The reality is that two gay parents are better than no parents, which is what happens to a lot of kids stuck in foster care. And these guys had a loving, healthy environment for the kids - she even acknowledged that. But it's God's will that won't let two gay men raise a child.
The main problem came down to this, they were willing to agree to disagree. But she didn't just disagree, she wanted to proactively ban gay parents from raising children. And that's the problem.