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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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quick question involving girls.
« on: October 27, 2006, 04:08:02 PM »
when an (almost) ex-girlfriend says 'I know you're not gay, remember' does that mean...

a) I know you're not gay, we went out for a year, now we are on a break

b) I wish you were gay, fucking homo.

c) remember that we were a couple

d) other.


I'm confused  ???
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The Fake Shemp

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #1 on: October 27, 2006, 04:10:43 PM »
You are totally into guys.
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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #2 on: October 27, 2006, 04:10:53 PM »
it means she likes you and has decided to go along with your excuses -- she doesn't mind that you crave the sausage in your poopy snoopy and in fact might consider it kinda H A W T
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« Reply #3 on: October 27, 2006, 04:11:53 PM »
Punch that homophobic bitch. That'd prove your hetero-factor
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« Reply #4 on: October 27, 2006, 04:12:48 PM »
Quote from: blackACID on October 27, 2006, 04:11:53 PM
Punch that homophobic bitch. That'd prove your hetero-factor

You'd like that, wouldn't you?
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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #5 on: October 27, 2006, 04:13:04 PM »
Say you "hate when random fat girls dance, remember?"
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #6 on: October 27, 2006, 04:14:49 PM »
Quote from: Spencer on October 27, 2006, 04:11:48 PM
Did you fuck her? I think this is just a reminder/tease that she fucked you.
:( she wouldn't tease me though. she's kind of perfect.
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Takuan

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #7 on: October 27, 2006, 04:15:16 PM »
What the fuck is an almost ex-girlfriend? Anyway, C.
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #8 on: October 27, 2006, 04:16:46 PM »
Quote from: Takuan on October 27, 2006, 04:15:16 PM
What the fuck is an almost ex-girlfriend? Anyway, C.
we're 'on a break' which basically means we're not a couple, but we might be again in the future. I think.
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #9 on: October 27, 2006, 04:17:33 PM »
Quote from: Spencer on October 27, 2006, 04:16:07 PM
Quote from: Something Else on October 27, 2006, 04:14:49 PM
Quote from: Spencer on October 27, 2006, 04:11:48 PM
Did you fuck her? I think this is just a reminder/tease that she fucked you.
:( she wouldn't tease me though. she's kind of perfect.

...

ex girlfriend

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Does nnnnnnot ccompute
we've never ever had a realy arguement...and everything that's gone wrong is my fault.  :(
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« Reply #10 on: October 27, 2006, 04:20:52 PM »
I think you need to give her THE WILL TREATMENT.
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« Reply #11 on: October 27, 2006, 04:23:29 PM »
I'm telling you, dude - THE WILL TREATMENT.  Proven formula to find out if she's past you or worth your time.  Either she'll bite or she won't, and then you move on.
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #12 on: October 27, 2006, 04:24:22 PM »
Quote from: Spencer on October 27, 2006, 04:22:36 PM

we've never ever had a realy arguement...and everything that's gone wrong is my fault.  :(

No. What is this defeatist attitude anyway? No girl is perfect. Quit puttin that pussy on a pedestal!
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it's not really defeatist though, it's the truth. She has done some stuff wrong, but nothing that really matters. me on the other hand....
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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« Reply #13 on: October 27, 2006, 04:25:16 PM »
Quote from: Willco on October 27, 2006, 04:23:29 PM
I'm telling you, dude - THE WILL TREATMENT.  Proven formula to find out if she's past you or worth your time.  Either she'll bite or she won't, and then you move on.
The reason we're on a break is she's too busy for a relationship just now, I don't want to make her choose just now.
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« Reply #14 on: October 27, 2006, 04:29:08 PM »
That's a bunch of crap.

CrystalGemini, for example, is completely overbooked and we have distance working against us, but we make it work.  It's hard work, sometimes frustrating, but if you care about someone enough - you'll make it work.
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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« Reply #15 on: October 27, 2006, 04:32:31 PM »
Quote from: Willco on October 27, 2006, 04:29:08 PM
That's a bunch of crap.

