Author Topic: The weekend hangover/booze/remorse thread (Read 2551 times)

The Sceneman · « **on:** July 11, 2009, 01:39:28 AM »

Why does this keep happening? I get boozed, hard on a Friday night and I get up at 3pm the following day, remorseful and gutted that I lost valuable game time.

Last night was extra special as I was hitting on the owner of one of the citys most popular restaurants LIKE AN INDUSTRIAL HAMMER. (also the boss of several of my friends) I spent a good 3 hours chatting her up and trying to makeout with her at least (which sort of happened). She told me she wasnt keen to sleep with me/go on a date becuase of the fact that my friends would find out and also the age diffrence betwen us... she was in her late 30's (I guess, didnt ask) and Im 23. While she obviously did like me a little bit I still feel remorseful as and pretty defeated about the whole thing. Will she say hi and chat next time I see her? Or not? I dont know if I should be worried about what I did or not.

Man I hate hangovers!

Bloodwake · « **Reply #1 on:** July 11, 2009, 01:46:30 AM »

Well, even though I am in London, Hellhole, I am still sober. NEW LAPTOP WHOOO

Mr. Gundam · « **Reply #2 on:** July 11, 2009, 02:45:57 AM »

Went to the Mariners game tonight, gonna watch The Soup and have crazy weekend sex before passing out and getting up at the crack of dawn to go on an 8-mile hike. Plan on seeing Humpday and maybe Burno and getting trashed tomorrow night after the hike.

muckhole · « **Reply #3 on:** July 11, 2009, 11:42:35 AM »

Sunday's comin'.

Beezy · « **Reply #4 on:** July 11, 2009, 01:36:16 PM »

Quote from: Scenester on July 11, 2009, 01:39:28 AM

valuable game time

-_-

ch1nchilla · « **Reply #5 on:** July 11, 2009, 06:53:58 PM »

Wednesday night I partied like a dumbass and I was unstoppable at beer pong, went 6-0 before finally being defeated, and had side-arms the whole time... amounted to 15-20 beers I would guess. The next day I felt so fucking miserable at work until about noon, and my summer job is hard labor = me FUCKED and feeling like a zombie, also still drunk until about 10:30 am. I basically tried my best to do nothing at all in the morning until I finally felt better after lunch. That's the last time I will have a hangover at this job, bottom line.

Swimming in Coors Light tonight ftw.

Beezy · « **Reply #6 on:** July 12, 2009, 12:58:33 AM »

Was at a party/bbq 2 blocks away from my house 30 mins ago, but it was boring because it was pretty much a sausagefest. Drank free alcohol while I was there, I have no idea what was in it. I'll go back in 30 mins or whenever the rain stops to see if more girls came.

Beezy · « **Reply #7 on:** July 12, 2009, 01:50:25 AM »

Still raining. I'm gonna stay home. Doubt more people went in the rain anyway. smh

Arbys Roast Beef Sandwich · « **Reply #8 on:** July 12, 2009, 02:27:46 AM »

fuck ya'all, I had to move today. no weekend hangovers/remorse here

muckhole · « **Reply #9 on:** July 12, 2009, 10:57:48 AM »

Quote from: Arbys Roast Beef Sandwich on July 12, 2009, 02:27:46 AM

fuck ya'all, I had to move today. no weekend hangovers/remorse here

I thought moving day was traditionally followed by the obligatory case/cases of beer. Of course, I live in the country, so moving day usually involves 2-3 friend's pickup trucks, followed by a beat-up '92 Dodge Shadow towing a rickety trailer twice it's size.

Anyways, it's sunday, so barring any unforseen hurdles, the Sunday Night Drinking thread shall be resurrected.

Kestastrophe · « **Reply #10 on:** July 12, 2009, 07:11:56 PM »

Despite the fact that this thread was in the back of my mind last night, I still got shitty. I spent the night at my folk's house in my hometown and went to the bar where my brother works with my cousin. My brother is under house arrest for multiple underage drinking tickets, so he made it his duty to get myself and my cousin super shitty by sending us Fireballs, Pepper shots, and some other fruity shot on top of multiple servings of multiple different types of beer. On top of that, I smoked at least half a pack of cigarettes and I don't smoke, so I was fully expecting to be puking my guts out all night. This morning was rough, but my mom made an awesome greasy breakfast sandwich made with egg, cheese, and bacon on chiabatta bread that I nibbled on for a good couple of hours before I finally felt up to finally eating it.

