

 :lol Yeah, right. I'm sure Lore will get right on that (Q1ish).
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« Reply #891 on: October 01, 2017, 03:47:48 PM »
Anyone with money has been banned on Gaf anyway.

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« Reply #892 on: October 01, 2017, 03:52:34 PM »
But then who will pay for Gaf Gold?

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« Reply #893 on: October 01, 2017, 04:00:15 PM »
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« Reply #894 on: October 01, 2017, 04:05:45 PM »
What a fucking loser

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« Reply #896 on: October 01, 2017, 04:07:09 PM »
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This thread is kind of going of the rails. Please make a new thread if there's any important developments to discuss. Going forward, regarding threads about politics / Trump, we're going to expect two things: 1) No assassination musing. This is going to catch you a very long ban. 2) No unsubstantial shitposting. If something like: "Fuck Trump and fuck his supporters" is all you have to offer, there's not really any need for you to post. We're eager to read your substantial criticism and and we welcome any discussion about newsworthy statements and actions of his. We don't really expect anyone to have warm feelings towards Trump, but we have to do something about the quality of discussion in our many Trump threads around here. We're not interested in being an emotional trash can for you guys. Stay focused. Contribute with substance.

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this shit will be applied for a week, tops, before going back to the normal "kill trump" "fuck trump" megathreads
otherwise it is just virtue signalling (about TRUMP?!?!?)

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« Reply #897 on: October 01, 2017, 04:12:09 PM »
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This thread is kind of going of the rails. Please make a new thread if there's any important developments to discuss. Going forward, regarding threads about politics / Trump, we're going to expect two things: 1) No assassination musing. This is going to catch you a very long ban. 2) No unsubstantial shitposting. If something like: "Fuck Trump and fuck his supporters" is all you have to offer, there's not really any need for you to post. We're eager to read your substantial criticism and and we welcome any discussion about newsworthy statements and actions of his. We don't really expect anyone to have warm feelings towards Trump, but we have to do something about the quality of discussion in our many Trump threads around here. We're not interested in being an emotional trash can for you guys. Stay focused. Contribute with substance.

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So basically 9/10th of OT will be banned before next week-end.

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« Reply #898 on: October 01, 2017, 04:12:16 PM »
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This thread is kind of going of the rails. Please make a new thread if there's any important developments to discuss. Going forward, regarding threads about politics / Trump, we're going to expect two things: 1) No assassination musing. This is going to catch you a very long ban. 2) No unsubstantial shitposting. If something like: "Fuck Trump and fuck his supporters" is all you have to offer, there's not really any need for you to post. We're eager to read your substantial criticism and and we welcome any discussion about newsworthy statements and actions of his. We don't really expect anyone to have warm feelings towards Trump, but we have to do something about the quality of discussion in our many Trump threads around here. We're not interested in being an emotional trash can for you guys. Stay focused. Contribute with substance.

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What the hell is RinsFury even going to post?
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« Reply #899 on: October 01, 2017, 04:27:18 PM »
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Trying to find humor in a story like this however is not particularly warranted. I feel like a bunch of kids were violated without consent. A crime has occured. The fact that the perpetrator found a maybe funny way to do it is not worth giggling about.

What, as opposed to being violated with consent? :thinking