Do you need to "experiment" to know if you're gay or not?

[Smooth Groove]

Do some men really have to try sucking dick before they know that gay sex is not for them?
 

[Howard Alan Treesong]

no, but you do to know if you're straight

[brawndolicious]

I'd imagine the first time is always an experiment.

[Smooth Groove]

Why do you need to experiment?  Shouldn't any straight man know that he doesn't want to handle any other penis beside his own? 

[demi]

nothing wrong with experimenting. how do you think we got so far with science?

it's also 2007, it's cool to suck dick now. "oh, you're gay? that's cool."

[Howard Alan Treesong]

you might have an idea
but can you really be sure?

[demi]

i'll go to college just so i have an excuse to suck cock. it's normal to experiment in college after a night of drunken debauchery.

[Howard Alan Treesong]

I'm sure everyone on this board sucked a dick or two in college just to see what it's like
no homo

[Mr. Gundam]

It took EB a lot longer to bring up that GAF thread than I thought.

[demi]

It took EB a lot longer to bring up that GAF thread than I thought.

what's your take on it, psychology man?

[demi]

Thomas says (1:15 AM):
question
Thomas says (1:15 AM):
a guy sucks a dudes dick, and decides its not for him
Thomas says (1:15 AM):
is he a cigarillo?
Brian says (1:15 AM):
No.
Brian says (1:15 AM):
He's experimenting.


there you go, even gaymos think its ok

[Mr. Gundam]

It took EB a lot longer to bring up that GAF thread than I thought.

what's your take on it, psychology man?

I think the OP is confused, but also an absolute idiot to experiment with his co-worker. This is going to lead to nothing but awkward situations in the workplace. Part of me also thinks the whole story is false and just meant to get attention on GAF.

I also think the other guy is a manipulating asshole who took advantage of the OP's curiousity to get a free blowjob.

[brawndolicious]

we don't know if he was being an asshole distant.  the guy said he felt to weirded out and didn't give the guy a chance.  of course the guy waited all of 10 seconds before telling him to give him a blowjob.

[Mr. Gundam]

we don't know if he was being an asshole distant.  the guy said he felt to weirded out and didn't give the guy a chance.  of course the guy waited all of 10 seconds before telling him to give him a blowjob.

The other guy lied to him about doing this thing before:

He says "So you've never done this before?" I say "No, I've only thought about it." He tells me that he in fact has done this three times before. By that I mean invite guys over to his place for non-consensual sex. I am a little surprised at this, as it's in direct contradiction to what he told me at the bar that night after work. I confront him with this deception and he says he didn't tell me the truth because he wasn't totally sure that he was safe in telling me. He wasn't sure if I was actually interested of if I was trying to get dirt on him. Well now I know the truth.

So I'm sitting there, and he says 'Whenever you're ready, you can go down on me." Now, that was a bit forward; we didn't discuss exactly what we were going to do before I arrived, so in a way he was right to move forward, but it still took me a little off guard. I checked my nerves, which surprisingly had again calmed to the point prior to arriving at his door.

I went down on him.

I realize that you don't want to just come out to some guy if you're uncertain of their sexuality, but I'm still getting red flags. It sounds like a bunch of BS.

But, I'm straight and inexperienced in these things, so I really have no clue.

[Vizzys]

"I put my jacket back on, thanked him for the hospitality and promptly left"

has to be a joke, cmon

clever writing!

[Mr. Gundam]

"I put my jacket back on, thanked him for the hospitality and promptly left"

has to be a joke, cmon

clever writing!

It could totally be true, but I really wouldn't be surprised if someone just wanted a tag and some attention, regardless of what it takes to get it.

[demi]

That dude got a free beej, lmao

that's pure ownage, and he's gotta work with that guy

"why dont you suck my dick" just got a whole new meaning

[brawndolicious]

oh yeah I forgot about the "never did it before" part.  the guy deserves a ruler to the nuts if it was real.

[Joe Molotov]

Experimenting is only cool if chicks do it. If guys do it, it's just gay.

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Not that there's anything wrong with that.

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[Phoenix Dark]

"Experimenting" sounds like choice to me

[Smooth Groove]

There's a friend at school who is a hot blond lesbian.  How should I ask her to experiment with me to check if she's really gay? 

[brawndolicious]

I think you underestimate the stigma against gay sex and the uncertainty it can make some people feel towards it.  then again, you live in LA surrounded by gigolos smh...

[Van Cruncheon]

no; just go to enchanted and then answer the question "did i enjoy this" in the positive

[TVC15]

That whole story sounds phony at GAF.  It's too composed.  He wrote a short story; he didn't experiment.

I'm not sure if his story is logically sound.  If the guy admitted he lied to the GAF poster, I think there'd be a solid chance the newb would walk out, totally skeeved.  I mean, if I were in a similar situation, like every STD anecdote I've ever heard would be going through my head when I realized Random Hookup had already lied.

[Phoenix Dark]

Just read his story; as a fellow joke poster I know that's fake. It's more of a story than an account of something that allegedly happened in 20 minutes.

[xnikki118x]

I have a friend who's a lesbian and has known this since she was young, so when she first started dating, it was only with women. A friend of hers in high school was like, "how do you know you don't like men if you've never had sex with one?"

She had sex with a guy. Didn't like it. Thought it might just have been that guy, so she slept with another guy. Didn't like it. Only women for her.

