THE BORE

General => The Superdeep Borehole => Topic started by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:35:42 PM

Title: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:35:42 PM
I can't help but feel like a piece of crap for having a lame crush on someone when I'm involved in a relationship. There are a lot of cute guys at my work that I go to after school actually, and it can be somewhat distracting occasionally. One of them showed me his tattoo (I hate tattoos) lawl I think it was an excuse for him to show me his abs though and he had like a 6 pack which I can appreciate and find aesthetically pleasing. kekeke. One person in particular who happens to be like 2 or 3 years older than me I can't help but find myself looking at him a lot... and sometimes flirting with. :/ He also likes the same music, plays various instruments, is cute/hot as fuck, is funny, has a nice personallity, and is nice.

Does this mean that something is wrong with my relationship with my current boyfriend whom I love mucho mucho. Am I bad and should I feel bad?

:[

I feel like I'm being disloyal by being attracted to this other person.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: MrAngryFace on March 22, 2007, 11:36:39 PM
lol teens. go figure.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 22, 2007, 11:37:45 PM
You'll always like someone else at this age when your in a relationship its natural. 

But if it makes you feel better, the good looking guys probably think your annoying.   :P
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: MrAngryFace on March 22, 2007, 11:38:22 PM
Most relationships in highschool are worthless, so go crazy
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: G The Resurrected on March 22, 2007, 11:40:42 PM
well i dont know what to say. I dont look at other girls. Your guy should be more than enough for you to dream about. But your young. Your going to grow into being the bestest slut ever.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:42:06 PM
Actually they tend to gravitate toward me.

One of the ugly ones started some shit with me today. One of the manager people came up to him and was like WTF IS YOUR PROBLEM TELLING SUCH AND SUCH THAT I WAS SLACKING OFF IN THE BACK BLAH BLAH BLAH. Being really confrontational.

I didn't say anything to anyone about anyone he was just fishing to see if it was me who told on him like a little bitch. I didn't even know his fucking name. I followed him after that and I called him a cock sucker and that I didn't say anything about him but from then on I will so he better be busting his ass if I'm around because I WILL start telling the managers when he's doing shit on company time.

I OWNED HIM WITH WORDS. The other people who were around were like SNAP.

He's a fucking douche.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: HyperZoneWasAwesome on March 22, 2007, 11:42:27 PM
You came HERE for advice?

umm, okay.
I've got a girlfriend.  I very much love her.
Do I still check out other women, yeah. 
Do I find other women to be attractive, yeah. 
Do I feel a bit guilty about it afterwords, yeah.

So I don't think there's a thing wrong with you.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 22, 2007, 11:43:52 PM
Your boyfriend doesn't even live 500 miles near you correct? Yeah, you're going to cheat on him and break his heart.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Ichirou on March 22, 2007, 11:44:55 PM
Does this mean that something is wrong with my relationship with my current boyfriend whom I love mucho mucho. Am I bad and should I feel bad?

:[

I feel like I'm being disloyal by being attracted to this other person.

You're not disloyal until you act on it.

And regarding the co-worker you have a crush on, think of it this way - maybe he's the one who wrote that obscene message about you on the bathroom wall!

Wait, does that make things better or worse?  :-*
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:45:30 PM
You came HERE for advice?

umm, okay.
I've got a girlfriend.  I very much love her.
Do I still check out other women, yeah. 
Do I find other women to be attractive, yeah. 
Do I feel a bit guilty about it afterwords, yeah.

So I don't think there's a thing wrong with you.

I actually somewhat like him though. :/ In a way that's not just OMG HOTNESS.

Most relationships in highschool are worthless, so go crazy

I believe mine may be an exception to the rule. Not that I disagree with you. I think mine definitely means something.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:46:32 PM
Your boyfriend doesn't even live 500 miles near you correct? Yeah, you're going to cheat on him and break his heart.

Not 500 miles. Maybe 50 or 60. I don't know. It takes an hour or so to get to his house from my house.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 22, 2007, 11:47:28 PM

Most relationships in highschool are worthless, so go crazy

I believe mine may be an exception to the rule. Not that I disagree with you. I think mine definitely means something.

bwhahahahahahahah..........ahhahahahahahaah


 :rofl :rofl  :rofl :rofl  :rofl :rofl  :rofl :rofl
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Ichirou on March 22, 2007, 11:47:38 PM
COUNTDOWN TO LEMURS CHEATING ON HER BOYFRIEND.

