So, to cut the story short. GF says she doesn't like when people hold down her wrist i test it, she starts freaking out and ends up biting me hard. I get all wtf with it, she has this really weird reaction of fear towards me and regret at the same time. We talk about it as i take her home, she tells me that guys always hold her wrists when they want to harm her. One of her ex boyfriends did that, and just so happens it's the one she was kinda of obsessed with and still remained fuck buddies with him after they broke up, her uncle beat her and this one dude also tried to force into her that way. So i'm like "fucking great, i don't even know where to go from here". She said she was afraid that i was gonna beat her for a second there hence why she turned away from me.
She tells me i'm the love of her life and stuff like that every day, etc. And she acts that way too, but then there's little things, like....she would talk a lot about her ex boyfriend before i told her i was done hearing about him, and she just seems to have a terrible history with other people in general, certainly with guys she has one damn shitty history.
Have you guys ever been in this situation? Your gf having an history of being a "victim", and being afraid of guys in general until you come along?
I feel so out of my element it ain't even funny. Fuck should i do? I felt like utter sheeit today, and she is carrying baggage i wasn't counting on when i started dating her. But i really do like her a lot. Any tips? Advice...doesn't matter if it was in a gay relationship, you can share.