Mom

Brother

lordmaji · « **Reply #11 on:** July 12, 2009, 07:19:54 PM »

I drank a few too many last night also. Ugh. $:-\$

Brehvolution · « **Reply #12 on:** July 12, 2009, 07:22:57 PM »

I was at a nice new hotel on Seneca lake for a friends wedding last night. Got pretty drunk. Lost a lot of respect I had for some of my wife's friends.
Woke up around noon and took a nap from 3-5, still feel pretty slow.

ch1nchilla · « **Reply #13 on:** July 12, 2009, 07:26:20 PM »

Drank a shitton last night, feel surprisingly good now. Was a good time until our driver fucking cockblocked me and the dragon super hard.

Arbys Roast Beef Sandwich · « **Reply #14 on:** July 12, 2009, 08:10:08 PM »

Quote from: muckhole on July 12, 2009, 10:57:48 AM

I thought moving day was traditionally followed by the obligatory case/cases of beer. Of course, I live in the country, so moving day usually involves 2-3 friend's pickup trucks, followed by a beat-up '92 Dodge Shadow towing a rickety trailer twice it's size.

Anyways, it's sunday, so barring any unforseen hurdles, the Sunday Night Drinking thread shall be resurrected.

Only two or three cans of beer were consumed yesterday, surprisingly. I too am hoping for some Sunday Night Drinking myself.

Bildi · « **Reply #15 on:** July 12, 2009, 08:21:12 PM »

I had a booze-up on Saturday night with red wine, scotch and Chartreuse.

Unlike with beer, no next-day repurcussions whatsoever.

Mr. Gundam · « **Reply #16 on:** July 12, 2009, 09:24:22 PM »

Ended up at the Red Hook brewery in Woodinville yesterday after our hike. Drank too much before going home and taking a nap. After waking up, the wife and I invited some friends over and got Taco Bell and more beer. Fortunately, I don't have a hangover.

ch1nchilla · « **Reply #17 on:** July 12, 2009, 11:29:16 PM »

Hangover has been slow to set in, and I just feel like ass at this point. I had a huge salad for dinner (omelette for breakfast), so that should help pretty soon, I hope. I only have six cigarettes for work right now, so I scrounged around the house and found an old pack about 10 minutes ago. Smoked about half of one of those before I had to quit. Was miserable, and my heart rate was bananas high. I am unmotivated to do anything right now. :'(

Need Entourage.

T234 · « **Reply #18 on:** July 13, 2009, 12:47:41 AM »

I haven't drank in a month because I nearly died of alcohol poisoning. Whole fifth of Heaven Hill (considered rotgut whiskey even for this state) green label in like an hour and a half by myself. Puked up black shit for quite awhile.

These past few nights have been weed central. Thursday night, we vaporized a half-ounce of $200/ounce weed. Got eight people too high to move. I also ate 39 half-frozen popsicles, and everybody else ended up eating 4 pounds of nachos between them. Friday, I got so high I thought it was daylight out and it was three in the morning.

muckhole · « **Reply #19 on:** July 13, 2009, 01:30:44 AM »

I'm not resurrecting the Sunday Night Drinking thread due to this one already being on the main page. I can't stay on long, but some quick notes on everybody while we're getting toasted:

- The gf thinks Bebpo is perfectly good looking
- We love the new ch1nchilla pic, and may put it next to our bed
- My gf and I hope Willco takes the former employer in question to the cleaners, then somehow makes me famous with the gains (we'll think positive vibes about your dog too :'( )
- If I ever went on tour again, I'd force Bildi and Powerslave to come with me
- Someday I'll take demi fishing for chocolate bass

- I now have Kestastrophe's home address, I hope he answers the door in something sexy
- Blue Tsunami still has the prettiest lips I've ever seen on a man or woman

Now my gf's thoughts:

- Bebpo, you're a cutie, keep the beard
- Willco, I hope your dog gets better
- Chocolate bass?

