I think my nephew is gay

[Third]

The last few months have been really strange. I'm getting suspicious about the sexual preference of my nephew. He never talks about women anymore and he's becoming too metrosexual. But what really made me worry was this:
We went to a few carnival parties together in the weekend and I think I've almost trapped him doing something with another guy. When I stepped up he acted way to defensive about it and the other guy bailed out.
I think I've overreacted a bit, and I have nothing against gay people. But it's my nephew. The thought of him being gay is scary. Haven't talked with him anymore since that "accident"

He always had different girlfriends. But he hasn't had a girlfriend since last summer now. I'm getting worried. Maybe I should ask him. But he'll never admit. I'm sure.

[FlameOfCallandor]

What is a carnival party? Is that code for butt sex? If so, then he's probably gay.

[Akala]

The last few months have been really strange. I'm getting suspicious about the sexual preference of my nephew. He never talks about women anymore and he's becoming too metrosexual. But what really made me worry was this:
We went to a few carnival parties together in the weekend and I think I've almost trapped him doing something with another guy. When I stepped up he acted way to defensive about it and the other guy bailed out.
I think I've overreacted a bit, and I have nothing against gay people. But it's my nephew. The thought of him being gay is scary. Haven't talked with him anymore since that "accident"

He always had different girlfriends. But he hasn't had a girlfriend since last summer now. I'm getting worried. Maybe I should ask him. But he'll never admit. I'm sure.

Does it really matter? You could always ask him.

[Himu]

I think my cousin is gay. Not that it matters but he's always been a little on the fruity side.

One of my cousin's is DEFINITELY a lesbian though. She even admitted as such. She was the first openly gay person I've met I think.

[Ganhyun]

Letting him know it doesn't matter if he is or not might give him the courage to come out.

Or maybe he was doing some drug and you almost caught him?

But yea, definitely talk to him.

[lordmaji]

Did you tell him it's a disease and he needs to seek medical treatment?

It's like cancer, it can spread like flames... 

[WrikaWrek]

It's not like he's your son. Let him be all teh gay he wants.

[BobFromPikeCreek]

Have sex with him and see if he likes it. Only way to be sure.

[Flannel Boy]

if he doesn't look like he's enjoying it. DO IT AGAIN, just to make sure he wasn't faking the first time.

[Third]

A carnival party is a tradition in south Holland. You can compare it with Halloween, but it's more colourful:



Something like that.

I have nothing against gay people. I even went to a gayparty once in Amsterdam. Just for fun.
But it's strange when it happens in your family. I'd definitely not hate him if he would come out...
But I'd feel uncomfortable if he'd hug and kiss me.

[BobFromPikeCreek]

if he doesn't look like he's enjoying it. DO IT AGAIN, just to make sure he wasn't faking the first time.

I'd say just bring a few more guys in to be sure. You might not match his preference.

[Third]

Have sex with him and see if he likes it. Only way to be sure.

He looks better than the average girl.  

But no.

[Flannel Boy]

hmmm, i think Third might be gay.

[TakingBackSunday]

I have five gay people in my extended family.  Three of them are awesome, the other two are kinda scary and are hippies.

[Flannel Boy]

I have five gay people in my extended family.  Three of them are awesome, the other two are kinda scary and are hippies.

"The gay" runs in families. Sometimes it manifests itself in "the incest."

[TakingBackSunday]

I have five gay people in my extended family.  Three of them are awesome, the other two are kinda scary and are hippies.

"The gay" runs in families. Sometimes it manifests itself in "the incest."

Hurr hurrr

[FlameOfCallandor]

A carnival party is a tradition in south Holland. You can compare it with Halloween, but it's more colourful:

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Which one is your brother?

[Third]

We never had someone gay in the family. But then again, we're muslim. There are no muslim gay people.

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I think I'm going to just ask him. But he will never tell me. And especially not his parents. I think they'll beat him. His brothers too.
Hell, they'd even beat me if they would find out we were at a gay party.

[Flannel Boy]

We never had someone gay in the family. But then again, we're muslim. There are no muslim gay people.

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jinfash puts an end to that lie.

[Third]

Which one is your brother?

The  far left one is my brother. But this thread is about my nephew.

[bud]

you've posted a picture of him before, right? the one with you, him and some other dude. iirc, he looks very feminine and sexy.

