Jeez, where to start. . .
I like Nabokov and Kubrick a lot. That's a start. Lolita is a totally weird book, taboo subject matter aside. It's a fierce beast of wordplay. It's a comedy, but due to the nature of humor on wordplay, it's sort of an attentive humor. Something you have to parse and pay attention to in order to get the most out of it. The movie, though, is like the plot of the novel with the humor kinda changed from wordplay to a skewering of the Hollywood comedies of the 50s by making a sort of farce tackling something that an old school farce wouldn't get within 100 yards of. I need to read up on how much of the script Nabokov actually did do himself, because I simply can't believe that he was not only a master of languages, but also a master of cultural nuances, as he must have been if his original screenplay resembled the final product.
Also, Peter Sellers is the best ever. Down to tacks, he only has a few great movies, so I often forget how awesome he is, but when he is on, he steals every fucking scene, whether he is going screwball or doing something a bit more subtle.