- Kestastrophe don't answer the door!!!
- I was upset until I saw the pic of Blue Tsunami's lips

demi · « **Reply #20 on:** July 13, 2009, 01:43:56 AM »

what the fuck is chocolate bass

Bildi · « **Reply #21 on:** July 13, 2009, 01:44:15 AM »

This thread is now officially about BT's lips.

Well, I wish it were anyway.

The Sceneman · « **Reply #22 on:** July 13, 2009, 05:43:48 AM »

jesus christ this is the worst drinking remorse Ive ever had. Im thinking about how I told this woman all my insecurities etc., fucking smooth! I spent all day at work really wound up and on the verge of tears. I booked myself in with a counsellor and I just lost it and cried now.

Probably a good idea to stop boozing for a while

Reb · « **Reply #23 on:** July 13, 2009, 05:53:05 AM »

I had a phase like that around November, not a good idea to combine it with drinking.

Took me about half a year to get in control of my insecurities and emotions and I'm pretty content now. Dating a nice girl, in control at work despite crushing responsibilities, generally balanced.

The Sceneman · « **Reply #24 on:** July 13, 2009, 05:58:40 AM »

Im just really up and down most of the time, my main problem is Im honest and direct to the point of frightening sometimes, and Im constantly telling people too much stuff. Like Im trying to pick someone up and I tell her how I often think "I hate myself and I want to die" not really attractive huh. Thats why I like gaming so much, its really easy to zone out and forget aobut the pain you feel everyday

demi · « **Reply #25 on:** July 13, 2009, 05:59:55 AM »

Speaking of being brutally honest on the verge of tears have you chimed in on Bebpo's thread

Reb · « **Reply #26 on:** July 13, 2009, 06:03:35 AM »

Quote from: Scenester on July 13, 2009, 05:58:40 AM

Im just really up and down most of the time, my main problem is Im honest and direct to the point of frightening sometimes, and Im constantly telling people too much stuff. Like Im trying to pick someone up and I tell her how I often think "I hate myself and I want to die" not really attractive huh. Thats why I like gaming so much, its really easy to zone out and forget aobut the pain you feel everyday

I'm the same with the ups and downs, only I keep everything nicely tucked away. Most people think I'm really confident and laid back. I think the thing is to even out the ups and downs a bit more (the downs will of course never be gone) to the point that they bum you out, in stead of making you cry. I found that talking to a professional gives the insecurities a place, so they won't always be on top of your mind.

The Sceneman · « **Reply #27 on:** July 13, 2009, 06:04:13 AM »

It is the middle of winter here and freezing so thats probably playing some part.

Lol at the Bebpo thread, maybe Im not so bad

The Sceneman · « **Reply #28 on:** July 13, 2009, 06:08:42 AM »

Quote from: Rebiak on July 13, 2009, 06:03:35 AM

Quote from: Scenester on July 13, 2009, 05:58:40 AM
Im just really up and down most of the time, my main problem is Im honest and direct to the point of frightening sometimes, and Im constantly telling people too much stuff. Like Im trying to pick someone up and I tell her how I often think "I hate myself and I want to die" not really attractive huh. Thats why I like gaming so much, its really easy to zone out and forget aobut the pain you feel everyday

I'm the same with the ups and downs, only I keep everything nicely tucked away. Most people think I'm really confident and laid back. I think the thing is to even out the ups and downs a bit more (the downs will of course never be gone) to the point that they bum you out, in stead of making you cry. I found that talking to a professional gives the insecurities a place, so they won't always be on top of your mind.