[Herr Mafflard]

He's probably just experimenting. I ain't gay but I had  dick comparing sessions and once I had buttsex when I was around 13/14.

[Flannel Boy]

He's probably just experimenting. I ain't gay but I had  dick comparing sessions and once I had buttsex when I was around 13/14.

yeah. experimenting. yeah.

[Third]

He's the one on the left. 

The reason why I post this here is because he reas GAF.

[Himu]

Uh

he's gay

[bud]

that's him! dude, look at him... just look at him.

is it really that much of a surprise

[Third]

you've posted a picture of him before, right? the one with you, him and some other dude. iirc, he looks very feminine and sexy.

yeah, I think you mean this one:




With me in the middle

[Himu]

Looks like he's taking estrogen hormones.

[Herr Mafflard]

when you talk to him it's going to be like that simpsons episode where Bart exclaims at the end of the ep, "He thinks I'm gay!?"

you've posted a picture of him before, right? the one with you, him and some other dude. iirc, he looks very feminine and sexy.

yeah, I think you mean this one:

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With me in the middle

To be honest, you all look gay here.

[WrikaWrek]

Dude has gay written in his forehead.

[Third]

He was also very pretty when he was a child. people always thought he was a girl when he was little. So no hormones.

He can look gay to some. But a lot of males are feminine nowadays.

[Human Snorenado]

It's funny how closely having asperger's looks like having the gay.  My nephew will only play games like the sims and animal crossing where he can decorate shit.

Then again, he's 10.  He'll probably be asexual cause of the asperger's.

[Flannel Boy]

he's gay

thread solved

[Joe Molotov]

He's gay.

[Herr Mafflard]

You should take him to nice quiet pub, just the two of you - say you just wanna hang out and get beer or something. Then tell him he can trust you and that you would honour his privacy, and just ask him if he's gay after about 20 mins chatting about other stuff.

[Third]

To be honest, you all look gay here.

WTF? I look more heterosexual than David Hasselhoff.

I think I'm going to interview his ex-girfriend and ask her about their relationship. She's cool.
I don't think I can confront him with the "are you gay" question for now. I have a feeling he'll trip out.

[lordmaji]

To be honest, you all look gay here.

Chooo Choo!!!! Come on the train... and ride it!

....ride that choo choo, ride that choo choo!

[Himu]

the choo choo = tauntaun's cock

[Herr Mafflard]

He's probably just experimenting. I ain't gay but I had  dick comparing sessions and once I had buttsex when I was around 13/14.

That's insanely gay. Like why the fuck would you tell people that.

Why not? I'm just telling Third that just because he caught his nephew doing something, he shouldn't jump to a conclusion without asking him.

To be honest, you all look gay here.

WTF? I look more heterosexual than David Hasselhoff.

I think I'm going to interview his ex-girfriend and ask her about their relationship. She's cool.
I don't think I can confront him with the "are you gay" question for now. I have a feeling he'll trip out.

She probably won't have a straight answer for you. Maybe he doesn't know yet. Don't ask him if you aint comfortable with the question. The best thing is to give him time. Remember, Pierce Brosnan didn't know if he was gay or straight until he was 20. These things can happen to anyone.

[Third]

I don't think I can confront him with the "are you gay" question for now. I have a feeling he'll trip out.

Trip out? Maybe. Drop something then go under the table and suck your dick? Most likely.

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :'(

lol, he removed me form his hyves account. wtf? I can only see his portifolio picture, but not the content wtf?
I've never read his messages, I think he's going to remove a few suspicious ones.



As if his portofolio picture isn't suspicious enough. what a dipshit. I'm pissed now.
I didn't do shit to him in the disco. He's way overreacting. :/

[Diunx]

Gayest thread of the year.

[Himu]

He's reading this thread.

[Herr Mafflard]

And when heart is open
And when heart is open
You will change just like a flower slowly openin'
And when heart is open
You will change just like a flower slowly openin'
When there's no comin'
And there's no goin'
And when heart is open
You will meet your lover
You will tarry
You will tarry
With your lover?
And when heart is open
You will meet your lover
When there's no comin'
And there's no goin'
Oh, hand me down my old great coat
Oh, hand me down my old great coat
I believe I'll go walkin' in the woods
Oh. my darlin'.
Oh, hand me down my big boots.
Oh, hand me down my big boots
I believe I'll go walkin' in the woods
Oh, my darlin'
And she moves by the waterfall
When she moves
She moves just like a deer
Across the meadow
And when heart is open
You will change just like a flower slowly openin'

[Third]

No he only reads gaf and shares my account in OA. He doesn't know about EB.
That's why I'm posting this here.

