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People you knew from highschool
« on: November 12, 2010, 05:18:36 PM »
It's the worst. You catch them at the trainstop or something and then they have to tell you how brilliant their life is. How they have this high powered job and are engaged to the 'love of their life'. What happened to people being humble and modest about their achievements? On one hand you feel like giving you own back but you decide you're not going to play the game so you politely nod and hope you never meet their smug, condescending arse again.

Then you feel inclined to stalk people on facebook to understand how much in the shithole you are in. And then you realise that you're the guy that has probably changed the most. The guy who looks better. The guy who hasn't married the first woman he has slept with. The guy who's actually changed his hobbies. The guy who seems to have actually grown as a person and become better.

A positive thread. Woah.

Also you look at all the girls you used to lust after. Talk about depreciating assets  :yuck
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #1 on: November 12, 2010, 05:22:18 PM »
Facebook contributes highly to my feel good attitude.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #2 on: November 12, 2010, 05:42:25 PM »
Yeah that's the way I feel too. It's not the material aspects only. The vibe I get is those people are insecure because they don't really know themselves either.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #3 on: November 12, 2010, 06:13:08 PM »
Also you look at all the girls you used to lust after. Talk about depreciating assets  :yuck
It's also weird seeing chicks that DUN DUN DUNNNNN actually look way hotter in their mid to late 20s than they were from high school, and not because they've caked on the makeup to within an inch of their lives and have payed to get glammed up. It's just that a little bit of time has suited them wonderfully.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #4 on: November 12, 2010, 06:44:16 PM »
I haven't see a girl like that. I've seen the girl that's lost weight and glammed up a bit who definately looks better than she did in highschool but this 'natural beauty' I did not see.

The funny thing is the guys look more or less the same.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #5 on: November 12, 2010, 07:08:22 PM »
"hey how are you! well I'm doing ok. i'm going back to school for nursing. i have three great kids"

"yup, still working up the ladder. i'll be manager soon i hope. mcdonalds isn't that bad actually"

"yea, still working on modeling. i have a spread in the k-mart shopping paper, have you seen it?"

"come by anytime bro, i can get you into the theater for free"

"livin the life. wake up, play halo, go to bed"

My class wasn't too great
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #6 on: November 12, 2010, 07:08:32 PM »
I've seen lots, or sometimes it's just the uberhot girls in HS lose alot in a decade while the a lot of the kinda cute girls come into their prime, leaving them in their dust.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #7 on: November 12, 2010, 07:11:06 PM »
The more they brag, the more miserable and bored with their lives they are.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #8 on: November 12, 2010, 07:21:32 PM »
I rarely ever run into anyone from high school, and I work in the town I grew up in.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #9 on: November 12, 2010, 07:32:58 PM »
The more they brag, the more miserable and bored with their lives they are.
Maybe not miserable as much but the need to validate their lives. I mean the stupid thing is we didn't keep in touch after highschool and now I'm supposed to care about what you're doing with your life. Really.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #10 on: November 12, 2010, 07:36:29 PM »
If I set foot in the town I grew up in, I run into somebody. It's not always a bad thing but it's rarely a good thing. Anybody I really liked, I'm still close with. I tried to avoid most everybody on FB but alas they found my married name. What is this obsession with adding old classmates on FB? I didn't have time or the desire to talk to these people when were still in school, much less now.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #11 on: November 12, 2010, 07:40:28 PM »
It ultimately comes down to a cock measuring contest or they're trying to sleep with you.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #12 on: November 12, 2010, 07:53:13 PM »
I rarely ever run into anyone from high school, and I work in the town I grew up in.

same here, thank god

the few people i have seen around have all gained about 50 pounds and live 5-10 miles from where they grew up.  thankfully i've avoided both of those!
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #13 on: November 12, 2010, 07:55:12 PM »
The more they brag, the more miserable and bored with their lives they are.
Maybe not miserable as much but the need to validate their lives. I mean the stupid thing is we didn't keep in touch after highschool and now I'm supposed to care about what you're doing with your life. Really.

True, most people are just bored and need validation that everyone else is too. But some truly are miserable. And the FB statuses...  :yuck I need a cry-for-help font and a suicide font, otherwise I'll check that shit in the morning and see how it panned out.

FB is like the awkward run-in with someone at the store, but it lasts 6 months until you finally delete them from your friends list. You say hi, pretend to care, say bye and keep running into each other while shopping. Fucking annoying.