Folks, place your bets on how long until lemurs starts a thread titled "I made a tiny little huge mistake..."
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 22, 2007, 11:48:42 PM
COUNTDOWN TO LEMURS CHEATING ON HER BOYFRIEND.

Folks, place your bets on how long until lemurs starts a thread titled "I made a tiny little huge mistake..."

Put me in for two weeks.  also she will give it up to the older guy on a second date, where her boyfriend has gotten none for 2 years. 
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: BlueTsunami on March 22, 2007, 11:49:00 PM
If you end up acting on any emotions, break up with your current guy. Don't pull the overlaping shit. So many problems can be averted doing this that will last years and years and years. Also, what HyperZone said is truth....just because your with someone doesn't mean your attraction to other people just turns off...it'll always be there.

Its up to you as a human being (and not an animal hurrhurr) to be able to quel those needs and stick with yo partner, yo!
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:49:44 PM
What's the over under? I'm in.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 22, 2007, 11:53:26 PM
If you end up acting on any emotions, break up with your current guy. Don't pull the overlaping shit.

I am not going to live out an episode of Charles in Charge
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: MrAngryFace on March 22, 2007, 11:53:50 PM
This thread am comedy gold.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Bacon on March 22, 2007, 11:53:54 PM
So breakup with your boyfriend.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: MrAngryFace on March 22, 2007, 11:56:28 PM
NO! SUCH A MEANINGFUL RELATIONSHIP WILL NEVER END! RITE?!?!?
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Yeti on March 22, 2007, 11:57:43 PM
And regarding the co-worker you have a crush on, think of it this way - maybe he's the one who wrote that obscene message about you on the bathroom wall!

I had the same question.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 12:00:49 AM
It's not a like so intense that it makes me question my current relationship. It's a like strong enough to make me feel like a shitty girlfriend.

What does CLOUDWALKING I SEE YOU READING THE THREAD.

What do you think? I consider your insight to be the most valuable since you may have experience in such matters from a perspective in which relates to mine.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 23, 2007, 12:02:27 AM
And regarding the co-worker you have a crush on, think of it this way - maybe he's the one who wrote that obscene message about you on the bathroom wall!

I had the same question.


 :lol

I get the sense that Lemurs is going to break her current boyfriends heart.  Really if he's been with her for how long with out the  :hump  Guy probably has it bad for her.  Not try and make lemurs feel bad about it, but if you do break his heart, can you give him a link to EB?  that White/Nutz shit was great for ratings and we could probably catch the teen crowd that has been disillusioned ever since the death of the O.C. with new dramatics.

Think about it if we get good ratings we might be able to get the shinny new user thread search that we always wanted  :)
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 23, 2007, 12:02:46 AM
Don't do anything stupid Lemurs. You're a girl and you're 16, so you already have two strikes against you. But don't let genetics ruin things.

You think your current relationship will last forever: it won't. That's just statistics. But just because it won't last forever doesn't mean you can't ensure that you make it a priority to make it last as long as possible. You don't want the guilt of knowing you ruined the relationship.

You're a smart girl (I think) so hopefully you'll do the right thing. If not, you'll create another bitter boy who'll wind up like me, or MAF, or any of the other millions.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Ecrofirt on March 23, 2007, 12:03:34 AM
You know, Nikki and I have been together since 10th grade and we're doing more than fine.
I <3 that girl to death.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Candyflip on March 23, 2007, 12:04:07 AM
I've never seen someone create more threads that screamed "LOOK AT ME I'M AN ANGST FILLED TEENAGER WHO NEEDS ATTENTION." Please stop. It's nothing personal, just really annoying.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 23, 2007, 12:04:32 AM
You know, Nikki and I have been together since 10th grade and we're doing more than fine.
I <3 that girl to death.

wow, didn't know that. 
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Bacon on March 23, 2007, 12:06:08 AM
I had an engaged girl come on to me at my old work. I think she was just nervous about getting married and wanted to get her fuck on. I am pretty cute so I can't blame her.

