The Official Psychoanalysis GAF Thread

[DJ_Tet]

no

[Himu]

[MyNameIsMethodis]

I remember Game Life but only for the bomb threat 

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

I can believe Nintendoll getting harassed from that guy.  To be honest, I'm not sure what she was expecting because she should have known GAF is chock full of losers and socially awkward virgins and seldomlaids.  These guys are the types of people that have the cops called on them if they're found loitering in a public park that are frequented by children.

The funny thing is while Nintendoll was harmlessly flirting, that dude was probably thinking he was going to score some pink.  But no, it was not meant to be

I guess I just don't feel like we should feel sorry for pudgy involuntary celibates in their 20s on up.  Nintendoll did the right thing by turning his ass in if he was pulling anything like that.

So, which one is he?
(Image removed from quote.)

My money is on the one with the drink on his head.

Man, I bet that doofus thought he was being real fucking funny by having a drink on top of his head.

[Oblivion]

I can believe Nintendoll getting harassed from that guy.  To be honest, I'm not sure what she was expecting because she should have known GAF is chock full of losers and socially awkward virgins and seldomlaids.  These guys are the types of people that have the cops called on them if they're found loitering in a public park that are frequented by children.

The funny thing is while Nintendoll was harmlessly flirting, that dude was probably thinking he was going to score some pink.  But no, it was not meant to be

I guess I just don't feel like we should feel sorry for pudgy involuntary celibates in their 20s on up.  Nintendoll did the right thing by turning his ass in if he was pulling anything like that.

There a thread for this?

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

I can believe Nintendoll getting harassed from that guy.  To be honest, I'm not sure what she was expecting because she should have known GAF is chock full of losers and socially awkward virgins and seldomlaids.  These guys are the types of people that have the cops called on them if they're found loitering in a public park that are frequented by children.

The funny thing is while Nintendoll was harmlessly flirting, that dude was probably thinking he was going to score some pink.  But no, it was not meant to be

I guess I just don't feel like we should feel sorry for pudgy involuntary celibates in their 20s on up.  Nintendoll did the right thing by turning his ass in if he was pulling anything like that.

There a thread for this?

http://neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=35044763&postcount=5853



"I thought she loved me"

[CajoleJuice]

that other girl looks kinda scared in the group pic

[Oblivion]

Holy shit, that's fuggin creepy...

[Shadow Mod]

This is why you head to these things with a creep shield.

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

that other girl looks kinda scared in the group pic

She looks like she's getting hoverhanded by three people

[Oblivion]

On the plus side, Nintendoll's pretty cute.

[Phoenix Dark]

I probably would avoid a GAF meetup, whereas I'd definitely go to an EB meetup if I could. Meeting Cheebs was cool and all, but I wanna hang with Shake, Cajole, BlueTsunami etc. And they're all in NY 

one day

[etiolate]

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=35060139&postcount=6021

Evilore plays the hero card!

[Phoenix Dark]

I haven't followed that distinguished mentally-challenged thread closely. Has she actually posted that she was creeped out?

edit: nm
http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?p=35051155&highlight=#post35051155

[etiolate]

I haven't followed it closely either. I didn't really know it had gone on. That whole real pic meetup thread scares me.

But James came into nba chat after the perma and told a rather different story.

spoiler (click to show/hide)

<Jamesfrom818> evilore said i got nintendoll's number under the pretense of the art walk
<Jamesfrom818> which is false
<Jamesfrom818> i got her number right after we left the korean bbq
<Jamesfrom818> we live in the same town and hang out at most of the same places
<Jamesfrom818> so i said we should hang out sometime
<Jamesfrom818> when i was driving her home, i mentioned the art walk is coming up
<Jamesfrom818> so i called nintendoll to see if she texted me
<Jamesfrom818> because she was going to let me know if she was free to hang out
<Jamesfrom818> i have no clue about the stalking
<Jamesfrom818> she never told me to stop texting her
<Jamesfrom818> a simple "stop texting me" would have solved all of our problems
<Jamesfrom818> then the shit with h pro is bullshit too
<Jamesfrom818> he said that i was stalking her too
<Jamesfrom818> i texted h pro this morning about it
<Jamesfrom818> and she called me back
<Jamesfrom818> h pro thinks its complete bullshit
<Jamesfrom818> i don't want to be part of a bullshit site like gaf anymore

[close]

It feels like a mess that was bound to happen. I spoiler it because I know yall be hating the drama.

