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Title: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 03:10:20 PM
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

There's more I'll add later, can't think of much right now.

but how do you meet the cool girls to hang out with?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Ecrofirt on September 25, 2006, 03:14:18 PM
Wanna be my date to the Junior Prom?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 03:14:35 PM
My sister and I were raised pretty much the same way but we are complete opposites.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 03:14:57 PM
Wanna be my date to the Junior Prom?
I'm a little to old for that sorry.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 25, 2006, 03:15:16 PM
:(

Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Ecrofirt on September 25, 2006, 03:15:59 PM
Wanna be my date to the Junior Prom?
I'm a little to old for that sorry.
So am I. Your point? :-* :-* :-*
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Diablos on September 25, 2006, 03:18:56 PM
Aren't you a military brat with lots of brothers and sisters? It probably has to do with your upbringing (and I'm not insulting that).  Combine that with some modern day geekdom you acquired by whatever means as you grew up and that's what makes you what you are.
 
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 03:30:11 PM
Aren't you a military brat with lots of brothers and sisters? It probably has to do with your upbringing (and I'm not insulting that).  Combine that with some modern day geekdom you acquired by whatever means as you grew up and that's what makes you what you are.
 
Ya, mom in the Air Force, dad in the Marines. I'm the oldest of 8.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 25, 2006, 03:34:46 PM
I think your neat-o!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Mondain on September 25, 2006, 03:50:49 PM
redwood has an awesome sense of humor
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: dunce cap on September 25, 2006, 03:57:31 PM
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

There's more I'll add later, can't think of much right now.

but how do you meet the cool girls to hang out with?
:'(

Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Van Cruncheon on September 25, 2006, 04:10:12 PM
My wife's the same, really, although she's not much of a gamer.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Bacon on September 25, 2006, 04:14:56 PM
You don't care about your boyfriend talking to other girls because you don't love him.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 04:19:41 PM
You don't care about your boyfriend talking to other girls because you don't love him.
I think I do, but how do you really know?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 25, 2006, 04:23:40 PM
Because you love Bacon!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Bacon on September 25, 2006, 04:27:42 PM
Because you love Bacon!

I'm pretty sure it's purely sexual.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: G The Resurrected on September 25, 2006, 04:35:18 PM
I hate girls that get uber pissed off, they go fucking nuclear on your ass for the smallest of things. Those are the girls i hate, but i'm marrying one. I think all girls are different and they all got a disfunction. Much can be said about us males we all have issues too. Just have to find common ground and realize that you can change if you choose too.

And about love, you'll know when the time is right.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 04:51:26 PM
I think I'm addicted to love.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 04:52:30 PM
I think I'm addicted to ZomBz's amusing anecdotes about his quirky life.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 25, 2006, 04:54:56 PM
I feel like I have no emotions though, except for a sense of humor. I never get angry or upset, I get excited but don't really show it, same for when I'm happy. People have called me cold.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 04:56:55 PM
I feel like I have no emotions though, except for a sense of humor. I never get angry or upset, I get excited but don't really show it, same for when I'm happy. People have called me cold.

Same fuckin thing here. :-\
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 25, 2006, 05:12:08 PM
You guys are absolutely worthless!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Vizzys on September 25, 2006, 05:13:17 PM
Blame the internetz.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: G The Resurrected on September 25, 2006, 05:16:39 PM
I think I'm addicted to love.

Ah so your crazy about love huh?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unrequited_love (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unrequited_love)

Thats what i got sadly, but my partner she's got issues. She's in love with the idea of love being something so perfect. When in reality love is painful, hurtful and all else a bitch. But thats the downside of the rollercoaster that is love. Some of us are truely crazy about love and put ourselves through lots of shit cause of it.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 05:18:44 PM
ZOMBZ, YOU MAKE ME FEEL SO GOOD...