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Personally, because I'm a bitch, when I run into some of the people I knew growing up, I let them ramble on. Then they try to run recon on my life to see how crappy they think it is, and I slowly leak details and just keep asking them questions. Finally they realize I'm really happy with how things turned out and I'm really lucky/worked really hard to get where I am. Pisses off some people, and I know they were just trying to get dirt on me to run back and tell so-and-so. Mostly my ex delivering those pizzas. And it's been this way since 2003 or so. There wasn't much to do in that town except drugs and gossip, so I moved fucking out. I don't miss it.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #14 on: November 12, 2010, 08:40:03 PM »
Man I know exactly how you feel.

It's like I've already stalked these people on facebook and I'm finished with them.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #15 on: November 12, 2010, 08:44:40 PM »
dude: blah blah blah blah
lennedsay: cool story bro
dude: so what you doing these days
lennedsay: not much
dude: you employed?
lennedsay: this week, yup
dude: ah...so, you doing good?
lennedsay: ate today, so yes
dude: soo you drive here?
lennedsay: walked, didn't have change for the bus
dude: ....want to come to my apartment?
lennedsay: nah, heading back to my mansion in Orange Country, sorry nicca :smug
dude: :fbm
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #16 on: November 12, 2010, 08:46:06 PM »
Most of the people I know from high school have crappy jobs, 3 or 4 howling spawn, and a fat wife (or they are the fat wife).

Sure, I may be fat and have a crappy job too, but then I come home and play video games all afternoon and blow my money on anime toys and Three Stooges DVD boxsets. Feels good man. 
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #17 on: November 12, 2010, 08:49:43 PM »
The most interesting thing is the whole 'change' thing. People don't really change.  Unless they've had some life affirming opportunity or disaster. Which they usually don't since they- whatever they say- don't take risks or try to burst their bubble.
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« Reply #18 on: November 12, 2010, 10:18:21 PM »
The most interesting thing is the whole 'change' thing. People don't really change.  Unless they've had some life affirming opportunity or disaster. Which they usually don't since they- whatever they say- don't take risks or try to burst their bubble.

I disagree. If you're the same person you were when you were 18, something's wrong.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #19 on: November 12, 2010, 10:57:42 PM »
:rofl PD

Just got to a bar. Apparently somebody got the night off from the pizza place.  :lol
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #20 on: November 12, 2010, 11:17:34 PM »
I tend to run into people from HS from time to time, but I've been lucky and all the people I ran into were the ones that weren't assholes. Actually, 2 people whom I graduated HS with now work at the same company, just different buildings... but they were both pretty cool (one of them has mob connections I believe, too). I tend to avoid the shitty hangout spots in my town, and am usually out west in Nassau with my g/f, so it's rare I run into people. I just avoid friend requests from HS ppl.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #21 on: November 13, 2010, 12:19:25 AM »


I disagree. If you're the same person you were when you were 18, something's wrong.
oh no I agree with you. it's just from what I see on facebookthey haven't changed. obviously if i met them then i would know for sure :P

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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #22 on: November 13, 2010, 01:24:51 AM »
A lot of people from my class are in their last semester in college and have good jobs and hot girlfriends :fbm
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #23 on: November 13, 2010, 01:37:34 AM »
In the words of Ice Cube, 'Life ain't a track meet, it's a marathon'
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #24 on: November 13, 2010, 01:44:07 AM »
But I hate running! should I just kill myself and get it over with?
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #25 on: November 13, 2010, 01:50:22 AM »
People usually jog in a marathon. If you constantly look at others and try to gauge your happiness compared to theirs by the shit they have, the shit they do, the person they fuck etc you'll never be happy. Do your own thing and be happy in yourself.

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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #26 on: November 13, 2010, 01:54:21 AM »
So what you are saying is that I should be glad I can at least masturbate?
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #27 on: November 13, 2010, 01:55:52 AM »
Yes. Be like demi.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #28 on: November 13, 2010, 03:41:31 AM »
Funny this whole thread came up. Went out tonight and my socially awkward penguin of a pizza delivery exbf was there. He actually said hi to me and my friend standing with me. Normally he avoids me like the plague and just stares from across the room and cries later. He was actually joking and laughing with my husband like old times. Next time we see him, he'll probably be a little bitch I'm sure.