[Cascade]

I haven't followed it closely either. I didn't really know it had gone on. That whole real pic meetup thread scares me.

But James came into nba chat after the perma and told a rather different story.

<Jamesfrom818> evilore said i got nintendoll's number under the pretense of the art walk
<Jamesfrom818> which is false
<Jamesfrom818> i got her number right after we left the korean bbq
<Jamesfrom818> we live in the same town and hang out at most of the same places
<Jamesfrom818> so i said we should hang out sometime
<Jamesfrom818> when i was driving her home, i mentioned the art walk is coming up
<Jamesfrom818> so i called nintendoll to see if she texted me
<Jamesfrom818> because she was going to let me know if she was free to hang out
<Jamesfrom818> i have no clue about the stalking
<Jamesfrom818> she never told me to stop texting her
<Jamesfrom818> a simple "stop texting me" would have solved all of our problems
<Jamesfrom818> then the shit with h pro is bullshit too
<Jamesfrom818> he said that i was stalking her too
<Jamesfrom818> i texted h pro this morning about it
<Jamesfrom818> and she called me back
<Jamesfrom818> h pro thinks its complete bullshit
<Jamesfrom818> i don't want to be part of a bullshit site like gaf anymore


It feels like a mess that was bound to happen. I spoiler it because I know yall be hating the drama.

After reading that, I feel like little ol' Tyler is playing a dirty game here. I'm thinking he's making a play for either H.Pro or ningal and wants to get rid of the competition/make himself look like a hero. It wouldn't surprise me, especially when you consider ningal's responses which cast doubt on what evi's said so far.

[parallax]

I haven't followed it closely either. I didn't really know it had gone on. That whole real pic meetup thread scares me.

But James came into nba chat after the perma and told a rather different story.

<Jamesfrom818> evilore said i got nintendoll's number under the pretense of the art walk
<Jamesfrom818> which is false
<Jamesfrom818> i got her number right after we left the korean bbq
<Jamesfrom818> we live in the same town and hang out at most of the same places
<Jamesfrom818> so i said we should hang out sometime
<Jamesfrom818> when i was driving her home, i mentioned the art walk is coming up
<Jamesfrom818> so i called nintendoll to see if she texted me
<Jamesfrom818> because she was going to let me know if she was free to hang out
<Jamesfrom818> i have no clue about the stalking
<Jamesfrom818> she never told me to stop texting her
<Jamesfrom818> a simple "stop texting me" would have solved all of our problems
<Jamesfrom818> then the shit with h pro is bullshit too
<Jamesfrom818> he said that i was stalking her too
<Jamesfrom818> i texted h pro this morning about it
<Jamesfrom818> and she called me back
<Jamesfrom818> h pro thinks its complete bullshit
<Jamesfrom818> i don't want to be part of a bullshit site like gaf anymore


It feels like a mess that was bound to happen. I spoiler it because I know yall be hating the drama.

After reading that, I feel like little ol' Tyler is playing a dirty game here. I'm thinking he's making a play for either H.Pro or ningal and wants to get rid of the competition/make himself look like a hero. It wouldn't surprise me, especially when you consider ningal's responses which cast doubt on what evi's said so far.

that seems a bit too far to go to try to get rid of competition. besides, if its true about the evi shit, then what would stop 818 from interacting with nindoll once banned? theres a bit that doesnt add up about all this, so im gonna wait to see how this all unfolds.

[Fifstar]

I haven't followed it closely either. I didn't really know it had gone on. That whole real pic meetup thread scares me.

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It feels like a mess that was bound to happen. I spoiler it because I know yall be hating the drama.

After reading that, I feel like little ol' Tyler is playing a dirty game here. I'm thinking he's making a play for either H.Pro or ningal and wants to get rid of the competition/make himself look like a hero. It wouldn't surprise me, especially when you consider ningal's responses which cast doubt on what evi's said so far.

Sounds like Evilore just wanted to act up.

[Shadow Mod]

I haven't followed it closely either. I didn't really know it had gone on. That whole real pic meetup thread scares me.

But James came into nba chat after the perma and told a rather different story.