 :-\ :-\ :-\
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: G The Resurrected on September 25, 2006, 05:22:56 PM
Yeah yeah i know *tones it down*
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 25, 2006, 05:36:42 PM
That's why I turned down this one chick. She was extremely controlling and jealous. The funny thing is that she'd do it in an amost comical, chidlish way. So I'd be talking to a female friend, and then she'd come out of nowhere and stand right next to me, and say "what's goin on?"

I had enough of that, so now we barely talk; haven't really talked since we graduated earlier this year actually. :-\
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 05:39:20 PM
Sounds more like she was asking you a simple question and you, in your tremendous virgin stupidity, acted like a major asshole. Oh well. :-[
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 25, 2006, 05:41:40 PM
Sounds more like she was asking you a simple question and you, in your tremendous virgin stupidity, acted like a major asshole. Oh well. :-[

Dude if you only knew. Can you imagine talking to a chick, and then another chick who annoys you walks up, grabs you, and tries to take you to the corner of the room to "talk"? As if you're in a relationship with her? God..annoying.

 I'd give you her MySpace page, but I fear you guys would fuck me up or something so no.

Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 05:42:26 PM
Aw c'mon Mr. Gwumpy Gills.... ;)
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 25, 2006, 05:45:31 PM
Aw c'mon Mr. Gwumpy Gills.... ;)

(http://img91.imageshack.us/img91/8691/855751902mux4.jpg)

Very bad lighting
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 05:46:21 PM
AHHH!!!! :yuck
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 25, 2006, 05:47:22 PM
AHHH!!!! :yuck
:lol

Bad lighting; imo it doesn't do her justice. She's not hot, but she's nice when she wants to be. We're "friends"


Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: brawndolicious on September 25, 2006, 05:49:40 PM
you're not a bitch?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Thee Reverend Gary Davis on September 25, 2006, 05:57:28 PM
you used to be a man?

:D
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: brawndolicious on September 25, 2006, 05:59:10 PM
you used to be a man?
:D
that wasn't a bitch?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 25, 2006, 06:00:01 PM
You guys are mean >:(
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Thee Reverend Gary Davis on September 25, 2006, 06:01:02 PM
you used to be a man?
:D
that wasn't a bitch?
I don't understand. You.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 25, 2006, 06:01:14 PM
 ::) ::) ::)
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: brawndolicious on September 25, 2006, 06:02:04 PM
I don't understand. You.
she.  can.  keep.  her.  cool.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Thee Reverend Gary Davis on September 25, 2006, 06:03:14 PM
I don't understand. You.
she.  can.  keep.  her.  cool.
Right


??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: brawndolicious on September 25, 2006, 06:06:30 PM
Right
??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
cause she's intelligent enough not to over-react?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Thee Reverend Gary Davis on September 25, 2006, 06:11:18 PM
Right
??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
cause she's intelligent enough not to over-react?
I understand that. No idea where that came from though.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Prost on September 25, 2006, 06:13:17 PM
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

There's more I'll add later, can't think of much right now.

but how do you meet the cool girls to hang out with?

Yeah.. you already told us you smoke pot, do you remember?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: brawndolicious on September 25, 2006, 06:13:32 PM
I understand that. No idea where that came from though.
ah.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Waychel on September 25, 2006, 06:21:41 PM
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I think this can be said about everyone... we all act different, 'cus we're all different people.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I think that when girls get jealous of their boyfriend talking to another girl (even a stranger), it is usually because there isn't enough trust in the relationship. I don't think that sporadic bouts of jealousy like that are normal or healthy for any relationship TBH.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I think that not wanting to talk on the phone is normal. Many people (whether guys or girls) prefer talking one-on-one to a person IRL. As for gossip, I think that it is a bad habit. When you get older it is really looked down upon, especially in the work place (it can get you fired). Only people that are idle have the time or care to gossip usually and chances are they aren't going to go very far in the workplace because of it.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

More and more girls these days are getting into fantasy, sci-fi, etc. instead of crappy reality TV shows. I used to feel like I was the only girl in the world that grew up on Japanese film and old sci-fi, but when I started going to different communities online I realized that this was not the case. I met many girls who grew up watching the same shows, reading the same books, enjoying the same hobbies. I realized that I wasn't so unusual afterall.

