Depends upon your school and the engineers or maybe times are just changing. I've met plenty of engineers who have normal people interests, like movies, tv, drinking beer, sports etc etc. There are still a few weird ones but it seems like the majority of the engineers I meet these days don't fit in the age old stereotypes.
I agree with this: it also depends on what sort of engineering as well. Mechatronics\Robotics and Software still seem to be the most socially inept. Bio\Elec\Tele\Aero all seem cool. Also Civil is the science faculty's version of accounting, so they're mainly dweebs with the occasional cool slacker.
Depends upon the school but I agree, although EE majors are right up there with CS in terms of socially awkwardness. Biomedical, Aerospace, Civil and ISE all seem to attract people who are smart and want to be challenged but aren't exactly your run of the mill nerd.
Tiesto: at my school we have Industrial and Systems Engineering. Its the most un engineering of the engineering majors and most of the other engineering majors deride them. It tends to be where all the kids who wash out after their 2nd year go because they don't want to delay graduating/quit being an engineer but can't hack it in their original field. There was a cute ISE major in my Linear Algebra class though. She was a bitchy sorority girl though.
most people I know are in the "industry" for several years on the fringes--marketing, QA, journalism, or just plain-old self-taught modding experience--before they move over to development proper.
I don't know why anyone would want to get into the industry...I have a friend who's a programmer and she makes it sound awful. I'm glad to just enjoy the games without having any knowledge or interest into what goes into making it.
Not everyone is the same. Some people don't mind the hours.
For me it comes down to looking at other jobs and just not being interested in the technologies involved. I can't get into web programming, or data base management. My dad writes statistical analysis stuff all day and he LOVES it but the languages and tools he use just don't interest me at all. At this stage in my life I want to try and work a job that I'm actually excited about.