for the most part, i hate losing. but i'm not a sore loser. the way i see it, unless you're totally incompetent at gaming, anyone can reach elite status given the amount of time put into it. when i play online and get "pwned", i see it as -- the person probably has had more time to play the game than i have, so i don't take it personally. but it does make me a better player and quick to adapt.