When female friends you've had for awhile make sexual propositions

[CrystalGemini]

6. Do I have a boner?

It's about thinking with your OTHER head.

See, this is what you'd think if you were a woman.

Not quite.  You'd be surprised at how much women don't think about things like this.  Case in point, the young woman mentioned in this story.

[The Fake Shemp]

OH SNAP - she got you there!

You're so smart, honey. 

[BlueTsunami]

You also have to ask yourself if shes open to watersports but thats a whole other thread

[Polari]

I was joking!

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We all know women don't think.

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[CrystalGemini]

I was joking!

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We all know women don't think.

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Correction.

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People don't think.

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[The Fake Shemp]

I'm staying out of this.

[Phoenix Dark]

Crystal's position is very similar to mine on this subject. I bet she wouldn't take advantage of a drunk man either.

[BlueTsunami]

But I bet you would! lol it can be anything you imagine if you close your eyes!

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I'm not joking about that either, it works

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[CrystalGemini]

I hate alcohol.  If anything, drunk people annoy me.

[etiolate]

Crystal's position is very similar to mine on this subject. I bet she wouldn't take advantage of a drunk man either.

what

She looks cute, somewhat dirty-like for a lady. Aim for the hair

[BlueTsunami]

[Itch]

For a second I almost got a boner when I thought her screen name was Hermonie.

Ahahaha, you and me both. Almost.

I wouldn't hit that shit but if you are single with no prospects worth working towards it would still be better than having to sugar your own churro. Just sayin' man.

[Bloodwake]

My consensus remains.

She's interested.

You at least like her enough to be friends with her.

Do the math.

[DarienA]

This thread reminds me of a story. A few years ago I met this chick via... we'll say Yahoo personals I can't remember exactly but that's probably where I met her. Anyway she lived up in PA but not too far over the border from MD so I use to drive up to hang out with her and her sun and watch uh... what show was it... Charmed I think... she was really in to that show. Anyway nothing ever happened we would watch Charmed hang out and that would be about it. The usual story she just got out of a bad relationship and was just looking for a friend. No biggie I wasn't hard up for a sex partner at that point and if I was I had other options. I did think she was cool and was interested in a relationship but I wasn't going to push it.

Anyway between visit we would frequently chat on Yahoo IM. So one night out of the blue(and it's pretty late) she IM's me. She's like hey what are you doing. I'm like just hanging out. So then she goes something to the effect of I'm really horny right now and need some sex... and I'm like uh... ok... and she's like I want you. I'm like.. ok this is a joke.. real funny... haha... She's like well if you aren't going to take me seriously forget it.  Ok so at this point I'm like whoa... Darien generally does not turn down sex offers! So I hopped in my car, got up there in record time and did the deed. She had an awesome tattoo on her back BTW.

So what happens a few days later? Regret sets in. She's not IMing me as much. When I finally talk to her about it, she's feeling bad about it... she doesn't have any real feelings beyond friendship for me, she feels like sex may have screwed things up, because she knew I was interested in a relationship she didn't want me to feel like she was to just because we slept together, etc... blah, blah, blah. And so we eventually drifted apart and stopped talking.

For a bit I felt like it was pretty f*cked up. But you know in the end I felt like if she was a true friend it wouldn't have mattered. In my high school/early college years I had another friend that we use to sleep together infrequently, but it never interfered with our friendship, so it really can go either way.

[cloudwalking]

Honestly, though. I was joking when I said you should hit it. I actually agree with CrystalGemini on her list there, especially the part about regretting it later. Friends are a touchy area.

I've only known cloudwalking for a week and she's already asking for me to come down to where she is

That's a total lie!

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You've known me longer than a week!

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[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

I wish this kinda shit would happen to me. I mean....what the fuck?