Good to hear

I think Im just always wanting support from others which is why I speak exactly what Im thinking most of the time. Last time I saw a professional they thought the majority of my fucked up irrational thinking stems from my childhood. I had a pretty shitty time from age 5-12 as both my parents (they seperated when I was 1) had shit going on and didnt really have any time for me whatsoever (which is why I started playing games, they are always there for you). Basically If something can go worng, I think thats whats going to happen, and if Im in a good mood, I'll think "fuck somehthing must be wrong, what is it". Also why Im terrified of my ex-partners, becuase Im terrified of rejection

demi · « **Reply #29 on:** July 13, 2009, 06:09:08 AM »

Sounds like you just have http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Seasonal_affective_disorder

The Sceneman · « **Reply #30 on:** July 13, 2009, 06:17:39 AM »

On the plus side, If I cut out the piss It means I can pick up more games

Reb · « **Reply #31 on:** July 13, 2009, 06:47:07 AM »

Quote from: Scenester on July 13, 2009, 06:08:42 AM

Quote from: Rebiak on July 13, 2009, 06:03:35 AM
Quote from: Scenester on July 13, 2009, 05:58:40 AM
Im just really up and down most of the time, my main problem is Im honest and direct to the point of frightening sometimes, and Im constantly telling people too much stuff. Like Im trying to pick someone up and I tell her how I often think "I hate myself and I want to die" not really attractive huh. Thats why I like gaming so much, its really easy to zone out and forget aobut the pain you feel everyday

I'm the same with the ups and downs, only I keep everything nicely tucked away. Most people think I'm really confident and laid back. I think the thing is to even out the ups and downs a bit more (the downs will of course never be gone) to the point that they bum you out, in stead of making you cry. I found that talking to a professional gives the insecurities a place, so they won't always be on top of your mind.

Good to hear I think Im just always wanting support from others which is why I speak exactly what Im thinking most of the time. Last time I saw a professional they thought the majority of my fucked up irrational thinking stems from my childhood. I had a pretty shitty time from age 5-12 as both my parents (they seperated when I was 1) had shit going on and didnt really have any time for me whatsoever (which is why I started playing games, they are always there for you). Basically If something can go worng, I think thats whats going to happen, and if Im in a good mood, I'll think "fuck somehthing must be wrong, what is it". Also why Im terrified of my ex-partners, becuase Im terrified of rejection

Yeah, most peoples problems stem from the fact that they learned behaviour in their childhood which starts working against them in adulthood. The way out is breaking down your learned thought patterns by constantly comparing them and testing them with reality (worked for me) or maybe medication if it's on a more chemical level (worked for my sister).

It comes down to facing your fears and insecurities and challenging them, in small steps.

Right now you come off as if you're looking for a new mummy (listen to my problems, tell me it'll be ok), in stead of a girlfriend.

EDIT: Ok, I'm wrapping this up. All I'm trying to say is: get some help, realise that your behaviour is the key.
I recognise almost everything you say and I'm telling you life can be easier.

Or get some light therapy, if this only happens in the winter!

recursivelyenumerable · « **Reply #32 on:** July 13, 2009, 08:38:27 AM »

Quote

Lol at the Bebpo thread, maybe Im not so bad

You are taller and live in a more favorable environment, that's all.

muckhole · « **Reply #33 on:** July 13, 2009, 12:56:31 PM »

My post last night is the closest I've come yet to the drunken "I LOVE YOU, MAN" speech on the internet.

May be time to let the Sunday Night drinking threads alone for a bit, lest I truly embarrass myself.

spoiler (click to show/hide)

Though, Blue's lips.

[close]

Oh, and "fishing for chocolate bass" is an anal sex metaphor, demi.

demi · « **Reply #34 on:** July 13, 2009, 02:28:21 PM »

d'awwww

Kestastrophe · « **Reply #35 on:** July 13, 2009, 02:36:18 PM »

Quote from: muckhole on July 13, 2009, 01:30:44 AM

- I now have Kestastrophe's home address, I hope he answers the door in something sexy

Is bound to the bed posts and ball gagged sexy enough

spoiler (click to show/hide)

i'll leave a key under the welcome mat

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The Sceneman · « **Reply #36 on:** July 16, 2009, 05:10:28 AM »

okay shit got bad. My friend texted me back after I asked if he wanted to hang out. He said "yeah but it might be awkward cos of **** dude", this being the woman (his boss) that I hit on last friday. I was too drunk to remember the specifics but apparently I was pretty persistant. Stopped drinking until further notice and seeing a counsellor as a result, Ive asked him to tell her Im sorry but Ive been in tears for the past couple of hours and Im convinced my life is fucked. God I hate myself

OptimoPeach · « **Reply #37 on:** July 16, 2009, 08:15:51 AM »

Wait, what? He hangs out with his boss every night?