A girl my husband briefly dated was there too.  :lol We didn't even go close to the same town as we grew up in. We can't get away from these people. Luckily it's too hilariously awkward to pass up.
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« Reply #29 on: November 13, 2010, 12:23:42 PM »
I live on the totally opposite side of Houston than where I grew up so I never see anyone I went to High School with except one guy and it's because he moved close to here and we were always close in High School. 

I don't mind any of them on Facebook unless they post awkward shit on my photos or status (like some dude making a racist joke on a picture during a back and forth discussion), but they are usually cool. 

There are a few that when I see their status I'm thinking wtf.  Like them posting about how they're moving back in with their parents and they have such shitty luck when the rest of the time I see them posting about getting shitfaced and how they work some shitty retail job.  Maybe I'm missing something from the story, it's possible, but that looks fucking bad and I have to roll my eyes.  I can't hate on all the chicks I see posting about getting pregnant and not married, etc.  I got someone pregnant BEFORE I got out of high school, but I was stupid enough to marry that person.  I think in general most people are way too judgemental about other's lives.  If you posted about your mistakes over the past few years without explaining your complete situation and not knowing these people they'd probably be thinking smiliar things about your life.  Everyone makes mistakes. 

That's excluding people that brag, they open themselves up for that shit.  Oh and keep your "omg we're broken up" and "yay we're back together" shit off facebook too.  ughhh.  And the funniest people are the ones who I see still complain about what their parents will and will not pay for or allow them to do.

Edit: I also see a ton of people doing what they love and they're genuinely very happy in their lives.  A girl I know is now a dancer in New York at ballets and shit.  A guy I knew writes books and while he's not rich, he's very fulfilled and is at least being published on a regular basis.  I know a guy who still plays music with the same guys from high school and they're in a band now that has a record deal and constantly wins awards for local music.  People tend to forget about the ones who do make it.  or maybe Houston is just the only town not full of LOSERS :D

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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #30 on: November 13, 2010, 01:29:05 PM »
gettin a little tired of job beggin from high school classmates
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« Reply #31 on: November 13, 2010, 01:37:34 PM »
Mups, I think it's just not full of losers. The caliber of people I know from my home town.. It's a level of white trash that most people can never recover from.

We were so close to normal civilization, however, that some people weren't so bad, but now continuing to live there and put their kids through school there... It's regression. Some people have moved away, are in plays/acting or are singing but it's not many. Most of then still buy weed from so-and-so, work a job just as shitty as when they were in high school, and haven't changed at all, besides adding kids.

I don't care what they do with their life, but my biggest fear was having kids and sending them to school with the offspring of these assholes, thinking that way of life is normal. Doing something with your life should be normal, and I was always made to feel like an outcast for wanting something more. Any time I run into people, they find out what I do and what I've done (which isn't much -- *gasp* went to college, got a job doing what I enjoy and was well promoted, got married, bought a house) and they look at me like, "Man that seems like a lot of work." and proceed to tell me how much weed they sold last week out if their parents' basement. Where we live now, the schools are amazing and the people sell weed out of their own basements.
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« Reply #32 on: November 13, 2010, 01:50:29 PM »
If I set foot in the town I grew up in, I run into somebody. It's not always a bad thing but it's rarely a good thing. Anybody I really liked, I'm still close with. I tried to avoid most everybody on FB but alas they found my married name. What is this obsession with adding old classmates on FB? I didn't have time or the desire to talk to these people when were still in school, much less now.

Two years ago I had a reevaluation meeting (if you don't know, I'm a school psychologist) for a 3rd grader, and I went to school with the kid's mom. First and only time it's ever happened so far, but I'm sure it won't be the last time.
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« Reply #33 on: November 13, 2010, 01:52:35 PM »
 :lol :lol

Yeah, I never have the opportunity to get to know them very intimately or discuss our lives.  I was just talking about people who see that so and so from high school has 3 kids and assumes they're unhappy and shit.  But since I never seem them in real life I never have to have the deep what have you been up to recently? conversation.  We just randomly interact on facebook sometimes.  The last run in I had was with a guy from High School that I married a girl I used to date and gained like 150 lbs and apparently had a coke habit.  But that was like over a year ago and it was because I was stupid and went to a birthday party of some dude I used to get shitfaced with in High School.  Learned my lesson :lol

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you should be a dick and ask them what they're willing to do for a job.  And after they feel humiliated and depraved by agreeing to do something outrageous, tell them there are no openings but you'll keep them in mind.

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« Reply #34 on: November 13, 2010, 01:55:05 PM »
Everyone I know from school is doing nothing, just like me  :-\

We're the late start generation.  We'll do something in our 30s!

