no, black people shouldnt be self aware about eating chicken or watermelon, if im in line at popeyes and see a black person i dont hear the fry dat chicken song in my head, id treat it the same way as if i was in taco bell, or any other place
hell even i am a victim of this shit, when i ask for newports im always self aware and sometimes people get outright awkward, and im one of those fags that orders chicken strips (with ranch) at any restaurant ive never been to before
oh and by the way, yes, it does "just happen", i blame dave chappelle for implanting it into the fabric of popular culture
edit: what i meant to include was that this doesnt happen in a real life daily basis as youre implying, but when a famous black guy infamous for whining about black shit allegedly whines about not getting chicken, that line does pop up in 99% of white peoples minds, not as an insult to black people as a whole, but anything that will stick to this guy people will throw at him, and this is one of them