Don't be a whore lemurs.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 23, 2007, 12:06:57 AM
I've never seen someone create more threads that screamed "LOOK AT ME I'M AN ANGST FILLED TEENAGER WHO NEEDS ATTENTION." Please stop. It's nothing personal, just really annoying.

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE. I BLEED OUT MY GENITALS. JUST THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A SECOND
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 23, 2007, 12:07:50 AM

Don't be a whore lemurs.

Shes a girl at 16.  Its in her nature.  But I'm sure shes the exception.

spoiler (click to show/hide)
I hope you know I'm just playing with you lemurs  :)
[close]
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 23, 2007, 12:08:50 AM
I've never seen someone create more threads that screamed "LOOK AT ME I'M AN ANGST FILLED TEENAGER WHO NEEDS ATTENTION." Please stop. It's nothing personal, just really annoying.

YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE. I BLEED OUT MY GENITALS. JUST THINK ABOUT THAT FOR A SECOND

She also sanded down her foreskin to be extra manly? 
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 12:15:28 AM
wtf I never said I was going to do anything or wanted to do anything. :/ Nothing is going to happen. Period.

I just feel bad being somewhat distinguished mentally-challenged and giddy, and flirting. It really doesn't go beyond that. I just think he's cute.  :(
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 23, 2007, 12:16:52 AM
And? You're a girl. He's a boy. You're attracted to him. It's natural. Unlike homosexuality.

You should be glad that you're normal, and not going to hell
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Madrun Badrun on March 23, 2007, 12:18:36 AM
And? You're a girl. He's a boy. You're attracted to him. It's natural. Unlike homosexuality.

You should be glad that you're normal, and not going to hell

 :lol :lol :lol :lol :lol


Don't people go to hell for cheating?
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Junpei the Tracer! on March 23, 2007, 12:20:35 AM
And? You're a girl. He's a boy. You're attracted to him. It's natural. Unlike homosexuality.

You should be glad that you're normal, and not going to hell

 :lol :lol :lol :lol :lol


Don't people go to hell for cheating?

Yeah but only adultery.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 23, 2007, 12:20:47 AM
And? You're a girl. He's a boy. You're attracted to him. It's natural. Unlike homosexuality.

You should be glad that you're normal, and not going to hell

 :lol :lol :lol :lol :lol


Don't people go to hell for cheating?

I'd rather go to hell than go to hell having had a cock up my butt.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Junpei the Tracer! on March 23, 2007, 12:21:37 AM
And? You're a girl. He's a boy. You're attracted to him. It's natural. Unlike homosexuality.

You should be glad that you're normal, and not going to hell

 :lol :lol :lol :lol :lol


Don't people go to hell for cheating?

I'd rather go to hell than go to hell having had a cock up my butt.

Don't knock it before you try it.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 23, 2007, 12:22:17 AM
Heh :shh
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 12:23:22 AM
I've never seen someone create more threads that screamed "LOOK AT ME I'M AN ANGST FILLED TEENAGER WHO NEEDS ATTENTION." Please stop. It's nothing personal, just really annoying.

Take a look at the front page, you fuck.

http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6830.0 I TURNED 28 TODAY LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6704.0 I JUST ATE A BURGER FROM BK LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6827.0 HOW IMPORTANT IS YOUR PENIS TO YOU GUIZ? LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6797.0 I've never been single a moment in my life, what's it like guys? LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6805.0 I'M A SENIOR MEMBER LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6811.0 HOW COMMON IS FEMALE EJACULATION? LOL

Don't even get me started on the second page.

