Looks like I'm being used

[Phoenix Dark]

I got out of class around 5:15 today, and I've been home for less than an hour. Anyway during class (Business Law) this girl walked in about 10 minutes late. She's pretty hot, and she always sits next to me. After she came in late she sat next to me again, but it seemed like she moved her chair as close as possible to me; quite uncomfortable. I had taken down a lot of notes, and it seemed like that's what she wanted...so after a couple minutes of trying to build up the balls to say anything I finally said "do you want to copy my notes?" She smiled and said yes.

She said thank you after she was done. After class she started talking to me a bit, and then she said bye and patted me on the shoulder as she walked away. Then she caught up with this other dude in the class and started laughing; it didn't sound like they were laughing at me though.

Anyway, I just felt a little used here. She sits next to me because I take great notes, but then after class she goes back to flirting with the stupider dudes in the class lol. I've been in this situation before, so I recognized it pretty fast. Has anyone else had this happen to them, or something similar like a chick being really nice to you and then asking you to do her homework? Bleh.

[Eel O'Brian]

Here's what you do:

On a separate sheet of paper, before class starts, jot down some made-up, bullshit notes.  Just utter gibberish that sounds official.  When you see her coming in to sit next to you, ease that sheet on top of the stack and continue taking your regular notes underneath the bullshit ones.  Fuck Miss Copycat, she is just using you, and frankly it's a little pathetic that you're letting her do it.

[Phoenix Dark]

Here's what you do:

On a separate sheet of paper, before class starts, jot down some made-up, bullshit notes.  Just utter gibberish that sounds official.  When you see her coming in to sit next to you, ease that sheet on top of the stack and continue taking your regular notes underneath the bullshit ones.  Fuck Miss Copycat, she is just using you, and frankly it's a little pathetic that you're letting her do it.

Dude I know she's using me. It has happened before.

[Eel O'Brian]

Yes, I know that you know.  I am giving you some advice on how to make it stop in a humorous way.

[Eel O'Brian]

If you don't stop this type of shit and assert yourself now, Phoenix, people are going to take advantage of you and walk all over your back for the rest of your life.  And that's no bullshit.

[MrAngryFace]

I thought you were in college? This sounds like a high school story.

[Phoenix Dark]

Yes, I know that you know.  I am giving you some advice on how to make it stop in a humorous way.

I've never really stopped someone from doing it per se. Whenever someone asks me to "kinda sorta do my homework hehe" I always say no. That's where the hammer drops. With notes, I'm more leniant. She said she works 3 jobs, so she's pretty busy; she was actually sleeping in class, and looked hella tired. If she comes into class everyday late and expects me to give her mine, I'll do something; one time is fine.

I might just lie and say the teacher hasn't gone over anything (he doesn't write on the board).

[Phoenix Dark]

If you don't stop this type of shit and assert yourself now, Phoenix, people are going to take advantage of you and walk all over your back for the rest of your life.  And that's no bullshit.

I'm sure you saw some of my posts on GAF about giving chicks money. I cut they out quick, because it was just a case of me being too pussy to stand up for myself. Perhaps my weakness has always been my casual, reserved attitude. I don't like starting problems, and I'm sort of afraid to stand up for myself sometimes. I'm working on it though

[The Fake Shemp]

I have a simple solution.  You will need the following supplies:





Load your firearm with the appropiate bullets. Apply to temple.  Pull trigger.  Repeat thoroughly until you reach our your desired result.

[Mondain]

someone on this board who'll forever remain anonymous asked me to do a college essay in his place-- and I accepted and did 

[Eel O'Brian]

If you don't stop this type of shit and assert yourself now, Phoenix, people are going to take advantage of you and walk all over your back for the rest of your life.  And that's no bullshit.

I'm sure you saw some of my posts on GAF about giving chicks money. I cut they out quick, because it was just a case of me being too pussy to stand up for myself. Perhaps my weakness has always been my casual, reserved attitude. I don't like starting problems, and I'm sort of afraid to stand up for myself sometimes. I'm working on it though

I saw a few of those before.  Believe me, I was in the same boat at one time, and still am to a certain extent when it comes to giving away my time(never money, though - I bust my ass too hard at work to just give that away).  I usually don't like sticking my nose in other people's business, and I only give you this advice because I like you as a forum personality. 

