Author Topic: Living with women: The Thanksgiving Test (Read 6327 times)

G The Resurrected · « **on:** November 20, 2006, 12:15:41 AM »

In the past 24 hours my house has been attacked by a beautiful lady who i love. And in these past 24 hours she's already changing shit. I knew it was going to happen but she wants to get rid of my shit. I don't know if i should be happy that she likes my house (she hasn't been around here since the new additions) or afraid that she wants to change shit. My big ass leather chair she wants gone. And the hammock

So for the next 4 days she'll be staying with me. This is the first real test were putting ourselves through. Albeit a surprising one cause i was going to be the one going to my other place. But no she's here and i have to change shit cause of it. This is the first time I've been able to happy with her none of the fucking drama and its nice.

Problem is i have to reintroduce her to my family of 3 on Thanksgiving here at my place. And then I have to explain whats gone on since last Thanksgiving to my Mother and two Grandparents. This gonna be great. Then after were done here I have to go and meet her family. After all the craziness that we've put each other through this past year. I have to face 20+ family members and I don't know how were gonna smooth that shit over.

While there though we'll be continuing spending our time together under one roof. IF all else goes well which i hope it will. I'm thinking about a BNB so far so good. If i loose a leather chair thats ok. BUT SO HELP ME if anything else gets taken out of here or shit blows up i dont know.

Prost Catz how are you two doing it? Its hard having to face someone 24/7 and what about the bathroom? I mean i used to live with this girl but thats when i was at home with my mom. Now its my space and i dont know how to feel. Its great but ahh. Yeah

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #1 on:** November 20, 2006, 12:17:36 AM »

I'm going to sign up for the EvilBore santa thing and send you Saving Silverman. Please watch it

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #2 on:** November 20, 2006, 12:20:34 AM »

Save yourself the money i'll put it in my quee

Vizzys · « **Reply #3 on:** November 20, 2006, 12:22:18 AM »

Its a good movie.

CajoleJuice · « **Reply #4 on:** November 20, 2006, 12:22:53 AM »

FUCK YOU REPLACEMENT FRIENDS

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #5 on:** November 20, 2006, 12:48:31 AM »

there's a gremlin on the wing, mr. shatner

Mupepe · « **Reply #6 on:** November 20, 2006, 01:13:17 AM »

She sounds like a total bitch. Enjoy.

The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment · « **Reply #7 on:** November 20, 2006, 07:38:56 AM »

You're trying to marry her and you still haven't experienced living together?

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #8 on:** November 20, 2006, 08:39:44 AM »

Quote from: The Dark Shake on November 20, 2006, 07:38:56 AM

You're trying to marry her and you still haven't experienced living together?

We've made up our minds on the marriage stuff. And we used to live with each other when i was at my moms house. She lived with us in my room. Anyways that was a while ago. And we havent really gotten adjusted to living with each other after all the shit thats gone on. But were trying very hard.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #9 on:** November 20, 2006, 09:13:28 AM »

Living together and being bossed around aren't the exact same thing ZomBz. It sounds like she's wearing the pants in the house, which is ironic considering you're the reason she's not in any legal trouble right now.

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #10 on:** November 20, 2006, 09:16:37 AM »

Yeah she's always worn the pants for the most part. But thats cause i was a overly nice guy when we met. And she trusted me greatly cause i listened and cared about her. Then i didnt listen for a while and since then shes always been like this. At least she's trying though finally. Cause when two people arent working for the same goal your never gonna get anything done. And now that she's understanding that its all good i hope.

The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment · « **Reply #11 on:** November 20, 2006, 09:18:56 AM »

*sigh*

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #12 on:** November 20, 2006, 09:20:57 AM »

Quote from: The Dark Shake on November 20, 2006, 09:18:56 AM

*sigh*

Go ahead shake say what you must.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #13 on:** November 20, 2006, 09:23:45 AM »

Everything has been said already dude.

The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment · « **Reply #14 on:** November 20, 2006, 10:14:43 AM »

Yup. Now you're just running in circles. $:-\$

Fatghost28 · « **Reply #15 on:** November 20, 2006, 11:07:04 AM »

Can Bz really be as stupid as he's making us believe?

:/

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #16 on:** November 20, 2006, 11:09:15 AM »

Whats stupid about this damnit? I'm trying to be serious for shit sake.

Fatghost28 · « **Reply #17 on:** November 20, 2006, 08:31:27 PM »

Quote from: ZomBz on November 20, 2006, 11:09:15 AM

Whats stupid about this damnit? I'm trying to be serious for shit sake.

Letting this chick run/ruin your life is pretty stupid. Ignoring the signs is stupid. Believing people can change is stupid.

Mupepe · « **Reply #18 on:** November 20, 2006, 08:33:33 PM »

Love is stupid too. Remember that.