Next time you tell me about making a topic asking for attention why don't you stop and take your tunnel vision off my posts. Focus on all the other distinguished mentally-challenged shit posted on this forum. There's no reason for you or any of these other feggits to call me out ever again when this is what this forum is filled up the armpits in: attention seeking shit. At least I have some finesse and the capacity to be little entertaining. Not many people can elicit the amount of response I do.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Phoenix Dark on March 23, 2007, 12:24:22 AM
Mute, you got owned by a 16 year old girl
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Mupepe on March 23, 2007, 12:25:45 AM
I can't help but feel like a piece of crap for having a lame crush on someone when I'm involved in a relationship. There are a lot of cute guys at my work that I go to after school actually, and it can be somewhat distracting occasionally. One of them showed me his tattoo (I hate tattoos) lawl I think it was an excuse for him to show me his abs though and he had like a 6 pack which I can appreciate and find aesthetically pleasing. kekeke. One person in particular who happens to be like 2 or 3 years older than me I can't help but find myself looking at him a lot... and sometimes flirting with. :/ He also likes the same music, plays various instruments, is cute/hot as fuck, is funny, has a nice personallity, and is nice.

Does this mean that something is wrong with my relationship with my current boyfriend whom I love mucho mucho. Am I bad and should I feel bad?

:[

I feel like I'm being disloyal by being attracted to this other person.
no it means your hormones are raging and you're human.  It happens to everyone.  But you learn to control it (or you should).
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Bloodwake on March 23, 2007, 12:26:35 AM
Mute, you got owned by a 16 year old girl


 :lol

Anyways, as someone who had several high school relationships.

THEY DON'T MEAN SHIT

YOU AREN'T THE EXCEPTION

You might think you are, but statistics and the personal experiences of an entire forum say otherwise. We've all been there before.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 12:27:13 AM
And? You're a girl. He's a boy. You're attracted to him. It's natural. Unlike homosexuality.

You should be glad that you're normal, and not going to hell

 :lol :lol :lol :lol :lol


Don't people go to hell for cheating?

Yeah but only adultery.

It's a good thing I'm not an adult! :D Phew!
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 12:29:04 AM
Mute, you got owned by a 16 year old girl


 :lol

Anyways, as someone who had several high school relationships.

THEY DON'T MEAN SHIT

YOU AREN'T THE EXCEPTION

You might think you are, but statistics and the personal experiences of an entire forum say otherwise. We've all been there before.

Who's had a several year relationship at my age? Not many people. I've been friends with him for a very long time and have been girlfriend and boyfriend for more than two years. Not a whole lot of people my age (or any age...) can claim that especially since we pretty much never fight.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Human Snorenado on March 23, 2007, 12:30:45 AM
This thread is about illegal pedophilia.  Lock it down and ban this underage filth.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Bloodwake on March 23, 2007, 12:40:00 AM
Mute, you got owned by a 16 year old girl


 :lol

Anyways, as someone who had several high school relationships.

THEY DON'T MEAN SHIT

YOU AREN'T THE EXCEPTION

You might think you are, but statistics and the personal experiences of an entire forum say otherwise. We've all been there before.

Who's had a several year relationship at my age? Not many people. I've been friends with him for a very long time and have been girlfriend and boyfriend for more than two years. Not a whole lot of people my age (or any age...) can claim that especially since we pretty much never fight.

I know people who have had several year relationships during high school who broke them off.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 12:40:45 AM
Yeah but you're not taking into account the fact that I'm a lot better than those people.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Bloodwake on March 23, 2007, 12:44:55 AM
Yeah but you're not taking into account the fact that I'm a lot better than those people.

In those cases it wasn't always cheating or anything like that. Sometimes they just grew tired of each other. I know a guy who got engaged in high school but had to break it off afterwards. Out of all the friends I know who had long relationships I can only think of one couple who actually got married, and they actually broke up and got back together.

My point is that while it's great you are optimistic, you shouldn't think that this is going to last. It's fucking high school. You are a teenager. Shit changes, beliefs change, friends change, everything changes. Hell, a lot of shit changed as soon as I graduated.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Van Cruncheon on March 23, 2007, 12:45:56 AM
jesus said summit about how looking on another with a lustful eye was identical to actually commiting an adulterous sin
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Bacon on March 23, 2007, 12:47:56 AM
Yes, she clearly has doubts about her relationship and is looking for a way out.

WWJD
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Candyflip on March 23, 2007, 12:53:03 AM
I've never seen someone create more threads that screamed "LOOK AT ME I'M AN ANGST FILLED TEENAGER WHO NEEDS ATTENTION." Please stop. It's nothing personal, just really annoying.

