It's not a love... well, no, I guess it is. Hm.
I grew up in a suburb of Los Angeles which was about 50% asian, and most of that was Japanese Americans. Just an overwhelming amount of early Japanese input. The cartoons on the Japanese channel (KWHY TV, Channel 22, before it was purchased by SelecTV) were so much cooler than the American stuff. Things exploded! People died! Robots! It was great. It overwhelmed my brain.
So I wanted to see all this crazy cool stuff in person, and determined to learn the language. In school, I was useless at it. Generally, I as frustrated by all the 2nd and 3rd generation Japanese-American kids who had a lot of "kitchen Japanese" from their parents, and were getting easy A's while I struggled. It wasn't until I was immersed in it here, that I had any luck with the language. And by then, it was clearly not a waste of time.