So my best friend, a delicious 29 years old lady, have been getting closer in the past week. We've been spending lots of time together in the past two year, but nothing ever happened, until a massive change in tone in the past few weeks when I met another girl, an 31 years old italian bombshell
My friend, we'll call her K, has randomly expressed some jealousy (as a joke) every time i would mention the italian woman, we'll call her L. She kept saying how about she (L) was going to take me away from her, and how we (me and K) were suposed to get married. The whole marriage thing has been an inside joke between us for a while now. While she jokingly (?) said she was jealous, she always added that she was super happy for me.
Some background:
My friend saved me from fucking my life up a year ago, and kept me straight. She changed my life. We had other people in our lives, but we kept watching out for each others. We care a lot and like each other very much. Our friendship has always been platonic, and bullshit-free. In the past two weeks, shes been getting really flirty, but i pretty much assume it was her typical self, since shes a very sexual woman. We connect so much its like we grew up together, and shes so damn pretty.
The other girl, L, is awesome. We met at school, she actually approched me first, telling me she knew me from somewhere. We started talking and we figured out real quickly we had lots of common. We did two projects together and we had lots of fun, we ended up chatting more than doing actual work. She's really bright, got an awesome job (and wants to try to get me hired there to work with her!) , got her shit down, and she rocks. She's also incredibly hot.
Two weeks ago, L invited me to have a few drinks at the pub. We were at the school cafeteria, working on our project, and we were also using the wifi connection to send each others files on msn as we we working alongside each others. She got online and started commenting on how good I looked on my msn pic (?!?) and she kept sending me cute little messages with smileys. We laughed and then we went back to our stupid project.
2 minutes later she sends me a message over msn saying "Hey Shuri, you wanna hit the pub after? I wanna have a drink or two or three". After quickly botching our project
, we went to the pub and had an awesome evening were we traded old war stories and talking about stuff. we laughed a lot and had a great ol time. She mentionned how she was looking for "a garden boy" for her place, like in desperate housewives. hmm
I got home, and K had sent me an email asking where I was (we always chat everynight when we arentt together. I log msn convos, and we have over 100mb worth of log together. We talk all the time. Her boyfriends always hated me, thinking i would steal her away or some shit, but no, we're like brothers and sistesr"). So anyway i shot her back an email saying where i was and with who. Later she got online and read it, and sent me a bunch of
messages about how i was going to replace her etc etc.
Ever since, as mentionned earlier in the message, shes been much more flirter ever since. I went to her workplace a day after, and she made jokes about "never having sex on her desk and how she would like to try it, for science ya know", and the saturday after, she invited me for dinner at her place. She was much more physical, especially when we were on her couch playing guitar hero. She made quite a few opening, but i never took them, what the hell? was she testing me? Was i seeing things?
Last week, L., the italian sexpot, invites me to have a drink again at the same place, and that this time, she wants to get dead drunk with me. All week she keeps talking to me, emails, msgs, etc. The night before we were suposed to meet, she calls me and says taht she had forgot that she had some dinners with friends, and that she wouldnt be able to make it. That sucked, but hey. On the night we were suposed to meet, my other goes "how come you arent with your italian broad". I explain to her what happened, and she went on a semi tirade about how she (italian chick) probably went back to her exbf and that she didnt need me anymore. Hmm
Saturday Night, K (my friend) calls me and ask me if i wanna go out for some sushi and to hang out at her place, since her roomate wasnt going to be there. I was like.. hmmmmmm! (why was she mentionning that?). Anyhow she picks me up, we go to the sushi place, and we have an awesome, awesome time, tlalking about stuff, laughing, discussing things. We walked outside in the cold for like a hour just talking about crap, she told me how I was one of the most important person she ever had in her life, etc etc. She kept also talking about how she didnt like herself (a typical womanly trick) and how she didnt like her boobs and bla bla and i went on about how they were just the right size and etc etc. She also talked about how L wasnt my type of girl, how i really didnt fit with her, etc etc...
ANYHOW. At the end of the night we said we were going to go shopping on tuesday night.
A hour ago, the italian girl sends me a super happy message on msn, asking how i'm going, bla bla, she was really.. different in tone, mentionning how she wanted to spend time with me; we have an exam tuesday afternoon, she asked me if i wanted to come early in the morning to study with her, as long as we didnt spend the whole morning chatting together, haha. Then she goes.. "and after the exam, we could go to the pub and get drunk.. and after, who knows!
So yeah, it's.. a locked on with her.
My friend calls me right after and goes "Hey Shuri
, cant wait for tuesday night! Theres gonna be a lot of people, but its gonna be fun and i'm gonna give someone his christmas gift!"
I'm like
and then *MATRIX PAUSE* and i think "HOLY SHIT I'M SUPOSED TO BE WITH THE ITALIAN CHICK ON THAT NIGHT*. I go "holy crap, i schedule something with Dina, holy shit i completly forgot". The tone of her voice changed completly. "Oh, well.. go have fun with her instead.." We cant rechedule a new time since shes leaving the morning after for 3 weeks to see her family up in the north.
I'm like "nah, you're way more important than her, i'll call her and tell her that i wont be able to go" and she was like "nah, she wants to wrap her legs around you Shuri, go have fun with her, shes pretty and i know how you love women, youll be thinking about her and what could have been while youre gonna be with me" bla bla
I told her that she was more important than the italian chick, and that i'd rather spend my evening with her and with the other one, which got her all
. I told her i was going to think about a plan and call her back.
Anyway, what would you do?
