THE BORE
General => The Superdeep Borehole => Topic started by: Synbios459 on September 05, 2007, 03:59:49 AM
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Here's the deal, being handicapped I can't drive, cook, clean, bathe etc. Well I signed up for a deal where a nurse will come out and do that stuff, and while I won't mind who it is for almost anything, there is one exception: bathing. Now I'm not expecting some hot Asian chick to do it by any means, but my brother works for a hospice where he deals with those type of people and he said the majority of the guys there that do that are gay. Now while I don't have a problem with gay people, I REALLY don't want a gay guy to be bathing me, so should I specifically say "no gay guys" or just hope he isn't? Oh, and here's the program: http://www.okdhs.org/programsandservices/aging/docs/#find
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Are you really handicapped?
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Are you really handicapped?
Yes: (http://i200.photobucket.com/albums/aa234/synbios459/SUNP0054.jpg)
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How do you bathe now?
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Got any other pictures?
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How do you bathe now?
My dad helps whenever he gets time off but that's only like once a week or so.
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Got any other pictures?
No, that was one my friend did for me.
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I kinda don't believe you
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I kinda don't believe you
Well, what do you want me to do? Being handicapped makes it kind of hard to take pics, which is why I don't have a camera.
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I kinda don't believe you
me either, actually.
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I kinda don't believe you
me either, actually.
Fine, don't believe me, but what should I do if it were true?
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I kinda don't believe you
me either, actually.
Fine, don't believe me, but what should I do if it were true?
Tell them what your brother said and say that you wouldn't feel comfortable with a gay guy sponging down your junk.
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Just say you would prefer a woman.
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My Uncle is (partially I think) disabled and I have helped him shower. Not everyone who does it is gay. It's a little odd at first, but then you just realize it's another human body. The thing was, I didn't hardly need to touch him. Just use a washcloth a little and let him do what he can himself. Just had to make sure he didn't slip or fall. How much can you wash yourself? Can you use a washcloth? It really depends on how much the person will need to touch you.
And if you ask for a woman, that might seem creepy.
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
Well, it's not so much that I'm worried he'd get turned on as much as just the fact I'm being bathed by a gay guy that bothers me.
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
Well, it's not so much that I'm worried he'd get turned on as much as just the fact I'm being bathed by a gay guy that bothers me.
What if it were a black mexican? Would you be bothered then?
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
Well, it's not so much that I'm worried he'd get turned on as much as just the fact I'm being bathed by a gay guy that bothers me.
What if it were a black mexican? Would you be bothered then?
If you were gay, then yes.
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
Well, it's not so much that I'm worried he'd get turned on as much as just the fact I'm being bathed by a gay guy that bothers me.
What if it were a black mexican? Would you be bothered then?
If you were gay, the yes.
lol, he's calling you a black mexican, Ichirou
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:rofl
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no homo :-*
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
While I agree with you, it's not hard to see why he would feel uncomfortable with this. If you can get a female or even straight male to do this service, good for you. But if a homosexual male is the only option, you'll have to do what you have to do. My experience with homosexuals has revealed they have very good taste, so I doubt you have anything to worry about Synbios
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Well I signed up
How?
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Do you honestly a gay guy would get turned on while bathing a disabled person? WTF is wrong with you?
While I agree with you, it's not hard to see why he would feel uncomfortable with this. If you can get a female or even straight male to do this service, good for you. But if a homosexual male is the only option, you'll have to do what you have to do. My experience with homosexuals has revealed they have very good taste, so I doubt you have anything to worry about Synbios
Whoa shit. PD going for the low blow. :lol
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Well I signed up
How?
Called the ADVantage group.
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what.........you only bathe once a week?
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"Dilemma"
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I kinda don't believe you
Well, what do you want me to do? Being handicapped makes it kind of hard to take pics, which is why I don't have a camera.
If you can get someone to bathe you, why can't you get someone to take another photo? What about the person that helps you eat and wipe your butt?
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That HL2 shirt is way too fitting...
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:lol This thread is full of wince-inducing comments.
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How do you rub one out? If I were you, I would set up two cushions and just go at it. You won't notice the difference, really.
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How can you assholes make fun of him?
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I wasn't making fun, I was giving helpful spelling advice.
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How do you rub one out? If I were you, I would set up two cushions and just go at it. You won't notice the difference, really.
:lol
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Hypothetically, if a person is able to type at a keyboard, shouldn't they have enough dexterity to be able to wash themselves?
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Hypothetically, if a person is able to type at a keyboard, shouldn't they have enough dexterity to be able to wash themselves?
he uses his feet to type.