I think that if anything these interests are much more mainstream now than they were before the advent of the Internet. When I was growing up and reading JRR Tolkien, Peter Beagle, etc. it was considered extremely dorky. Now because of the success of Harry Potter and The Lord of the Rings in the box office, it seems to be the "in" thing right now for girls to be into fantasy novels. Just go to one of these communities and you will see that they are flooded with girls. Heck, visit a site like fanfiction.net if you want proof... thousands of fanworks there are written by girls. Depending on where you go online it will almost look as if girls make up the entire fandom.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

Most normal people do not blow up and throw tantrums like 5-year-olds whenever they are upset...
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Bacon on September 25, 2006, 06:27:06 PM
I think I'm addicted to love.

Might as well face it.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Catz on September 25, 2006, 06:33:09 PM
You're addicted to love!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 25, 2006, 08:26:51 PM
 :lol :lol
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: BlueTsunami on September 25, 2006, 08:36:24 PM
You're addicted to love!

:rofl

Well played
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: ToxicAdam on September 25, 2006, 09:01:40 PM
Sounds like you're a tomboy. God blessed you with a little testosterone.

The only downside is you will start to look like Bea Arthur once menopause kicks in.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Melissa on September 25, 2006, 09:29:12 PM
I think I'm addicted to love.

Might as well face it.
Catz stole your thunder and got credit for your joke, sucker!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Bacon on September 25, 2006, 10:19:44 PM
I'm not in it for the recognition.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Catz on September 25, 2006, 10:34:30 PM
it was a team effort  :pikachu
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: etiolate on September 26, 2006, 01:15:27 AM
I ilke a wide variety of girls, but when push comes to shove, they all behave according to their gender role. Maybe on the surface you're different, but I doubt that you seriously avoid the real gender role pitfalls and patterns.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 26, 2006, 10:11:53 AM
I ilke a wide variety of girls, but when push comes to shove, they all behave according to their gender role. Maybe on the surface you're different, but I doubt that you seriously avoid the real gender role pitfalls and patterns.

In other words if I set out some bread, lettice, tomatoes, and ham in the kitchen she'd fix me a sammich without thinking
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Shuri on September 26, 2006, 11:43:58 AM
being into fantasy stuff is cute when you are a 12 years old girl with a room filled with unicorn related stuff.

Not when you are a 23 years old woman.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 26, 2006, 11:57:28 AM


I think that not wanting to talk on the phone is normal. Many people (whether guys or girls) prefer talking one-on-one to a person IRL. As for gossip, I think that it is a bad habit. When you get older it is really looked down upon, especially in the work place (it can get you fired). Only people that are idle have the time or care to gossip usually and chances are they aren't going to go very far in the workplace because of it.


Actually I don't really like to talk to people face to face either. Unless I have known someone for years and even then, I prefer to talk on IM or through e-mail.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Bacon on September 26, 2006, 03:42:11 PM
redWOOD prefers cybering to real life fucking.  :shh
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Cyanista on September 26, 2006, 04:04:48 PM


Yeah.. you already told us you smoke pot, do you remember?

I smoke pot, and I guarantee I'm cooler than Catzgirl.  She seems all right, mind you.  Just not. . you know.

Redwood, I'll hang out with you.  You can play guitar and I'll roll the blunts.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Waychel on September 26, 2006, 04:59:35 PM
being into fantasy stuff is cute when you are a 12 years old girl with a room filled with unicorn related stuff.

Not when you are a 23 years old woman.

So says a guy, more than likely also in his twenties, posting on a videogame message board... ::)
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: morphix on September 26, 2006, 05:00:08 PM
isn't redwood clean now?

I don't fraternize with drug users  ;)
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: etiolate on September 27, 2006, 06:47:51 AM
I ilke a wide variety of girls, but when push comes to shove, they all behave according to their gender role. Maybe on the surface you're different, but I doubt that you seriously avoid the real gender role pitfalls and patterns.

