boogie: oh, it's disturbing. i'm not necessarily validating his actions (even though i like ya, t234, you crazy bastard), just saying that if this went down as he says, i'm likewise not finding any fault in him, either. this is one of those things (that i expect you know well in your line of work) that aren't easily categorized the way internet moralists might like, and are probably far too emotionally and situationally complex to render insightful discussion on a largely anonymous forum. ;-)