Yeah thats the thing I dont miss most about clans, I hated the playdate mentality. The only 'clan' I am still part of stretches over a lot of games, there is just like 10 of us in a skype group convo and we play whenever people are upto it, none of this 'raid at 8pm OR YOU'RE OUT' bullshit, that was ridiculous
EDIT : thinking about it, our group has more females than males. never really been an issue.