In other words if I set out some bread, lettice, tomatoes, and ham in the kitchen she'd fix me a sammich without thinking

No, PD. No.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Shuri on September 27, 2006, 07:16:48 AM
being into fantasy stuff is cute when you are a 12 years old girl with a room filled with unicorn related stuff.

Not when you are a 23 years old woman.

So says a guy, more than likely also in his twenties, posting on a videogame message board... ::)
WHY WONT YOU ADMIT YOUR UNICORN LOVING PAST, WAYCHELL!?

Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: etiolate on September 27, 2006, 07:54:17 AM
unicorns are deadly killers
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Himu on September 27, 2006, 10:58:27 AM
Maybe you don't actually don't like the guy? :-X :-\
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 27, 2006, 01:29:30 PM
isn't redwood clean now?

I don't fraternize with drug users  ;)
People who smoke pot are not "drug users"
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 27, 2006, 01:45:25 PM
Yeah, you are.  Marijuana is a drug, just like caffeine is.  Don't try and paint yourself in a better light, sissy!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: whiteACID on September 27, 2006, 01:56:08 PM
Is it worse than drinking alcohol though? no, and that's not considered a drug.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 27, 2006, 01:58:51 PM
In society?  Yes, it is considered worse than drinking alcohol.  And alcohol is considered a controlled substance, and something that you can abuse -- just like drugs.

Hey, I'm not saying you can't smoke, but don't try to avoid the label on account that you don't like to admit that you're doing drugs.  You are.  End of story.  I'm not judging.

That's for the justice system to do!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: MrAngryFace on September 27, 2006, 03:09:51 PM
I get no points for reading comprehension today.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Mandark on September 27, 2006, 05:34:48 PM
Welcome to the wonderful world of introversion!  You're probably comfortable being alone, disdainful of small talk, more thoughtful and analytical than your peers, etc.  It's not something wrong with you, or something you can or should "fix."

You may or may not already have one or a few deep attachments.  Because you don't socialize much, your friendships will rely more on long-term understanding than physical proximity.  You're not going to call a different coworker or classmate your "BESTEST FRIEND EVER!!!" each month.

You don't need all the social interaction of an extravert to be happy, but wanting to find like-minded people is natural.  The best advice I can give is to look for activities or groups that involve things that interest you, don't be afraid to initiate contact, and keep in touch with whomever you enjoy talking with.  Meeting two dozen people and coming away with one long-term friend is fine.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 27, 2006, 05:35:16 PM
Who gave Loki another account? ???
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 27, 2006, 05:38:20 PM
Mandark is swell.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: MrAngryFace on September 27, 2006, 05:41:12 PM
I love being an introvert!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Mandark on September 27, 2006, 05:43:31 PM
This is the advice I'd give most people about introversion, but usually the question comes in the form of "I'M SO NICE HOW COME GIRLS WON'T TOUCH MY PEE PEE?" and my contempt smashes my empathy into tiny pieces.


Introverts include Washington's own Gilbert Arenas!

(http://www.hoopsvibe.com/IMG/Gilbert_Arenas-arton20848-240x240.jpg)



MAF: So do I!  We should hang out separately and do our own things sometime!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: MrAngryFace on September 27, 2006, 05:44:08 PM
How about this Sunday, I will think of some things I like to do.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 27, 2006, 05:45:50 PM
You guys suck.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: MrAngryFace on September 27, 2006, 05:49:13 PM
Some people like to spend most of their time alone. Ive had my share of relationships, none of them worked out into anything incredibly long term, and after a while I started to think that maybe it was because I LOVE my space. I like the option to be selfish and enjoy what I want to enjoy on my own terms.

It doesnt mean I am a bad person, far from it. If anything I am a better person for not sneaking a major 'personality quirk' like being an introvert into a relationship again.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 27, 2006, 05:51:37 PM
Some people like to spend most of their time alone. Ive had my share of relationships, none of them worked out into anything incredibly long term, and after a while I started to think that maybe it was because I LOVE my space. I like the option to be selfish and enjoy what I want to enjoy on my own terms.