Take a look at the front page, you fuck.

http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6830.0 I TURNED 28 TODAY LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6704.0 I JUST ATE A BURGER FROM BK LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6827.0 HOW IMPORTANT IS YOUR PENIS TO YOU GUIZ? LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6797.0 I've never been single a moment in my life, what's it like guys? LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6805.0 I'M A SENIOR MEMBER LOL
http://www.evilbore.com/forum/index.php?topic=6811.0 HOW COMMON IS FEMALE EJACULATION? LOL

Don't even get me started on the second page.

Next time you tell me about making a topic asking for attention why don't you stop and take your tunnel vision off my posts. Focus on all the other distinguished mentally-challenged shit posted on this forum. There's no reason for you or any of these other feggits to call me out ever again when this is what this forum is filled up the armpits in: attention seeking shit. At least I have some finesse and the capacity to be little entertaining. Not many people can elicit the amount of response I do.
Aww, did I hit a sore spot? I'm sorry the truth hurts.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: BlueTsunami on March 23, 2007, 12:54:03 AM
I saw a floppy half flacid penis on the train once and was like lol woah! what is this! then went about my day. It was really out of left field homoerotic.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Ichirou on March 23, 2007, 01:20:09 AM
I think Father_Mike is right and lemurs is going to cheat on her boyfriend with this guy and give up her v-card on the second or third date.

Women are evil like that.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: xnikki118x on March 23, 2007, 02:19:14 AM
You know, Nikki and I have been together since 10th grade and we're doing more than fine.
I <3 that girl to death.

Absolutely. :heartbeat



I don't think it's such a bad thing to be attracted to other guys, as long as you don't act on it. I can see a guy and say that he's hot and that I'd do him, but I never actually WOULD. James has friends who are girls who are prettier than I am, but he'd never touch them and I know this.

If you don't have trust, you don't have anything.

Also, how long have you been together? You could just be getting bored of each other or something. That happens sometimes.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 03:21:30 AM
in my day, teenagers didn't have problems like these.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 03:55:47 AM
You know, Nikki and I have been together since 10th grade and we're doing more than fine.
I <3 that girl to death.

Absolutely. :heartbeat



I don't think it's such a bad thing to be attracted to other guys, as long as you don't act on it. I can see a guy and say that he's hot and that I'd do him, but I never actually WOULD. James has friends who are girls who are prettier than I am, but he'd never touch them and I know this.

If you don't have trust, you don't have anything.

Also, how long have you been together? You could just be getting bored of each other or something. That happens sometimes.

It's not so much that I find him attractive, I find a lot of guys attractive. It's the flirting and the basdknfasdasdals;dkjasd fucking blushing and what have you. It's hard for me to think of anything being wrong in my current relationship. He's so great to me and he's so cute and handsome and smart and everything that I love. I can't think of having anything more and we still haven't experienced all there is to experience together yet, you know? I love him with all my heart.

The ONLY thing that I think of that's "wrong" with the relationship doesn't have anything to do with how much I love him or how happy he makes me, because neither of those could be any better with anybody. I would spend my whole life with him.

And that's the only thing... is that I feel MAYBE I'm missing out on something if I'm not able to see other people like everyone else does and know what it's like to have a relationship with really more than just one person. This thought is STOMPED THE FUCK OUT whenever I come back to my senses and remember how great it is being with someone who clicks with me as much as my boyfriend does. It's just a thought I have sometimes and going to work and flirting and stuff with a guy I like might be a way of this feeling to mildly act out, and I feel bad for even looking at another guy on something of the same level as I see my boyfriend. I don't know if any of this makes sense and I probably contradicted myself a few times, but hopefully enough to where all they all canceled each other out.

What you think Nikki?
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Mr. Spinnington on March 23, 2007, 04:12:14 AM
You know, Nikki and I have been together since 10th grade and we're doing more than fine.
I <3 that girl to death.

Absolutely. :heartbeat



I don't think it's such a bad thing to be attracted to other guys, as long as you don't act on it. I can see a guy and say that he's hot and that I'd do him, but I never actually WOULD. James has friends who are girls who are prettier than I am, but he'd never touch them and I know this.