<Jamesfrom818> evilore said i got nintendoll's number under the pretense of the art walk
<Jamesfrom818> which is false
<Jamesfrom818> i got her number right after we left the korean bbq
<Jamesfrom818> we live in the same town and hang out at most of the same places
<Jamesfrom818> so i said we should hang out sometime
<Jamesfrom818> when i was driving her home, i mentioned the art walk is coming up
<Jamesfrom818> so i called nintendoll to see if she texted me
<Jamesfrom818> because she was going to let me know if she was free to hang out
<Jamesfrom818> i have no clue about the stalking
<Jamesfrom818> she never told me to stop texting her
<Jamesfrom818> a simple "stop texting me" would have solved all of our problems
<Jamesfrom818> then the shit with h pro is bullshit too
<Jamesfrom818> he said that i was stalking her too
<Jamesfrom818> i texted h pro this morning about it
<Jamesfrom818> and she called me back
<Jamesfrom818> h pro thinks its complete bullshit
<Jamesfrom818> i don't want to be part of a bullshit site like gaf anymore


It feels like a mess that was bound to happen. I spoiler it because I know yall be hating the drama.

After reading that, I feel like little ol' Tyler is playing a dirty game here. I'm thinking he's making a play for either H.Pro or ningal and wants to get rid of the competition/make himself look like a hero. It wouldn't surprise me, especially when you consider ningal's responses which cast doubt on what evi's said so far.

You think he's got competition from some dude who sends passive aggressive texts at 1am? Fucking internet.

[Barry Egan]

It sounds like she has had bad experiences in the past and that is distorting her perception of what constitutes agressive behavior.  She got freaked out by fairly innocuous clit-hanging before actually drawing a line in the sand verbally (ie hey listen, I'm flattered by your interest but I don't really want to have a thing with you).  Barring him doing something, you know, ACTUALLY aggressive, the burden to speak up is really on her even if it's unpleasant to do.  Oh whoops I actually spent time thinking about this.                             

[Cascade]

I haven't followed it closely either. I didn't really know it had gone on. That whole real pic meetup thread scares me.

But James came into nba chat after the perma and told a rather different story.

<Jamesfrom818> evilore said i got nintendoll's number under the pretense of the art walk
<Jamesfrom818> which is false
<Jamesfrom818> i got her number right after we left the korean bbq
<Jamesfrom818> we live in the same town and hang out at most of the same places
<Jamesfrom818> so i said we should hang out sometime
<Jamesfrom818> when i was driving her home, i mentioned the art walk is coming up
<Jamesfrom818> so i called nintendoll to see if she texted me
<Jamesfrom818> because she was going to let me know if she was free to hang out
<Jamesfrom818> i have no clue about the stalking
<Jamesfrom818> she never told me to stop texting her
<Jamesfrom818> a simple "stop texting me" would have solved all of our problems
<Jamesfrom818> then the shit with h pro is bullshit too
<Jamesfrom818> he said that i was stalking her too
<Jamesfrom818> i texted h pro this morning about it
<Jamesfrom818> and she called me back
<Jamesfrom818> h pro thinks its complete bullshit
<Jamesfrom818> i don't want to be part of a bullshit site like gaf anymore


It feels like a mess that was bound to happen. I spoiler it because I know yall be hating the drama.

After reading that, I feel like little ol' Tyler is playing a dirty game here. I'm thinking he's making a play for either H.Pro or ningal and wants to get rid of the competition/make himself look like a hero. It wouldn't surprise me, especially when you consider ningal's responses which cast doubt on what evi's said so far.

You think he's got competition from some dude who sends passive aggressive texts at 1am? Fucking internet.

Lol, yeah you're right. He probably just wanted to seem like a hero to either h.pro or ningal (or maybe both).

[Shadow Mod]

It sounds like she has had bad experiences in the past and that is distorting her perception of what constitutes agressive behavior.  She got freaked out by fairly innocuous clit-hanging before actually drawing a line in the sand verbally (ie hey listen, I'm flattered by your interest but I don't really want to have a thing with you).  Barring him doing something, you know, ACTUALLY aggressive, the burden to speak up is really on her even if it's unpleasant to do.  Oh whoops I actually spent time thinking about this.                           

I just feel like if I give you my fucking phone number to coordinate another meet better you shouldn't be fucking sending me shit unless I specifically ask. Especially not a barrage of texts at like 11pm or later. Some dudes just never learn that if a chick isn't all that enthusiastic about you talking to her or not really responsive without you prompting her, it's probably time to back the fuck off.

Obviously I'm not nintendoll but that's how I feel about the matter.

[demi]

James needs to get some more pudge and I'd do him.

[fistfulofmetal]

i would stalk the shit out of the chick with the red purse. 

[demi]

Also this creepy stalking story showcasing how warped some people are is exactly what this thread needs. MOAR

[Reb]

I want some puddles stories from awesome-o.