CrystalGemini, for example, is completely overbooked and we have distance working against us, but we make it work.  It's hard work, sometimes frustrating, but if you care about someone enough - you'll make it work.
TBH I'm scared if I go in all guns blazing she's just going to knock me back, she's done it before (the night before we started this break) so I'm giving her the space she needs just now, talking to her maybe once or twice a week.
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« Reply #16 on: October 27, 2006, 04:35:45 PM »
I just think it's a lost cause. 

If she truly cared, you guys wouldn't be on a "break".  It is possible to give someone more space without going on a "break".  If she just wanted more space, she could've simply said, "Hey, I've got a LOT of stuff to do, let's reschedule our time or setup more strict times to hang out so we don't overwhelm one another."
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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« Reply #17 on: October 27, 2006, 04:37:50 PM »
Quote from: Willco on October 27, 2006, 04:35:45 PM
I just think it's a lost cause. 

If she truly cared, you guys wouldn't be on a "break".  It is possible to give someone more space without going on a "break".  If she just wanted more space, she could've simply said, "Hey, I've got a LOT of stuff to do, let's reschedule our time or setup more strict times to hang out so we don't overwhelm one another."
I know it doesn't look good for us. but meh..I'm going to try.
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« Reply #18 on: October 27, 2006, 04:48:40 PM »
Trust me, from someone who is dating someone who is juggling a hectic, stressful schedule (not to say that working full time, juggling my more personal goals and working towards new professional ones are easy) - I think maybe you should re-evaluate things.  I'm sure there are times when CrystalGemini thinks she's got too much on her plate (in fact, I do know that), but we care a lot for another and have a strong emotional bond, and that trumps any stress that comes our way.  And if you don't have that, why bother when a woman basically tells you that you're not worth her time?
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Takuan

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #19 on: October 27, 2006, 04:49:57 PM »
I think you're reading far too much into that sentence. She most likely literally means, "I know you can't be gay, we used to go out" and that is all. Nowhere in that sentence do I see "... but maybe we should get back together again." Of course, we're all lacking context here, but going solely by that sentence, I suggest not to get your hopes up.

That said, it's really great that you're going to try. Nothing's worse than wondering five years later what could've been.
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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« Reply #20 on: October 27, 2006, 05:04:56 PM »
Quote from: Takuan on October 27, 2006, 04:49:57 PM
That said, it's really great that you're going to try. Nothing's worse than wondering five years later what could've been.
There is a chance that it's going to emotionally kill me though, I've worn my heart on my sleeve for the whole of this relationship, if it goes tits up i'm not sure I'll be able to be like that again.
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« Reply #21 on: October 27, 2006, 05:09:33 PM »
Quote from: Something Else on October 27, 2006, 05:04:56 PM
Quote from: Takuan on October 27, 2006, 04:49:57 PM
That said, it's really great that you're going to try. Nothing's worse than wondering five years later what could've been.
There is a chance that it's going to emotionally kill me though, I've worn my heart on my sleeve for the whole of this relationship, if it goes tits up i'm not sure I'll be able to be like that again.
You'll get over it. Everyone does, eventually. Just gotta keep your head up! :hurr
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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #22 on: October 27, 2006, 05:10:29 PM »
Quote from: Something Else on October 27, 2006, 04:08:02 PM
when an (almost) ex-girlfriend says 'I know you're not gay, remember' does that mean...

a) I know you're not gay, we went out for a year, now we are on a break

b) I wish you were gay, fucking homo.

c) remember that we were a couple

d) other.


I'm confused  ???

sounds like code for I am sleeping with your father, if you ask me.
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Thee Reverend Gary Davis

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Re: quick question involving girls.
« Reply #23 on: October 27, 2006, 05:12:04 PM »
Quote from: morphix on October 27, 2006, 05:10:29 PM
Quote from: Something Else on October 27, 2006, 04:08:02 PM
when an (almost) ex-girlfriend says 'I know you're not gay, remember' does that mean...

a) I know you're not gay, we went out for a year, now we are on a break

b) I wish you were gay, fucking homo.

c) remember that we were a couple

d) other.


I'm confused  ???

sounds like code for I am sleeping with your father, if you ask me.
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