The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment · « **Reply #19 on:** November 21, 2006, 07:39:48 AM »

LOLZ UR ALL STOOPID

Cyanista · « **Reply #20 on:** November 21, 2006, 07:43:19 AM »

Why does your chair need to go? Is there no room for her to walk through the den? If there is, tell her to go fuck herself.

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #21 on:** November 21, 2006, 07:45:47 AM »

Nah its in the master bedroom and stick out. Its like having a bean bag chair in a nice designed room that is Victorian in style. I just put it in the master cause i wanted a comfy chair she's right it must go. If i want comfy i've got other rooms to play games in.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #22 on:** November 21, 2006, 12:02:30 PM »

we needs pics

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #23 on:** November 21, 2006, 12:34:43 PM »

Well i just got kicked the fuck out of bed. WTF MAN WTF she kicked my ass out of the fucking bed. Must have farted or something wtf though. I'm sleeping the next thing i know i'm on the fucking floor.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #24 on:** November 21, 2006, 12:37:19 PM »

You deserve this ZomBz. My god...

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #25 on:** November 21, 2006, 12:42:37 PM »

this is all an elaborate fantasy until we get some corroborating evidence aka PIX

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #26 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:04:24 PM »

also, assuming this woman exists for the sake of amusement: are you sure you didn't lactate on her?

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #27 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:26:17 PM »

I might have drooled or something i dont know but shit what kind of pics do you want. Cause you know your taking a risk asking for pics from me.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #28 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:27:28 PM »

Just a pic of her. I've seen her before, but maybe a newer pic this time

Raguel · « **Reply #29 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:30:21 PM »

Hey BZ, I am completely lost about your situation. Is there a thread or can anyone recap it? K THXK BY

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #30 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:41:00 PM »

Quote from: Raguel on November 21, 2006, 01:30:21 PM

Hey BZ, I am completely lost about your situation. Is there a thread or can anyone recap it? K THXK BY

He married a woman to keep her out of legal trouble, and she treats him like shit.

Christopher · « **Reply #31 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:42:26 PM »

She pays him with panties

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #32 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:42:53 PM »

he treats her like shit, too, if his account is anything to go on and if this situation is even ten percent grounded in reality.

Raguel · « **Reply #33 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:44:37 PM »

Quote from: Christopher on November 21, 2006, 01:42:26 PM

She pays him with panties

Yeah...I read about that. Didn't know about legal troubles. Seems like it's a win win situation!!

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #34 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:46:37 PM »

huh? Sounds like he treats her like a queen as much as he can, and is very loving to her. Which makes the situation more disturbing to me

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #35 on:** November 21, 2006, 01:59:33 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on November 21, 2006, 01:46:37 PM

huh? Sounds like he treats her like a queen as much as he can, and is very loving to her. Which makes the situation more disturbing to me

Yes she is my goddess i worship her pretty much. And work very hard to keep her happy. It sucks cause you'd think she'd a least notice. But no i'm never good enough.

Cheebs · « **Reply #36 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:01:05 PM »

Quote from: ZomBz on November 21, 2006, 01:59:33 PM

Yes she is my goddess i worship her pretty much.

why

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #37 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:01:15 PM »

This is beginning to sound pathetically fake.

Cheebs · « **Reply #38 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:01:43 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on November 21, 2006, 02:01:15 PM

This is beginning to sound pathetically fake.

This isn't one of your threads

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #39 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:02:38 PM »

women don't want a fuckin' servile tool, they want a MAN

putting up with the guilt and dependency that comes from having a submissive, faux-adoring shitwit of a partner *is* a form of coercive abuse

the "worship" shit is just another series of emotional manipulations to get what YOU want and she knows it on some level

and what YOU want is CREEPY

it's what i said ages ago: she's weak, and you just can't handle losing

Cheebs · « **Reply #40 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:05:13 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on November 21, 2006, 02:02:38 PM

and what YOU want is CREEPY

He wants to wear her panties

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #41 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:07:35 PM »

It doesn't sound like she cares, so I doubt she's having any guilt over this. Sounds like a cold hearted woman to me.

You'd think that if someone kept you out of jail and/or legal trouble you'd have the decency to pay them back one way or another and be greatful. But from the way you decribe the situation it seems like she expects you to treat her like this, and she takes it for advantage. That's certainly not a true relationship ZomBz.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #42 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:08:02 PM »

and apparently fuck her in ass

rare indeed is the well-adjusted woman that likes getting her ass pounded; most who like it have crazy histories, and the rest merely tolerate it because they think they hafta do it to appeal to their mates. add in the rest of bz' fucked-up sexual predilections, and you can pretty much consider any semblance of a normal relationship DOOMED

Saint Cornelius · « **Reply #43 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:15:02 PM »

yeah it takes a certain type of woman to take it in the 'chute

and those bitches am usually crazy

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #44 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:17:15 PM »

pd, what you know about real relationships could be pissed into a very small thimble and still leave it only half full, so don't front while the adults are talkin'

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #45 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:19:38 PM »

She does not feel guilt. But she knows how to use guilt against me towards getting what she wants. She'll bend things backwards if she must to get what she wants. Its not fair i know that and when things get nasty i'm always the one having to make up for everything. I hate to be threatened and she's got all of my numbers if you know what i mean.