[Momo]

If i ever give you guys my number, the only thing i want  to hear about at 1am is a late night bacon run

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

Sorry but I think that James loser is full of shit.

I've had female friends, fuck buddies, exes, coworkers, etc. get stalked or repeatedly harassed before and the process usually went like this:

1) Guy usually makes some kind of pass at a woman, she denies his advances
2) Guy continues to make situation uncomfortable, getting worse and worse until it starts having a serious effect on her life
3) Girl (or friend or girl) turns him in
4) Guy acts shocked and hurt that he is called out on it and says that it is all lies or that people are distorting what happened
5) Girl kind of downplays it to be polite and to move on
6) Guy continues to not get it until things get very dangerous

I can't fault Nintendoll for wanting to stop #6 from happening.  This isn't a woman only thing either, sometimes people just do not get it and need to have some kind of action taken on them to shake them out of their fucked up fantasy world.

Again, having seen this a few times and having had women who just don't get it that I'm not interested, I think that James is making shit up.  He should get some therapy or at least make some serious attempt at reassessing your priorities in life.  Most men don't get accused of stalking and there's a reason why that is.

[demi]

hahahahaha "if you're ditching me for him"

poor guy. you know he spanked it real bad thinking about her.

[Joe Molotov]

<Jamesfrom818> Me: Damn it! GAF posted pictures of carne asada fries. I really want some now.

I guess that was what put it over the top.

[Boogie]

It all goes to shit when he starts confronting her about hanging out with Evilore behind his back.

You can't pull a move like that when you aren't dating, aren't really friends, and have met up exactly once.

Pretty much.

[Broseidon]

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showpost.php?p=35068553&postcount=38

When was this taken?

[Shaka Khan]

Haha, that's an old photo. It seems like he lost weight and updated his fashion sense (i.e. earned more $) ever since.

Next up on his checklist: Otoplasty.

[Flannel Boy]

On the plus side, Nintendoll's pretty cute.

Agreed.

Wait, she likes Nintendo? Pass.

[Olivia Wilde Homo]

James is most likely leaving stuff out.  It takes a lot more than that to get someone to run to someone like EviLore.  That comment about seeing EviLore behind his back wouldn't set it off.  I've seen some women do some pretty shitty things to men while rejecting them but there's obviously something missing.  My guess is that until Nintendoll posts the texts, we'll probably never know.

[brob]

isn't nintendoll married? smh at all this posturing over some pita neither is ever gonna get to nibble on.

[MyNameIsMethodis]

Is there seriously people in here white knighting Evilore? Demi ban these people.

[Barry Egan]

My gut is telling me that she's actually the one with boundary issues!  I know it's terrible to say and looks bad.  What are the odds that the sweaty asocial GAF-Male is actually not a stalker?  Okay, fine, it's a long shot.  But based on those chat logs and what she's actually said so far, I think it's worth considering that she resented his obliviousness and had a major overreaction.  Which is understandable, I've had similar freak outs in situations where someone is blind to social cues and is cramping your style and it is insanely uncomfortable to drop pleasant discourse and straight out tell someone to fuck off.  But now this dudes internet identity has been wrecked, probably all he's ever had in his cheeto-dust tinted life amirite?, so it's worth considering the less obvious alternative.

Also I just have to point out that there is some serious crazy peaking out behind that girls eyes in the group photo. 

[Himu]

It sounds like she has had bad experiences in the past and that is distorting her perception of what constitutes agressive behavior.  She got freaked out by fairly innocuous clit-hanging before actually drawing a line in the sand verbally (ie hey listen, I'm flattered by your interest but I don't really want to have a thing with you).  Barring him doing something, you know, ACTUALLY aggressive, the burden to speak up is really on her even if it's unpleasant to do.  Oh whoops I actually spent time thinking about this.                           

I just feel like if I give you my fucking phone number to coordinate another meet better you shouldn't be fucking sending me shit unless I specifically ask. Especially not a barrage of texts at like 11pm or later. Some dudes just never learn that if a chick isn't all that enthusiastic about you talking to her or not really responsive without you prompting her, it's probably time to back the fuck off.

Obviously I'm not nintendoll but that's how I feel about the matter.

I disagree with everything here. Sure he texted late but prompting interest is how you move the game forward and for the most part it's the man who initiates the shit. This dudes problem is getting attached too fast for someone he has met once aka creeping but there are ruled and games to this shit and youre saying not to talk to the chick unless she contacts you first? It doesn't work like that at all. If you don't contact her it show disinterest; the key is showing interest but not being a douche about it.