It doesnt mean I am a bad person, far from it. If anything I am a better person for not sneaking a major 'personality quirk' like being an introvert into a relationship again.

Yeah, pretty much the same here. Only I'm not an ANGRY OLD MAN. :-X
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 27, 2006, 05:53:11 PM
Some people like to spend most of their time alone. Ive had my share of relationships, none of them worked out into anything incredibly long term, and after a while I started to think that maybe it was because I LOVE my space. I like the option to be selfish and enjoy what I want to enjoy on my own terms.

It doesnt mean I am a bad person, far from it. If anything I am a better person for not sneaking a major 'personality quirk' like being an introvert into a relationship again.

Repressed virgin confirmed
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: MrAngryFace on September 27, 2006, 05:56:12 PM
Phoenix Dark:
I dont need to prove anything to someone with an existance as fabricated as your own.

All relationships have their share of 'dirty time' but that's not all of it, and when youre all 'growed' up you'll realize that between the moments of intimacy there is a void that must be filled by something else, if that isnt there the relationship slowly dies and people part ways.

I decided to just remove myself from the cycle. Its clear i have my own issues to deal with and in time I might decide I have found a way to do so, but for now I choose to live the single life of booze and selfishness.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 27, 2006, 05:57:11 PM
Phoenix Dark:
I dont need to prove anything to someone with an existance as fabricated as your own.

All relationships have their share of 'dirty time' but that's not all of it, and when youre all 'growed' up you'll realize that between the moments of intimacy there is a void that must be filled by something else, if that isnt there the relationship slowly dies and people part ways.

I decided to just remove myself from the cycle. Its clear i have my own issues to deal with and in time I might decide I have found a way to do so, but for now I choose to live the single life of booze and selfishness.


Whatever you say virgin. Or should I say Daddy MAFcakes
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 27, 2006, 06:06:32 PM
God PD, please off yourself soon. >:(
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 27, 2006, 06:12:38 PM
God PD, please off yourself soon. >:(

It's not my fault MAF is repressed
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 27, 2006, 06:13:28 PM
MAF isn't a virgin, he can afford hookers, you loser.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Van Cruncheon on September 27, 2006, 06:13:48 PM
MAF's not repressed; you're just dumb and homely
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 27, 2006, 06:25:38 PM
MAF isn't a virgin, he can afford hookers, you loser.

So can I! I heard there are some $20 hookers around here who look for college kids.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Fake Shemp on September 27, 2006, 06:27:04 PM
Yeah, if you believe that, I got some KY in a crate marked TAIWANESE SEX SLAVE INSIDE for you.  Just walk right on in.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment on September 27, 2006, 06:29:09 PM
MAF isn't a virgin, he can afford hookers, you loser.

So can I! I heard there are some $20 hookers around here who look for college kids.... to rob, beat and kill. Oh, and shove a pickle in your ass and post pics on MySpace.

Fixed
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Shuri on September 27, 2006, 07:34:02 PM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Mondain on September 27, 2006, 08:23:54 PM
it's a bad idea to seek friendships based on similar interests and hobbies, because ultimately in the end they mostly end up spoiling them.. what was once your pleasing haven of marvels is now kinda "taken away" from you-- it's your most prized possession and your biggest pride, and it's as if strangers stepped into it and peeked at your secrets...  in difficult times this makes you feel uneasy and you give them up, only to shelter yourself further more in these secret gardens of yours to "repair" them

Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Flannel Boy on September 27, 2006, 08:34:54 PM
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Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Shuri on September 27, 2006, 09:26:16 PM
maybe if they were shameful, like animu
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Mondain on September 27, 2006, 09:55:56 PM
it's a bad idea to seek friendships based on similar interests and hobbies, because ultimately in the end they mostly end up spoiling them.. what was once your pleasing haven of marvels is now kinda "taken away" from you-- it's your most prized possession and your biggest pride, and it's as if strangers stepped into it and peeked at your secrets...  in difficult times this makes you feel uneasy and you give them up, only to shelter yourself further more in these secret gardens of yours to "repair" them


You're weird. Sharing hobbies and interests with someone else can make the hobbies and interests more enjoyable and rewarding.