I don't think you necessarily have to experiment to figure out your orientation, but I think it helps some people give meaning to what they were thinking.

[demi]

maybe your friend is just a horrible lay.

[aoi tsuki]

i think the most obvious sign was that he made the original post, a few more to lead people on, one "bout to suck some cock ttyl" post, then like hour later he's got the whole experience typed up, and he's not in shock or anything. He's just like "sucked a cock, wasn't for me, played some mass effect".

:/

If it is true, then he seriously got owned. What if the guy becomes his manager, and he literally has to suck his dick to get ahead? If it's a joke post then it's as bad as The Shadow's baby mama drama and Forza's "kicked a guy's ass while waiting for a PS3".

To answer the OP, i don't think most people would have to experiment to know if they were gay. i never thought to myself "i might be gay; better suck a dick just in case." i do think that someone might have to experiment to see if they were bi though.

[TVC15]

i think the most obvious sign was that he made the original post, a few more to lead people on, one "bout to suck some cock ttyl" post, then like hour later he's got the whole experience typed up, and he's not in shock or anything. He's just like "sucked a cock, wasn't for me, played some mass effect".

:/

If it is true, then he seriously got owned. What if the guy becomes his manager, and he literally has to suck his dick to get ahead? If it's a joke post then it's as bad as The Shadow's baby mama drama and Forza's "kicked a guy's ass while waiting for a PS3".

To answer the OP, i don't think most people would have to experiment to know if they were gay. i never thought to myself "i might be gay; better suck a dick just in case." i do think that someone might have to experiment to see if they were bi though.

What I find most entertaining about the whole thing is the back patting brigade congratulating him on his courage or whatever.  I mean, I read the first post and figured it was a fairly obvious troll--are the GAF posters congratulating him that credulous?  Between all his posts in that thread, every "lol fake" warning sign in the book is on display.

[demi]

i think it was more of a ploy to show just how gay GAF is. i mean, it's pretty obvious. them niccas gay!!!!

[TVC15]

David, I want you to make-a your pepperoni EXPLODE in my mouth and ass!

[demi]

Aquinas explodes for no mere man!

[TVC15]

No, you are DAVID not Thomas

[TVC15]

you filthy wop

[demi]

at least i'm not gay

[TVC15]

At least I am not exclusively attracted to fatty fatty fat fats

[demi]

Your loss, they just love pepperoni

[TVC15]

Your insane clown brothers would kill you if they knew your appetites, you globby bottle of cheap, stinking chip-oil.

[demi]

Nope, it's Juggalos for Jesus now, it's a whole different crowd.

[abrader]

As a teenager/early adult I worked in the fashion industry under Trevor Sorbie. Even with all of the coke, ecstasy, and whatever else - I never 'experimented' or questioned my heterosexuality. And trust me - every 30 seconds in that life was a coming out parade for someone. Shyt that crew was so flaming - it often made our delivery guys gay.

I am one of those a bit feminine guys tho that doods will sometimes think or like to think is gay - but gay guys mostly never get it confused and know I am straight (now depending on what that bloke likes, me being straight might just mean I get pursued a bit more - many are on a spiritual quest to convert straight doods)

Still regardless of all of that I have never experimented one bit. When guys try to turn on the juice I quickly turn on the ice

I dont like doods and I dont like asian girls.

So - in conclusion - NO you do not need to experiment to know if you are gay or not.

Altho I have had sex with asian girls and really thought I liked them before I was with a few. 

[Eric P]

I'm sure everyone on this board sucked a dick or two in college just to see what it's like
no homo

i went to community college.

so imagine the humiliation of sucking community college dick

bad enough i couldnt' get into a real school.

no hobo

[Eric P]

i think the most obvious sign was that he made the original post, a few more to lead people on, one "bout to suck some cock ttyl" post, then like hour later he's got the whole experience typed up, and he's not in shock or anything. He's just like "sucked a cock, wasn't for me, played some mass effect".

:/

then the only thing which will show his story to be true are pictures of him WITH the dick.

[Eric P]

Nope, it's Juggalos for Jesus now, it's a whole different crowd.

my god, it's actually real?

http://www.juggalofaith.com/

[Trent Dole]

[Hollywood]

I saw that thread, pretty hilarious. Dude goes over his house sucks his dick, and leaves. And THAT was the kicker to know he didn't like it. 

I mean do you have to take a dump on your TV dinner and taste it before you know you don't wanna add shit to your diet? Do you have to hit yourself in the balls with a hammer to know thats not something thats fun to do? Hell these forums are based on the fact of judging videogames no one has even played - yet for some people ya gotta suck the cock to know if you like it.

Hey, I'm not a gay basher or a homophobe or anything, hell the more gays there are the more chicks are in play, but I'm just wondering since when being gay has become a protected group. I mean that guy is a dumbass regardless of his orientation. If you think that shit is disgusting or distinguished mentally-challenged and laugh at them for it, then that's not politically correct. You're supposed to pat them on the back and say 'hey good job'. Yet its completely fine to joke on a crackhead, a fatass, or an inbred.

I'm for equal opportunity insulter. He put a cock in his mouth and sucked it, and THEN figured out it wasn't for him. That's just hilarious, what a dumbass. What was that Woody Harrelson quote, "Your daddy can be a glassmaker all his life, but suck one cock and he's known as a cocksucker"   

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

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