Beezy · « **Reply #38 on:** July 18, 2009, 04:14:38 PM »

My friends from my old neighborhood had a house party last night and it was waaaaaaaaaaay better than the last. I only drank some shit that my friend mixed called jungle juice

and it's main ingredient is Everclear. The only thing that I regret is getting my picture taken while dancing and not getting any numbers. I won't be surprised if some of those pics show up on facebook.

They're having another one tonight at a different house and it's supposed to be bigger than last night's.

Mr. Gundam · « **Reply #39 on:** July 18, 2009, 04:19:14 PM »

I had an awesome basil-infused Pilsner last night at a local brewery.

ch1nchilla · « **Reply #40 on:** July 18, 2009, 04:23:32 PM »

Had a few beers last night, too many cigarettes. My mouth tastes like ass. Need to brush my teeth and do go running today before the serious drinking happens tonight.

Kara · « **Reply #41 on:** July 18, 2009, 04:58:09 PM »

I got high last night and stared at my ceiling for most of it. No regrets here.

blk.rebl · « **Reply #42 on:** July 18, 2009, 06:06:36 PM »

got off work last nite at 3 am, hung out with the gang drinking tecate and smoking blunt after blunt til about an hour ago. now i'm home and i have to get ready for work in a couple hours. i'll be working until 5 am, off zero sleep from last nite.

also, the OP (i don't know you, and no offense..) seriously needs to just man the fuck up. u really think crying is gonna help you? fuck that shit. keep that shit bottled up, and play sports to relieve the fucking tension. stop confiding in video games, it's obvious that they won't help your problems...

and about that boss you hit on, go talk to her in person and apologize. give her a sob story like you're not supposed to be drinking since blah blah blah and you had to much blah blah blah and you want to apologize. that's it. stop being such a pussy, girls don't find that shit attractive.

The Sceneman · « **Reply #43 on:** July 18, 2009, 06:54:52 PM »

Quote from: blk.rebl on July 18, 2009, 06:06:36 PM

got off work last nite at 3 am, hung out with the gang drinking tecate and smoking blunt after blunt til about an hour ago. now i'm home and i have to get ready for work in a couple hours. i'll be working until 5 am, off zero sleep from last nite.

also, the OP (i don't know you, and no offense..) seriously needs to just man the fuck up. u really think crying is gonna help you? fuck that shit. keep that shit bottled up, and play sports to relieve the fucking tension. stop confiding in video games, it's obvious that they won't help your problems...

and about that boss you hit on, go talk to her in person and apologize. give her a sob story like you're not supposed to be drinking since blah blah blah and you had to much blah blah blah and you want to apologize. that's it. stop being such a pussy, girls don't find that shit attractive.

fair comments. Im feeling better now, saw a counsellor and he gave me some good advice to help me have more pride in myself. So Im doing good! just got really stoned last night and watched phat beach. it was awesome

Kara · « **Reply #44 on:** July 18, 2009, 07:25:24 PM »

Quote from: Kosma on July 18, 2009, 05:07:52 PM

Junkie, what did you get high on?

Vicodin. I'm really starting to warm up to it. Right when the bottle is emptying out. :'(

Tonight I'm probably gonna benzo.

blk.rebl · « **Reply #45 on:** July 18, 2009, 07:36:39 PM »

Quote from: Scenester on July 18, 2009, 06:54:52 PM

fair comments. Im feeling better now, saw a counsellor and he gave me some good advice to help me have more pride in myself. So Im doing good! just got really stoned last night and watched phat beach. it was awesome

good stuff, dude! keep it up

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Author Topic: The weekend hangover/booze/remorse thread (Read 2551 times)