If you don't have trust, you don't have anything.

Also, how long have you been together? You could just be getting bored of each other or something. That happens sometimes.

It's not so much that I find him attractive, I find a lot of guys attractive. It's the flirting and the basdknfasdasdals;dkjasd fucking blushing and what have you. It's hard for me to think of anything being wrong in my current relationship. He's so great to me and he's so cute and handsome and smart and everything that I love. I can't think of having anything more and we still haven't experienced all there is to experience together yet, you know? I love him with all my heart.

The ONLY thing that I think of that's "wrong" with the relationship doesn't have anything to do with how much I love him or how happy he makes me, because neither of those could be any better with anybody. I would spend my whole life with him.

And that's the only thing... is that I feel MAYBE I'm missing out on something if I'm not able to see other people like everyone else does and know what it's like to have a relationship with really more than just one person. This thought is STOMPED THE FUCK OUT whenever I come back to my senses and remember how great it is being with someone who clicks with me as much as my boyfriend does. It's just a thought I have sometimes and going to work and flirting and stuff with a guy I like might be a way of this feeling to mildly act out, and I feel bad for even looking at another guy on something of the same level as I see my boyfriend. I don't know if any of this makes sense and I probably contradicted myself a few times, but hopefully enough to where all they all canceled each other out.

What you think Nikki?
I'm not nikki, but you might want to re-examine your current relationship.  You still have a LONG way to go before you'll be ready to settle down, especially if you're headed to college after high school.

In any case, checking other people out is fine as long as you don't act on it.  If you feel guilty or worried, spend time talking yourself out of a new relationship.  For all you know, he may not even like you back... not to mention you'll have to put in a shitload of time just to get to know a whole new person you probably won't like in the end, anyways.

that's just my $0.02
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: xnikki118x on March 23, 2007, 04:33:54 AM
You know, Nikki and I have been together since 10th grade and we're doing more than fine.
I <3 that girl to death.

Absolutely. :heartbeat



I don't think it's such a bad thing to be attracted to other guys, as long as you don't act on it. I can see a guy and say that he's hot and that I'd do him, but I never actually WOULD. James has friends who are girls who are prettier than I am, but he'd never touch them and I know this.

If you don't have trust, you don't have anything.

Also, how long have you been together? You could just be getting bored of each other or something. That happens sometimes.

It's not so much that I find him attractive, I find a lot of guys attractive. It's the flirting and the basdknfasdasdals;dkjasd fucking blushing and what have you. It's hard for me to think of anything being wrong in my current relationship. He's so great to me and he's so cute and handsome and smart and everything that I love. I can't think of having anything more and we still haven't experienced all there is to experience together yet, you know? I love him with all my heart.

The ONLY thing that I think of that's "wrong" with the relationship doesn't have anything to do with how much I love him or how happy he makes me, because neither of those could be any better with anybody. I would spend my whole life with him.

And that's the only thing... is that I feel MAYBE I'm missing out on something if I'm not able to see other people like everyone else does and know what it's like to have a relationship with really more than just one person. This thought is STOMPED THE FUCK OUT whenever I come back to my senses and remember how great it is being with someone who clicks with me as much as my boyfriend does. It's just a thought I have sometimes and going to work and flirting and stuff with a guy I like might be a way of this feeling to mildly act out, and I feel bad for even looking at another guy on something of the same level as I see my boyfriend. I don't know if any of this makes sense and I probably contradicted myself a few times, but hopefully enough to where all they all canceled each other out.

What you think Nikki?

I get that sometimes from people, saying I'm missing out on something by staying with one person for so long. Sometimes I think I agree. I wonder what it would be like to flirt shamelessly with adorable guys at my school, to go to parties and make out with whoever, have a good time like that.

But my relationship with James is worth so much more than any of that. He's more to me than any one-night stand could ever even touch.

It's nice to play the field, I'm sure. But don't most people play the proverbial field in hopes of eventually finding someone they want to spend the rest of their life with? I already have that someone, so I don't need to play the field.


