Author Topic: When you get older, is there more real talk and less bullshit? (Read 2000 times)

thekavorka · « **on:** November 01, 2007, 03:29:25 AM »

I'm talking about matters with the opposite sex. I wish women were just more straightforward and less misleading. Instead of making up an excuse not to go out on a date, just tell me you're not interested. My feelings won't get hurt or anything.

Is this just a high school/college thing or does it pretty much happen at all ages?

bork · « **Reply #1 on:** November 01, 2007, 03:32:47 AM »

How old is "older?" I mean, is there even anyone here over the age of 35? Aren't most of us in our 20s and early 30s?

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #2 on:** November 01, 2007, 03:34:51 AM »

"women"? I just made an excuse not to go out on a date 15 minutes ago. =(

thekavorka · « **Reply #3 on:** November 01, 2007, 03:35:57 AM »

Quote from: lyte edge on November 01, 2007, 03:32:47 AM

How old is "older?" I mean, is there even anyone here over the age of 35? Aren't most of us in our 20s and early 30s?

Maybe once you get into the real world, after graduating from college? I'd say I'm referring to 26+

warcock · « **Reply #4 on:** November 01, 2007, 03:39:55 AM »

people graduate 26 and after? What you are completing a PHD in GE? Im 22 and im almost done lolz, the sad part is that im two years behind a "NORMAL" cycle. 26...psh...

thekavorka · « **Reply #5 on:** November 01, 2007, 03:45:18 AM »

Quote from: warcock on November 01, 2007, 03:39:55 AM

people graduate 26 and after? What you are completing a PHD in GE? Im 22 and im almost done lolz, the sad part is that im two years behind a "NORMAL" cycle. 26...psh...

people normally graduate at 22. but i was referring to once you're actually entrenched in the real world. i doubt there's going to be a sudden leap in maturity right after you graduate.

TVC15 · « **Reply #6 on:** November 01, 2007, 03:48:55 AM »

Nope. It basically stays the same. C'mon, I'm a cigarillo and I know that. Women have their reputation as bitches for earned reasons.

zeergoth · « **Reply #7 on:** November 01, 2007, 04:06:33 AM »

I got an idea, date a chick that's in her 20s, 30s, 40s, and 50s, then get back to us.

Howard Alan Treesong · « **Reply #8 on:** November 01, 2007, 04:07:36 AM »

bullshit is here forever my friend

xnikki118x · « **Reply #9 on:** November 01, 2007, 05:02:53 AM »

I certainly hope there's more real talk and less bullshit.

Let me tell you though, that the oldish ladies at my job are petty like high school girls. :-/

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #10 on:** November 01, 2007, 05:07:56 AM »

30something women are awesome

bagofeyes · « **Reply #11 on:** November 01, 2007, 05:16:18 AM »

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on November 01, 2007, 05:07:56 AM

30something women are awesome

except that they've passed their use-by date

etiolate · « **Reply #12 on:** November 01, 2007, 05:30:23 AM »

Oh no, that bullshit never stops.

zeergoth · « **Reply #13 on:** November 01, 2007, 05:40:37 AM »

Quote from: bagofeyes on November 01, 2007, 05:16:18 AM

Quote from: recursivelyenumerable on November 01, 2007, 05:07:56 AM
30something women are awesome

except that they've passed their use-by date

I'm sure plenty of MILFs would like to have a word with you.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #14 on:** November 01, 2007, 06:07:35 AM »

I think that a person's decisions in their childhood/teenage years make a permanent difference in how mature they are. It's sort of if they can stop being a mama's boy as a child or control themselves as adults the instant they get responsibility (~13) then they'll keep that attitude for the rest of their lives.

For example, I know some 12 year olds that I could talk to about anything and they won't be snotfaces. On the other hand, I know some people in their late 20's that try to show off to you by taking one of your fucking drinking cups and pissing in it. My brother threw it away and I pretend I forgot that guy's name and face whenever he harasses me because my brother gave him my number.

What I'm basically saying is that people who aren't mature are usually immature because they're really self-conscious about something in their self and that's something you can instantly tell because they always do something that shows that particular mental defect but there's nothing you can do about it.

tiesto · « **Reply #15 on:** November 01, 2007, 10:13:29 AM »

Seems lately the big thing is for kids my age (mid 20's) to go out with women in their 30's... I *might* have a date with a 30 year old, if I do, that would be the oldest girl I've ever been on a date with (5 years older). We'll see how that goes, I usually prefer women 3 or 4 years younger than me.

Eel O'Brian · « **Reply #16 on:** November 01, 2007, 10:17:18 AM »

Jesus, you guys make me feel like I'm too old to post here.

It gets worse, by the way. Most women in their mid-30s are single because they've been divorced, and there's a lot of bitterness beneath the surface.

Tauntaun · « **Reply #17 on:** November 01, 2007, 10:28:54 AM »

Quote from: tiesto on November 01, 2007, 10:13:29 AM

Seems lately the big thing is for kids my age (mid 20's) to go out with women in their 30's... I *might* have a date with a 30 year old, if I do, that would be the oldest girl I've ever been on a date with (5 years older). We'll see how that goes, I usually prefer women 3 or 4 years younger than me.

you're 25 too?!?!?!?

we're like super best friends now!

tiesto · « **Reply #18 on:** November 01, 2007, 01:55:52 PM »

Tauntaun, rawk on!

I work with a bunch of older people and they are really cool. Being engineers, they keep tabs on technology/gaming/computing unlike the technophobic stereotype older people have, so they are easy to converse with. Too bad none of 'em have daughters they can hook me up with!!!

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #19 on:** November 01, 2007, 02:39:00 PM »

Oh no. It does in fact get worse later on. The older women have had shitty experiences and will spitefully take it out on the next guy- which will probably be you.

max_cool · « **Reply #20 on:** November 01, 2007, 08:37:39 PM »

Quote from: Eel_O_Brian on November 01, 2007, 10:17:18 AM

Jesus, you guys make me feel like I'm too old to post here.

It gets worse, by the way. Most women in their mid-30s are single because they've been divorced, and there's a lot of bitterness beneath the surface.

Not to mention that women get even more batshit insane as they approach 30. it dips a little a few years later (if you're lucky), but probably ramps up again for 40.

Mr. Gundam · « **Reply #21 on:** November 01, 2007, 08:40:59 PM »

A good friend of mine is 27 and newly single after ending a ten year relationship. Based on the crap he's gone through lately, women are no different now than they were in high school and/or college.

It probably doesn't help that he works in the videogame industry, so it's damn near impossible to for him to meet anyone interesting at work. Plus, all his friends are married or soon to be married, so we're not the most helpful at going out to bars and others places where singles come together.

max_cool · « **Reply #22 on:** November 01, 2007, 09:22:32 PM »

Quote from: distantmantra on November 01, 2007, 08:40:59 PM

A good friend of mine is 27 and newly single after ending a ten year relationship. Based on the crap he's gone through lately, women are no different now than they were in high school and/or college.

It probably doesn't help that he works in the videogame industry, so it's damn near impossible to for him to meet anyone interesting at work. Plus, all his friends are married or soon to be married, so we're not the most helpful at going out to bars and others places where singles come together.

bullshit, a dude's married friends are the perfect wingmen. help your friend out!

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #23 on:** November 01, 2007, 09:45:40 PM »

Never trust a couger. Theres probably more bullshit.

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Author Topic: When you get older, is there more real talk and less bullshit? (Read 2000 times)