[Himu]

Fucking iphone

[Positive Touch]

I disagree with everything here. Sure he texted late but prompting interest is how you move the game forward and for the most part it's the man who initiates the shit. This dudes problem is getting attached too fast for someone he has met once aka creeping but there are ruled and games to this shit and youre saying not to talk to the chick unless she contacts you first? It doesn't work like that at all. If you don't contact her it show disinterest; the key is showing interest but not being a douche about it.

he got her number because he talked with her about setting up an art show, then he started texting her trying to hit on her, then he told other people they were seeing each other.  dude is a classic creeper.

[etiolate]

It sounds like she has had bad experiences in the past and that is distorting her perception of what constitutes agressive behavior.  She got freaked out by fairly innocuous clit-hanging before actually drawing a line in the sand verbally (ie hey listen, I'm flattered by your interest but I don't really want to have a thing with you).  Barring him doing something, you know, ACTUALLY aggressive, the burden to speak up is really on her even if it's unpleasant to do.  Oh whoops I actually spent time thinking about this.                           

I just feel like if I give you my fucking phone number to coordinate another meet better you shouldn't be fucking sending me shit unless I specifically ask. Especially not a barrage of texts at like 11pm or later. Some dudes just never learn that if a chick isn't all that enthusiastic about you talking to her or not really responsive without you prompting her, it's probably time to back the fuck off.

Obviously I'm not nintendoll but that's how I feel about the matter.

I disagree with everything here. Sure he texted late but prompting interest is how you move the game forward and for the most part it's the man who initiates the shit. This dudes problem is getting attached too fast for someone he has met once aka creeping but there are ruled and games to this shit and youre saying not to talk to the chick unless she contacts you first? It doesn't work like that at all. If you don't contact her it show disinterest; the key is showing interest but not being a douche about it.

Yeah. You can't have the man be the hunter/chaser, which by the standards of dating they are forced to be, and then also have the rule that creeping/stalking is determined by the girl's interest in the male and yet the girl doesn't clearly state her interest. If you set it up like that, it's a total mess. James would have been okay if he didn't sound possessive with the Tyler question. If it was his play to make something happen, he was too attached too quickly, but if he was a real creep or stalker then he'd probably still be doing something. When ndoll clearly states her disinterest and discomfort by her actions, he leaves her alone(as far as I know).

[Himu]

Positive I'm not disputing that. I'm disputing Devo saying if she gives a guy a number he shouldn't try to talk to her unless she initiates him herself, which gives mixed signals and is not how relationships - friends or otherwise - are formed and maintained.

[Shadow Mod]

It sounds like she has had bad experiences in the past and that is distorting her perception of what constitutes agressive behavior.  She got freaked out by fairly innocuous clit-hanging before actually drawing a line in the sand verbally (ie hey listen, I'm flattered by your interest but I don't really want to have a thing with you).  Barring him doing something, you know, ACTUALLY aggressive, the burden to speak up is really on her even if it's unpleasant to do.  Oh whoops I actually spent time thinking about this.                           

I just feel like if I give you my fucking phone number to coordinate another meet better you shouldn't be fucking sending me shit unless I specifically ask. Especially not a barrage of texts at like 11pm or later. Some dudes just never learn that if a chick isn't all that enthusiastic about you talking to her or not really responsive without you prompting her, it's probably time to back the fuck off.

Obviously I'm not nintendoll but that's how I feel about the matter.

I disagree with everything here. Sure he texted late but prompting interest is how you move the game forward and for the most part it's the man who initiates the shit. This dudes problem is getting attached too fast for someone he has met once aka creeping but there are ruled and games to this shit and youre saying not to talk to the chick unless she contacts you first? It doesn't work like that at all. If you don't contact her it show disinterest; the key is showing interest but not being a douche about it.

You can initiate shit all you want, just realize there is a time and place. And it's certainly not lighting up her phone when she's not responsive. Is this hard? My whole point was if you're barraging someone like that and they're already telling you to chill the fuck out, which she did at least once in which she told him he was being aggressive, you don't make matters worse by doubling down. I'm pretty sure he did anyway since there is a gap in texts and it's in his best interests not to display everything. Plus we have no idea what was said over voice, since there were calls as well.

There should be some kind of devo meme generator.

