Message her? Getting messages from guys on a dating site isn't going to blow her mind, I think.
also, now you have to message her or else I will, telling her how much you lurve her, and she'll probably think you had me do it for you cuz you got cold feet lulz
You're attracted to her because she's half-Asian, right? Because I don't see the attraction. She's hiding her face in her two profile photos, she can't write a coherent summary about herself, and she only scored 94 on the verbal portion of an IQ test.
also also, I will regret this but: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/klaus-narr
compare and contrast
You're attracted to her because she's half-Asian, right? Because I don't see the attraction. She's hiding her face in her two profile photos, she can't write a coherent summary about herself, and she only scored 94 on the verbal portion of an IQ test.
also also, I will regret this but: http://www.okcupid.com/profile/klaus-narr
compare and contrast
Hey tyler, whats your gaia username?
Ok, I messaged her with a 4000+ character message that told the story of my life in how it relates to her thesis.
Normally I just say hey, that's a funny cat you're wearing! But like I said I was nervous and when I'm nervous I ramble and write hundreds of words (see all my freelance writing done under pressure).
Would be cool if I she replies, but I'll not think about it since who knows if she will. She hadn't checked her profile for a week at this point, so she might have left the site already. Oh well, sure gave an interesting night either way :P
nerdy girls I know are pretty cool, maybe the problem is YOU :smug
lol. you blew it. delete your account before she reads it
FOR THOUSAND CHARACTERS!?!
Why don't you send a diamond ring to her while your at it?
All you had to say something like:
Hi, I'm "Whatever the fuck your name is"
I came across your profile recently and would like to chat with you sometime.
Thanks!
But noooo you had to write some long winded reply talking about you life story. Jesus dude, why didn't just send her some pick up lines in Japanese. Or sent pictures of your dick like normal men on dating websites?
Wait, you took those before doing this and yet you still did it? Come on man, open your damn eyes!
Ok, I messaged her with a 4000+ character message that told the story of my life in how it relates to her thesis.
Normally I just say hey, that's a funny cat you're wearing! But like I said I was nervous and when I'm nervous I ramble and write hundreds of words (see all my freelance writing done under pressure).
QuoteOk, I messaged her with a 4000+ character message that told the story of my life in how it relates to her thesis.
Normally I just say hey, that's a funny cat you're wearing! But like I said I was nervous and when I'm nervous I ramble and write hundreds of words (see all my freelance writing done under pressure).
i actually think it might be ok. your rambling writing tends to be fairly laid back and likable. but what do i know.
Girls :drool
Hi Bebpo, Patel's EB account is dead but he asked me to post this:
"Hey Bebpo, That's Rachel, we dated for a month last fall. She looks good on paper but I don't think it would work out long term. The good news is she lives like a block from you so maybe she'll want to play Street Fighter! She's better at that than dating. Luv, Patel"
Hi Bebpo, Patel's EB account is dead but he asked me to post this:
"Hey Bebpo, That's Rachel, we dated for a month last fall. She looks good on paper but I don't think it would work out long term. The good news is she lives like a block from you so maybe she'll want to play Street Fighter! She's better at that than dating. Luv, Patel"
lol, if true.
Hi Bebpo, Patel's EB account is dead but he asked me to post this:
"Hey Bebpo, That's Rachel, we dated for a month last fall. She looks good on paper but I don't think it would work out long term. The good news is she lives like a block from you so maybe she'll want to play Street Fighter! She's better at that than dating. Luv, Patel"
Aren't these okcupid "matches" completely meaningless and random BS?
Of course she's bad at dating but good at Street Fighter; her verbal intelligence is nearly three standard deviations below her spatial intelligence. (http://www.okcupid.com/iqadventure?describe=Spatial+(136)&score=110792589) I don't think your average assburger has that kind of mental disparity.
Also, I wouldnt be distraught by Patel's words. He comes across as more of a prude than you would be, Bebpo.
Yup, you totally blew it. Writing her a bible as an introductory message? Should have just sent her a pic of your jrpg collection and said "let's get busy."
These dating sites are great, because they could lead to actually going and meeting someone. But you can't fucking depend on them. Stop being such fucking assbergers and talk to a random girl IRL every once and a while. You don't have to be trying to get in to her pants or anything, but work on your social skills.
Sending a 4000+ word message and opening up to a complete stranger is worrying, bud. Reign yourself in.
tell her u like scratches
a bar is just a place where people go to hang out and drink, the fact that it's a bar doesn't really determine its clientele.
But they have a stigmata.
stigmatahot
Quotestigmatahot
Everybody there knows my name, though I'm not sure if they're always glad I came, or if our troubles are all the same.:teehee
I wrote a few paragraph short amusing story about how I learned Japanese through videogames
If you like her then go for it.
It's simple.
Who's to say you can get her?
You never start by loving someone.
Who's to say you can get her?
There's definitely something there on her end. Whether it's enough to cause her to end her relationship, who knows. I won't know until I try (if I decide to do so, which I likely won't).QuoteYou never start by loving someone.
I realize that; I'd just like to have a bit stronger of a feeling than attraction/interest considering the rules I'd be breaking.
If you like her then go for it.
It's simple.
I just don't think it's that simple. I like her, not love her. Her BF, however, does love her, and is willing to move to another state with her. What if things don't work out with us (assuming she's game)? I'd feel terrible, since we're not 20 years old anymore. :P
The other side, of course, is to wonder how strong their relationship was if it could so easily be torn apart; perhaps they weren't meant for one another. But that strikes me as more rationalization.
but yeah, don't say the 'if you break up with him i'd like to date you' thing. actually i think most of the things under the 'why not we're both adults' heading are best left unsaid
See, that's you being considerate of a guy you don't know, over a girl you do know, and like. That's chivalrous. Or romantic. Or something. But she's flirting with you -- why? Isn't it a little creepy that she's got a guy who's really into her, but she's still flirting and giving you hope that things might work out?
Very true. It's a pretty prickly situation though, if she's waiting for a sign that he's interested and won't act until she feels that's the case.
Yeah, there's this too. It's corny, but there's always that thought of "If she's in a serious relationship, and she's still flirting that much with me, will she be doing the same when we're together with someone else?".
As for considerations for "the other guy", you may be saving him from a much bigger heartbreak down the road.
So hell if I know.
> $len = ([string](gc ~\loki-dilemma.txt)).Length; $len
4662
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will reply after bebpo's girl does
> $len = ([string](gc ~\loki-dilemma.txt)).Length; $len
4662
> $len -gt 4000
True
will reply after bebpo's girl does
I got my reply, so you can help loki now :P
yeah i will ban you. you cant end the story here
Dude, when I tried to look at her profile, it said she'd deleted it
WHAT DID YOU SEND HER
Ah, so I guess Patel didn't think it was a good idea to share more info.
i can read edited messages you know.
i can read edited messages you know.
But do you know what color underwear he's wearing?
I wouldn't be the rebound guy.
I wouldn't be the rebound guy.