[Bacon]

I don't believe in casual sex.  If it doesn't feel like a good idea, don't push it.  I can't really give you any advice based on experience.  I just don't sway that way - I only involve myself in meaningful, serious relationships.  Maybe I'm crazy, but that just makes sense to me.  Like with all decisions in life you have to ask yourself:

1.  Does this help me get closer to achieving my life goals?
2.  What are the pros/cons?
3.  What type of person does this make me?
4.  What are the consequences of my actions?
5.  Will I end up regretting this?

I hate alcohol.  If anything, drunk people annoy me.

[morphix]

I don't believe in casual sex.  If it doesn't feel like a good idea, don't push it.  I can't really give you any advice based on experience.  I just don't sway that way - I only involve myself in meaningful, serious relationships.  Maybe I'm crazy, but that just makes sense to me.  Like with all decisions in life you have to ask yourself:

1.  Does this help me get closer to achieving my life goals?
2.  What are the pros/cons?
3.  What type of person does this make me?
4.  What are the consequences of my actions?
5.  Will I end up regretting this?

Willco is never going to get laid...

[demi]

Honestly, though. I was joking when I said you should hit it. I actually agree with CrystalGemini on her list there, especially the part about regretting it later. Friends are a touchy area.

I've only known cloudwalking for a week and she's already asking for me to come down to where she is

That's a total lie!

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You've known me longer than a week!

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If I had pointed that out then it wouldn't be as taboo

[The Fake Shemp]

I see Boogie in here.

I think he's crying.

[cloudwalking]

Honestly, though. I was joking when I said you should hit it. I actually agree with CrystalGemini on her list there, especially the part about regretting it later. Friends are a touchy area.

I've only known cloudwalking for a week and she's already asking for me to come down to where she is

That's a total lie!

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You've known me longer than a week!

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If I had pointed that out then it wouldn't be as taboo

True. Let's keep things as scandalous as possible

[Mupepe]

I have a really good friend that has been making sexual advances.  She has a boyfriend though and is a virgin and I can't tell if she's serious sometimes.  it's been driving me nuts because I'd love to fuck the hell out of her.  She'll tell me something like "I want to make babies when I come over tonight."  (And yes, she will say make babies.  she's really er, innocent.)  But then she'll change the subject so quickly, I can't tell if she's joking or not.  And when she comes over I'm afraid to actually make a move because I don't want to ruin our friendship.  Most women I wouldn't care, but I hold her very highly.  And then sometimes when we talk about anything sexual she'll say something like "last time I was at your house I was waiting", laugh and then quickly change the subject again.  I don't want to lose the opportunity, because she's really hot, but I don't want to take a joke as serious and fuck up our friendship.  And I know she'll never make the move because she's really shy about anything sexual most.  Really frustrating, seriously.  It's also a lot more than that.  

[Loki]

Am I the only one who seems the cheek herpes on her FACE? OR am I imagining things

There is no such thing as cheek herpes.

You've never been to the ghetto

[etiolate]

Well Darien's situation was one of my worries.  I don't think the situation would have led to a relationship, so it would be just a random thing and rather weird afterwards. She's been sort of seeing a guy out of town, so I know she has plans elsewhere.


And sorry Boogie!

[APF]

1.  Does this help me get closer to achieving my life goals?

Uh, you realize that for guys, hitting it IS our life's goal.

[Fatghost28]

The original poster made a huge mistake.

[Boogie]

And sorry Boogie!

Whadda ya mean, "sorry Boogie!"?  I've barely stuck my nose in this thread!

ah well....

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my best friend has four women trying to get into his pants without any effort or desire on his part.  I hate life 

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[Shuri]

Well Darien's situation was one of my worries.  I don't think the situation would have led to a relationship, so it would be just a random thing and rather weird afterwards.

yeah it was a test, sorta

She's been sort of seeing a guy out of town, so I know she has plans elsewhere.

she's checking out for options. Beware.

I dont think it's worth risking ruining a good relationship with girl over an onenighter with her. Not at all.

[FlameOfCallandor]

Hey if a girl says she has a boyfriend, but then gives me a back massage and lets me give her a back massege while watching a movie what does that mean?