Its not fun living on eggshells

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #46 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:20:45 PM »

yeah, you're always the victim

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #47 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:21:59 PM »

Quote from: Drinky Crow on November 21, 2006, 02:17:15 PM

pd, what you know about real relationships could be pissed into a very small thimble and still leave it only half full, so don't front while the adults are talkin'

I'm just giving my opinion Andrew. And based on our posts, it seems like we agree.

Van Cruncheon · « **Reply #48 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:23:16 PM »

my name's Harvey

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #49 on:** November 21, 2006, 02:24:31 PM »

My apologies Harvey.

This seems like a pretty serious issue, and I'd like to discuss it as such if that's ok with you Harvey

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #50 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:04:24 PM »

Drinky i've always been a victim to others abuse, first my fathers and then my girls. Albeit i think she gets off on control. And when she's not in control she just rampages at everyone. Including me the one who's always been there. All i want to do is put a smile on her face. And i've sacrificed a lot of my energy, time, money to do that. And she's still ungrateful but what can i do? I try to toughen up and it gets me nowhere and quick. She'll just pull a threat card on me. I have sometimes let her do that just to see if she'll do it. And she has in the past she has no guilt like i said.

She's not a cold person but damn i know its fucking cold.

Saint Cornelius · « **Reply #51 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:09:04 PM »

ZombZ: have you ever tried, you know, not being in a relationship?

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #52 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:15:04 PM »

Corney for many years i was not in a relationship. I've been in this one for more than 4 years. But then again i guess you could call her my first love too. Which makes things even more complicated. I've never met anyone better than her. But thats the past speaking not the present. The present day she's a uber bitch most of the time.

Cheebs · « **Reply #53 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:18:27 PM »

Quote from: ZomBz on November 21, 2006, 03:15:04 PM

I've never met anyone better than her.

The best person you meat in your life is selfish and is horribly rude to you....?

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #54 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:45:55 PM »

She wasnt like this before. She was a innocent angel when i met her. And was the most beautiful thing in my life at that time. Now she's still beautiful but with the nasty attitude. She's always wanted to just be spoiled. I spoiled her when we met. I had to stop cause i didnt have a job at the time and i was using my mom's money to fund a lot of things. So when i stoped spoiling her she got upset at me. She expects to be spoiled no matter what.

I went through a bought of depression and got on meds and thats what changed her. I became someone i wasnt and she became the pain in the ass she is now. And i've had to suffer through it all these years.

Saint Cornelius · « **Reply #55 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:47:52 PM »

This is all starting to remind me of Jotaro and his brother

ZombZ: if all you're saying is true, this woman is poison and you need to get the fuck away. Doesn't matter how much you loved / love her, this is going to turn into a murder / suicide if you don't get the fuck outta there.

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #56 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:51:40 PM »

Yes i know she's poison but damnit the poison tastes good sometimes. I'm stuck in this for a while. And i'm just trying to make it all better. If i make it better then everything is ok

Saint Cornelius · « **Reply #57 on:** November 21, 2006, 03:56:01 PM »

How the fuck are you going to make this better duder?

G The Resurrected · « **Reply #58 on:** November 21, 2006, 04:16:16 PM »

Dont know just gotta have faith. :'(

I see a counselor every two weeks to discuss things and that doesnt much help me.

All i have is knowing that i'm not a evil person and that i dont want to be a evil person. My father was a horrible person very violent and crazy like. And i just cant bring myself to being that person. I'm a pacifist for the most part.

I just hate being blamed for other peoples inadiquicies (sp?) or problems. I took her on and with that the baggage that goes with it. But its one thing to be responsible for someone. Its another when you have to be responsible for anything and everything that happens weather your involved or not.

I remember her having no money one time cause she spent it all. She came to me cause she was fustrated. I became the evil person cause i wouldnt give her more money. At the time i didnt have any. But that didnt matter to her. Cause to her i was now the problem. So cause i didnt have money to give her at the time she said i didnt give a crap about her. That i didnt love her.

Same thing can be said for when i'd get her something. She'd demand it right then and there. And if it didnt get out that day i was evil cause i made her wait. I might not have had the money at the time to ship what i got her or something else might have come up. But she expects it no matter what. That need for instant gratification has been the cause of a lot of problems in our relationship.

I notice it and i want to help her understand it. But its like dealing with a crazy person who just wont accept it. Denial is one hell of a fucking drug in this case. But then again i'm suffering from it too.

BlueTsunami · « **Reply #59 on:** November 21, 2006, 04:20:39 PM »

This thread should be changed too

Living with Bz: Panties in my Sweat Pants

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