Why should hobbies be secretive, what don't you want people to take a peek at?  :o

arrr, not again... no one who really meets me views me as weird in the slightest... yeah it's my fault for always acting so zany on all these boards for so long, but it's solely because it's super-efficient to make people snap out of their pre-conceived ideas in topics

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what you say is right-- yes it really can enrich hobbies to share them with good people, however truly good friends are rare. what I meant to say instead is that one shouldn't _seek_ (!= have) friendships with the basis of looking for people with the same interests

what makes friends good friends is how compatible and naturally understanding, and drawn onto us they are, not how similar their likings are... and these persons are rare, most everyone doesn't really understand or genuinely appreciate us, we get tired and unsatisfied of our friends very quickly when they don't correspond to that ideal, they don't withstand practical life constraints... great friends are those who hold well beyond that

and there's no way to foretell who'll be truly great companions to us, it is purely luck, and very majorly people aren't compatible with one another... so it's still very important IMO to keep your most precious hobbies separated from your real life for such reasons, because as these're your biggest passions, in order not to soil them and to avoid being psychologically burned, they must be shared with the chosen few that you truly hold dear
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Van Cruncheon on September 27, 2006, 09:57:39 PM
what ARE these "pre-conceived ideas," Jotaro
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: etiolate on September 27, 2006, 10:29:55 PM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.


(http://www.aboutfacesentertainers.com/images/impersonators/beasley_t/beasley_t_willie_nelson_2.jpg)
"You could have told me this a lot earlier!"
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: ToxicAdam on September 27, 2006, 10:34:58 PM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.


Maybe 24 or 25 to be fair.

Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: CajoleJuice on September 27, 2006, 10:35:33 PM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.


(http://www.aboutfacesentertainers.com/images/impersonators/beasley_t/beasley_t_willie_nelson_2.jpg)
"You could have told me this a lot earlier!"
That's not even Willie Nelson.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 27, 2006, 10:41:22 PM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.


(http://www.aboutfacesentertainers.com/images/impersonators/beasley_t/beasley_t_willie_nelson_2.jpg)
"You could have told me this a lot earlier!"

Idiot :lol
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Prost on September 28, 2006, 12:40:10 AM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.


Exactly.
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: etiolate on September 28, 2006, 12:49:11 AM
If you are over 21 and still smoke pot, reconsider your life.


(http://www.aboutfacesentertainers.com/images/impersonators/beasley_t/beasley_t_willie_nelson_2.jpg)
"You could have told me this a lot earlier!"
That's not even Willie Nelson.

blame google image search!
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Mondain on September 28, 2006, 03:34:05 AM
what ARE these "pre-conceived ideas," Jotaro

lol I dunno, any situation...

don't you realize after so many threads you've participated into for a decade or more, that in 98% of the cases it seems like you're doomed to fail at convincing anyone to change their points of view for yours before anything's been even typed? or that your interlocutors seem sold in advance to certain people or ideas in spite of the actual validity of posts?

people are selfish, develop their own ideas and prejudices and stick to them as if their lives depended on them, so if you want to change them it serves almost nothing to write substantial arguments in favor of your points... what truly matters is that something particularly memorable and way out there is said and sticks to their minds, something ambiguous and grotesquely absurd, enough to force them to view situations with a different perspective...

people are mentally lazy and view discussions to validate their pre-conceived points of view, not to unbiasedly adopt what's the absolute truest perspective... as if this often leads to nothing but prejudices and ignorant group-think, to challenge that is the best gift you can give someone on the Internet IMO
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: morphix on September 28, 2006, 08:48:26 AM
redwood if you want some of this you are going to have to get off the junk, you too Cyanista  :-*



JoJo have you ever had a GF?
Title: Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
Post by: Phoenix Dark on September 28, 2006, 09:39:11 AM
Of course he hasn't