[The Fake Shemp]

Well, it's not like you've got anything better to do!

[Eel O'Brian]

Sadly, that reply could apply to both myself and Jotaro.

 

[Vizzys]

I always approve of suicide.

Go for it. It makes your friends think you are cool.

[The Fake Shemp]

Plus, in Japan, suicide is like the coolest thing you can do and we all know Japanese culture is hecka cool!

[Eel O'Brian]

Only they use swords.  To do it right, a friend should behead you right as your sword eases into your stomach.

[The Fake Shemp]

Do it, PhoenixDark!  TVC will tape it and put it on YouTube!  You'll be famous!  Think of all the YTMNDs!

[Phoenix Dark]

If you don't stop this type of shit and assert yourself now, Phoenix, people are going to take advantage of you and walk all over your back for the rest of your life.  And that's no bullshit.

I'm sure you saw some of my posts on GAF about giving chicks money. I cut they out quick, because it was just a case of me being too pussy to stand up for myself. Perhaps my weakness has always been my casual, reserved attitude. I don't like starting problems, and I'm sort of afraid to stand up for myself sometimes. I'm working on it though

I saw a few of those before.  Believe me, I was in the same boat at one time, and still am to a certain extent when it comes to giving away my time(never money, though - I bust my ass too hard at work to just give that away).  I usually don't like sticking my nose in other people's business, and I only give you this advice because I like you as a forum personality. 

Yeah. I come off as a quiet guy who seems smart, so some people attempt to take advantage of that. It's obvious that she probably wouldn't talk to me under normal circumstances either; she's more into the bigger, stupider black dudes meh.

[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

They probably were laughing at the "huge" (read: microscopic) hard-on you had whilst walking down the hall.

















































P.S. : Kill yourself.

[brawndolicious]

So...you're fucked?

[Christopher]

if your being used you probably LOOK like you can be used...either you dont' get used now or you do.  Like fat girls in EVERY class you can get thier notes and cheat off of them...their smart too.

[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

if your being used you probably LOOK like you can be used...either you dont' get used now or you do.  Like fat girls in EVERY class you can get thier notes and cheat off of them...their smart too.

Asshole.

[Phoenix Dark]

if your being used you probably LOOK like you can be used...either you dont' get used now or you do.  Like fat girls in EVERY class you can get thier notes and cheat off of them...their smart too.

Well I look rather laid back, somewhat smart I suppose.

[Vizzys]

Yeah. I come off as a quiet guy who seems smart, so some people attempt to take advantage of that. It's obvious that she probably wouldn't talk to me under normal circumstances either; she's more into the bigger, stupider black dudes meh.

You are so "in".

[Ecrofirt]

What the fuck is this thread about? She came in late, and needed the notes.

Stop being a dickcheese.

[Vizzys]

I think that pd stroy is just a front allowing others to insult virgins. Also promoting suicide of said people. Its all good in the hood baby.

[rodi]

This one guy in my anthro class always asks me for notes. But it's okay, because I take crappy notes. 

[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

This one guy in my anthro class always asks me for notes. But it's okay, because I take crappy notes. 

You're not fat, are you?

[Bacon]

This one guy in my anthro class always asks me for notes. But it's okay, because I take crappy notes. 

First they ask for notes, then they ask for your number.

[rodi]

This one guy in my anthro class always asks me for notes. But it's okay, because I take crappy notes. 

You're not fat, are you?

No, but I wear glasses!

[morphix]

someone on this board who'll forever remain anonymous asked me to do a college essay in his place-- and I accepted and did 

Bet he is locked up now, like the time Bart filled out Homer's psych test on the Simpsons.

[Flannel Boy]

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[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

someone on this board who'll forever remain anonymous asked me to do a college essay in his place-- and I accepted and did 

Bet he is locked up now, like the time Bart filled out Homer's psych test on the Simpsons.

I should pay Loki to write my essays. Or at the very least pay him to lay flesh on the bare bones that is my empty prose.