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« Reply #35 on: November 13, 2010, 01:58:35 PM »
I just stay in touch with one guy, a long good friend.  My HS was very small, with a graduating class of 50.

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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #36 on: November 13, 2010, 02:51:54 PM »
I'M SORRY EDWARD, I AM A DISAPPOINTMENT
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« Reply #37 on: November 13, 2010, 03:14:19 PM »
I'm still best friends with my core group of guys from my senior year – they consist of about four guys and a few girls.  Just so happens they're all going into the same business as me so we're thinking about starting our own company once we're all out of school.  Should be cool.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #38 on: November 13, 2010, 03:37:42 PM »
For me I think it comes down to most of the people I meet always thought they were better than me in highschool, still think they are better than me and now that isn't necessarily the case. There's probably some beta male nerd rage in there  :'(
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« Reply #39 on: November 13, 2010, 03:39:41 PM »
I didn't go to my 10-year high school reunion, but I went to the get-together at some townie sports bar the night before. It was just like high school, all the cliquey "popular" kids were still friends and never moved away. I had a nice time and it was good seeing a few people, but it was pretty creepy, to be honest.
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« Reply #40 on: November 13, 2010, 03:45:04 PM »
I didn't go to my 10-year high school reunion, but I went to the get-together at some townie sports bar the night before. It was just like high school, all the cliquey "popular" kids were still friends and never moved away. I had a nice time and it was good seeing a few people, but it was pretty creepy, to be honest.

Oh yeah that's totally the case for my class as well.  I know for a fact that most of the popular kids still live at home and don't even go to school anymore.
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« Reply #41 on: November 13, 2010, 03:52:12 PM »
Nah, they don't live with their parents, they just married their HS sweet hearts, got jobs, bought houses and are living the "American dream" in the suburbs. I couldn't relate, but they all seemed happy enough.
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« Reply #42 on: November 13, 2010, 03:56:15 PM »
The marrying of high school sweet hearts is almost always a doom sentence.  The only case that I'm familiar with where it DIDN'T fail was with my parents.  :lol
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« Reply #43 on: November 13, 2010, 03:56:53 PM »
one of my college friend's parents were high school sweet hearts and they've been together for like 30 years. holy shit
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« Reply #44 on: November 13, 2010, 03:59:17 PM »
yeah my parents have been dating since 7th grade.  Got married when they were 18.  They vowed not to have kids until they were both 25.  They stuck to that plan and had a lot of fun, then realized they got all the partying out of their system and wanted to start a family.  They've been together for nearly...40 years?  Yeah its crazy.
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« Reply #45 on: November 13, 2010, 04:10:04 PM »
crazy
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« Reply #46 on: November 13, 2010, 04:15:57 PM »
The sad or facisnating thing is most of these guys seemed to adhere to the norms of the clique they were in high school. Only a few people have broken out of the clique\group think they were in. Which I guess lennedsay is worried about. It seems the only real impetous for change or maturation is to move away (from home, your highschool friends etc) as early as you can. I mean that's if your unhappy. But then if you don't see or rather contemplate the alternatives in life how can you be happy with the choice you've made if in a sense the decision is forced upon you?
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« Reply #47 on: November 13, 2010, 04:19:55 PM »
The marrying of high school sweet hearts is almost always a doom sentence.  The only case that I'm familiar with where it DIDN'T fail was with my parents.  :lol

Total death sentence. A couple of my friends were HS sweet hearts, but they didn't get married until both of them finished college. They're doing really well and have a three year old boy, but other than that it's a reallllly bad idea. The person you are at 18 is not the person you are at 25. Hell, not even the same person at 21.
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« Reply #48 on: November 13, 2010, 04:22:12 PM »
My main clique in high school are either jobless and play WoW all day or dropped out of school. There are exceptions, like one who is now a doctor and living in NYC, but other than that, the bulk of my "friends" from high school are satisfied mooching off their parents or doing drugs all day and are somehow satisfied with their lives. I don't really judge, I'm just disappointed with them. Then again, this is what I get for befriending anime-homos in HS.
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« Reply #49 on: November 13, 2010, 04:23:10 PM »
I'm actually friends with most of the people from my high school group. I don't see them all that often but we keep in touch. Everyone either finished college or is now an officer in the military. I think everyone is married, too, but only a few have kids yet.