Top caption: Claims men should never make advances
Bottom caption: Dates Timedog

spoiler (click to show/hide)

All in good fun, Devo.

[close]

Har har but I can walk away from the forums, this is texting to her phone. If we give out our phone number that doesn't mean it's carte blanche to light it up with a ton of texts. The fact that I spell this out is fucking distinguished mentally-challenged.

[etiolate]

Top caption: Rages against negative female stereotypes
Bottom caption: Expects guys to read a girl's mind

[Shadow Mod]

Top caption: Rages against negative female stereotypes
Bottom caption: Expects guys to read a girl's mind

Fuck outta here, she wanted his phone number because he was an event organizer. Are you guys this socially dysfunctional?

[CajoleJuice]

The second a girl shows the slightest disinterest, I give up. /devo approved

[fistfulofmetal]

The second a girl shows the slightest interest, I give up.

fixed for me

[Shadow Mod]

The second a girl shows the slightest disinterest, I give up. /devo approved

Or you calm the fuck down. Dude met her once and he's making passive aggressive texts about her ditching him for Lore. Oh wait internet, what am I doing.

[CajoleJuice]

don't make the mistake of thinking I want to discuss bullshit like this seriously

[fistfulofmetal]

who am i kidding no girl ever shows interest

[Phoenix Dark]

don't make the mistake of thinking I want to discuss bullshit like this seriously

news feed this

[Shadow Mod]

who am i kidding no girl ever shows interest

Who can compete with your stockpile of photographs.

[CajoleJuice]

who am i kidding no girl ever shows interest

Who can compete with your stockpile of photographs.

this is the spirit!

[Barry Egan]

My whole point was if you're barraging someone like that and they're already telling you to chill the fuck out, which she did at least once in which she told him he was being aggressive, you don't make matters worse by doubling down. I'm pretty sure he did anyway since there is a gap in texts and it's in his best interests not to display everything. Plus we have no idea what was said over voice, since there were calls as well.

 

[etiolate]

So a guy should be publicly labeled a stalker because he flubs his approach? Keep fucking that chicken devo.

[parallax]

damn, you guys kinda went stupid over this, huh?

[Himu]

It sounds like she has had bad experiences in the past and that is distorting her perception of what constitutes agressive behavior.  She got freaked out by fairly innocuous clit-hanging before actually drawing a line in the sand verbally (ie hey listen, I'm flattered by your interest but I don't really want to have a thing with you).  Barring him doing something, you know, ACTUALLY aggressive, the burden to speak up is really on her even if it's unpleasant to do.  Oh whoops I actually spent time thinking about this.                           

I just feel like if I give you my fucking phone number to coordinate another meet better you shouldn't be fucking sending me shit unless I specifically ask. Especially not a barrage of texts at like 11pm or later. Some dudes just never learn that if a chick isn't all that enthusiastic about you talking to her or not really responsive without you prompting her, it's probably time to back the fuck off.

Obviously I'm not nintendoll but that's how I feel about the matter.

I disagree with everything here. Sure he texted late but prompting interest is how you move the game forward and for the most part it's the man who initiates the shit. This dudes problem is getting attached too fast for someone he has met once aka creeping but there are ruled and games to this shit and youre saying not to talk to the chick unless she contacts you first? It doesn't work like that at all. If you don't contact her it show disinterest; the key is showing interest but not being a douche about it.

You can initiate shit all you want, just realize there is a time and place. And it's certainly not lighting up her phone when she's not responsive. Is this hard? My whole point was if you're barraging someone like that and they're already telling you to chill the fuck out, which she did at least once in which she told him he was being aggressive, you don't make matters worse by doubling down. I'm pretty sure he did anyway since there is a gap in texts and it's in his best interests not to display everything. Plus we have no idea what was said over voice, since there were calls as well.

I agree that going overboard and being clingy is lol behavior. It's just that your original post seemed like it meant to say you do this for all men no matter his interest in you.

[Shadow Mod]

So a guy should be publicly labeled a stalker because he flubs his approach? Keep fucking that chicken devo.

I said nothing of the sort actually but that if you come off strong and possessive it's creepy as fuck. I don't think we'll ever see what made it "stalking" anyway so that part is futile to talk about.

I agree that going overboard and being clingy is lol behavior. It's just that your original post seemed like it meant to say you do this for all men no matter his interest in you.

Uh no. My last and current relationship were initiated by the other party, there is nothing wrong with showing interest, there is plenty wrong with showing you have no respect for boundaries.

[brob]