My cousin (sweet girl, albiet misguided, and a total guidette)'s b/f ODed on oxycontin a year or two ago, and she got a giant lower back tattoo of "RIP DJA" with a cross and everything... not to mention this guy was a total scumbag and I think he hit her (only met the kid once, seemed your average run-of-the-mill wigger). She's still heartbroken over this kid, too, hasn't moved on yet... but when she does, I have no idea how she's gonna explain that one to her future b/fs or anything.