I find it really funny that I went to high school with one of my now-best-friends... I hated him in high school. :lol
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« Reply #50 on: November 13, 2010, 04:26:11 PM »
I talk to a few I've known since Elementary on facebook. Some are doing well and I wish I could hang out with them more often.

All of us went to the same Elementary, Middle, and High School though.

Ultimately, I'm not close to really any of the people I grew up with on any basis anymore. Even the kids from my church. I'm fine with it because people change, relationships and friendships die.
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« Reply #51 on: November 13, 2010, 04:30:07 PM »
My inner-circle is comprised of people my wife and I met in college, two people from my high school group and then people everyone else met in college. Basically it's because of myself and the other guy (who I didn't care for) from high school that we're a really close-knit cadre of awesome. They either knew him or they knew me and we all just clicked.
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« Reply #52 on: November 13, 2010, 04:31:56 PM »
Indeed. I'm pretty close with my college buddies.
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« Reply #53 on: November 13, 2010, 04:33:34 PM »
My wife and I are the godparents for my college roommate's kids. Their 2 1/2 year old boy has started telling me "Uncle, I need a big robot!" it's really awesome.
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« Reply #54 on: November 13, 2010, 04:35:06 PM »
I feel bad about abandoning my own clique. I feel like they were a bad influence so I pretty much left them and only hang out once in a while, and every time I do, I remember why I don't hang out with them anymore. I remember...New Years 2009 I think? I went over to a friends place and he decided it was a good idea to have a Magic The Gathering get together. I suggested we go to the bar because this was boring but he said,"naw, people get arrested at bars!" so I just said whatever and went to another party.

I hate vapid suburbanites the most and it's half the reason I have left my hometown and will never look back.
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« Reply #55 on: November 13, 2010, 04:35:15 PM »
I found out about my 10-year like three weeks before it happened. The popular people who organized it said they couldn't find a lot of people, including four of us who now work for the school district. :lol
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« Reply #56 on: November 13, 2010, 04:36:19 PM »
I didn't go to my reunion because they didn't invite everyone.

At first I was like, "ok well maybe nobody has John on their friends list."

So I messaged the girl organizing it and told her to add John and invite him, to which she replied.

"Oh well he didn't hang out with us much in school, so I doubt he'd come."

And with that, I said fuck that, messaged people from HS that I liked and we all went out for a beer.

oh wow
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #57 on: November 13, 2010, 04:37:11 PM »
I found out about my 10-year like three weeks before it happened. The popular people who organized it said they couldn't find a lot of people, including four of us who now work for the school district. :lol

You're kidding :lol

I don't plan on going to my reunion anyways. If I like you enough to stay in contact with you, I don't need an excuse to fucking shoot the shit with you.
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lennedsay

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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #58 on: November 13, 2010, 04:40:13 PM »
The marrying of high school sweet hearts is almost always a doom sentence.  The only case that I'm familiar with where it DIDN'T fail was with my parents.  :lol

Total death sentence. A couple of my friends were HS sweet hearts, but they didn't get married until both of them finished college. They're doing really well and have a three year old boy, but other than that it's a reallllly bad idea. The person you are at 18 is not the person you are at 25. Hell, not even the same person at 21.

So fucking true. Two friends just got married after being together since they were 14 or 15. Not technically "HS sweethearts" because they went to completely different schools and lived 30-40 minutes away from each other. Can't think of anybody else that were dating in high school and should still be together (regardless if they are or not). Good lord, I learned so much about myself and grew so much before the age 21. There's no way I could ever still be compatible with anybody I dated from high school. Nothing against them, but we wouldn't even be compatible as friends at this point. But we were perfect for each other when we were 16!

I know I've mentioned this here before, but I have one BFF from high school and a few people I really like from HS but don't see as often. My husband, on the other hand, has this huge group of friends that are batshit insane and amazing to hang around, and they'd do anything for anybody. Seriously BFF material. And it was his same group of friends from jr high and high school, some from elementary and daycare even!  :lol It'd be an interesting study of nature vs. nurture but we've only met a handful of people since that can hang with our friends and instantly joke like they do and talk about the same ridiculous shit as them. As soon as I met all of them, I knew I could never leave them. :heart What a lucky asshole, because everybody I went to school with were pricks and completely strung out.
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Re: People you knew from highschool
« Reply #59 on: November 13, 2010, 05:05:29 PM »
The person you are at 18 is not the person you are at 25. Hell, not even the same person at 21.
I guess but I think it gets overstated.
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