Awesome, now you're bring up even more things that have nothing to do with the issue at hand.
Do you think I've never told these things to Shake? Do you think he's never criticized me during discussion? I don't know how your friend relationships are, but when I have a "problem" I mention it. Not in a negative, hurtful way, but as a way to spark conversation and get to the bottom of the issue at hand. I've told Cheebs straight up that I think he's stuck up at times, somewhat pretentious, and loves to dominate conversations. Shake has told me that I'm annoying at times and a very bad contrarian. Do I hate any of them? Of course not.
If anything it's a testament to the strength of a relationship when the people involved can openly discuss such things. I'm sure the married man in this thread would agree with that