The only people who know enough about your relationship to make those kind of decisions are you and your boyfriend. I don't know your situation and I don't know what's good for you, but I'm just telling you what works for me in my situation. I also know that you're going to hear it time and time again that high school relationships dont last. Lots of times they don't, but they CAN, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Goodnight and good luck. :)
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: G The Resurrected on March 23, 2007, 04:40:55 AM
Some sweetness here.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: CoolGuyChris on March 23, 2007, 05:06:48 AM
lol, you should have a crush on me.. if you have a crush on n e body else other than your boyfriend, dump the poor bastard... hes not giving you what you need the way you want it...like i said ill give you the excitement...lol :tbslol
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: G The Resurrected on March 23, 2007, 05:08:38 AM
lol, you should have a crush on me.. if you have a crush on n e body else other than your boyfriend, dump the poor bastard... hes not giving you what you need the way you want it...like i said ill give you the excitement...lol :tbslol

She's 16 Chris. Just know that.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: CoolGuyChris on March 23, 2007, 05:12:06 AM
lol, you should have a crush on me.. if you have a crush on n e body else other than your boyfriend, dump the poor bastard... hes not giving you what you need the way you want it...like i said ill give you the excitement...lol :tbslol

She's 16 Chris. Just know that.


my bad.. ok so heres tha deal, your young and play tha field... there is no one else out there that can make you as happy as you can by yourself.. if you find someone better play the game. you dont know if the man your with can make you happy until all the others just look stupid...
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: CoolGuyChris on March 23, 2007, 05:13:58 AM
lol, you should have a crush on me.. if you have a crush on n e body else other than your boyfriend, dump the poor bastard... hes not giving you what you need the way you want it...like i said ill give you the excitement...lol :tbslol

She's 16 Chris. Just know that.


my bad.. ok so heres tha deal, your young and play tha field... there is no one else out there that can make you as happy as you can by yourself.. if you find someone better play the game. you dont know if the man your with can make you happy until all the others just look stupid...


oh god.... im no petifile either, just be happy, thats all im saying... :lol
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: G The Resurrected on March 23, 2007, 05:15:56 AM
 :lol :lol :lol I didnt say you were a pedo. Just letting you know.

Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: CoolGuyChris on March 23, 2007, 05:17:56 AM
:lol :lol :lol I didnt say you were a pedo. Just letting you know.



lol, i know but i realised that she was only 16.. thats weird.. i know im insightful, but it may come across as otherwise..not intentionally, im just horney..lmao
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: bagofeyes on March 23, 2007, 05:34:29 AM
Most relationships in highschool are worthless, so go crazy

Listen to this man
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: CoolGuyChris on March 23, 2007, 05:44:21 AM
Most relationships in highschool are worthless, so go crazy

Listen to this man


tru very tru....easy said
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: The Sceneman on March 23, 2007, 06:09:11 AM
A ++++++ would read again
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: cubicle47b on March 23, 2007, 11:57:22 AM
Quote
And that's the only thing... is that I feel MAYBE I'm missing out on something if I'm not able to see other people like everyone else does and know what it's like to have a relationship with really more than just one person. This thought is STOMPED THE FUCK OUT whenever I come back to my senses and remember how great it is being with someone who clicks with me as much as my boyfriend does. It's just a thought I have sometimes and going to work and flirting and stuff with a guy I like might be a way of this feeling to mildly act out, and I feel bad for even looking at another guy on something of the same level as I see my boyfriend. I don't know if any of this makes sense and I probably contradicted myself a few times, but hopefully enough to where all they all canceled each other out.

I think this feeling is going to grow until you feel trapped in your current relationship.
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:46:25 PM
I gav a letter to the postman
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:46:40 PM
He put it in his sack
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:46:50 PM
Bright and early next morning
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:47:01 PM
He brought my letter back
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:47:12 PM
she wrote upon it
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:47:19 PM
RETURN TO SENDER
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:47:27 PM
ADDRESS UNKNOWN
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:47:34 PM
NO SUCH NUMBER
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: Stocky on March 23, 2007, 12:47:40 PM
NO SUCH ZONE
Title: Re: I have a crush on somebody at my work. He's 18 (or 19?). I have a boyfriend.
Post by: omg_lemurs on March 23, 2007, 05:33:41 PM
PLEASE MR. POSTMAN