He was pissed when I posted his picture in OA.

[Cheebs]

My dad's uncle was gay and he named my middle name after him. So I am pretty gay.

[Van Cruncheon]

why are you worried? who the fuck cares?

[Cheebs]

why are you worried? who the fuck cares?

Yeah, I mean I just noticed this part:

"But it's my nephew. The thought of him being gay is scary."

wtf man?

[lordmaji]

I don't think I can confront him with the "are you gay" question for now. I have a feeling he'll trip out.

Trip out? Maybe. Drop something then go under the table and suck your dick? Most likely.

nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo :'(

lol, he removed me form his hyves account. wtf? I can only see his portifolio picture, but not the content wtf?
I've never read his messages, I think he's going to remove a few suspicious ones.

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As if his portofolio picture isn't suspicious enough. what a dipshit. I'm pissed now.
I didn't do shit to him in the disco. He's way overreacting. :/

man... that's totally a balls on chin dude.

[WrikaWrek]

Super gay

[Third]

Scary in a way of...scary?
I never head a family member being gay. Or at least not being cought in the act.

That's the scary thing. I have a few gay Dutch friends, but I hang out with them and forget that they're gay.

But this is my nephew. I grew up with him. I would accept the thing he was born with and still love him. But I still find it scary for now.
That's like finding out your father is gay or something like that.

But I still don't know shit about him, so it seems. He always had hot girlfriends. That's why I always thought he was straight.

[Cheebs]

Scary in a way of...scary?

I don't see how. How gay at all scary?

[Herr Mafflard]

Scary in a way of...scary?
I never head a family member being gay. Or at least not being cought in the act.

That's the scary thing. I have a few gay Dutch friends, but I hang out with them and forget that they're gay.

But this is my nephew. I grew up with him. I would accept the thing he was born with and still love him. But I still find it scary for now.
That's like finding out your father is gay or something like that.

But I still don't know shit about him, so it seems. He always had hot girlfriends. That's why I always thought he was straight.

He's either gay or super-suave. Tell me if he's super suave.

[Third]

Scary in a way of...scary?

I don't see how. How gay at all scary?

I just don't know how I would handle the situation. That's scary.

I still don't know if he's gay or not. But if he's gay our life would be changed. We would still have the same relationship. But some things would change, and that's a bit scary to me.

[Herr Mafflard]

If he's gay, he'll be afraid you might cast him out. Posting his picture online where he could see it was a bad move. He'll think you're taking the mickey out of him. 

For me, you have two choices:

1. Tell him it doesn't matter, and that you'll still love him.

2. Give him time. If he's gay he'll come out on his own.

[Eric P]

he just looks like a metal head

[lordmaji]

You know you want a nob goblin. You've been hanging out a lot yeah? Maybe he wants YOU!

If you're unsure about incest, and if it's wrong morally. You can look to brandnew for advice.

Cock gobbler.

Hrmmm, you think he pitches or catches?

Eric P... he's a huge fan of Rob Halford. Especially Turbo Lover!!!!!

[Third]

If he's gay, he'll be afraid you might cast him out. Posting his picture online where he could see it was a bad move. He'll think you're taking the mickey out of him. 

For me, you have two choices:

1. Tell him it doesn't matter, and that you'll still love him.

2. Give him time. If he's gay he'll come out on his own.

He knows that I don't have anything againts gay people. We discussed a lot of times about "being gay" with other gay people. We both are very open minded.
But it's still a very uncomfortable thought, for now. Uncomfortable, that's the right word. I should've used that word instead of scary.

But we'll see. If he's gay. Good for him and I will treat him the same of course. If not, I'll do the same.

[Herr Mafflard]

In time, you'll be fine.

Sleepovers will never be the same again, though. Just joking.

[Third]

Damn, Green Man.  

Ehh, I don't think my nephew is sexually attracted to me. Now that would be scary.
Sometimes he looks like a very hot chick though.

[Flannel Boy]

Sometimes he looks like a very hot chick though.

things that make you go hmmmm