VIDEO whole thing is interesting but skip to around 40sec for some self hating
I don't understand how someone raised by a black woman can hate on them so casually; sure maybe your mom was a piece of shit, but if she wasn't and you respect her...how can you make broad statements about black women being disgusting, unworthy, etc? It's self hate.
Imagine being a dark black chick hearing this shit from kindergarten to adulthood, and how it could easily warp your perspective of your self worth; I can't imagine dealing with that shit nonstop. A few weeks ago I was buying groceries and ran into a family friend; 50 something year old black lady.
Her: I heard you're dating Such-and-Such's daughter
Me: We're not dating, we're just friends
Her: Close friends from what I've heard
Me: I guess
Her: I've never seen her but I know she's beautiful. She got good hair like her dad?
For reference, her dad is mixed and rocks his hair like Rick Fox. I didn't know what to say...on one hand I wanted to just avoid further conversation, on the other I'm so tired of the "good hair" bullshit I often want to combat it. So I kinda just said "I don't know what that means" to which she replied "straight hair."
This chick was wearing a ridiculous weave. I'd imagine she's probably bald or balding due to decades of weaves and bad chemicals. Shit is just pathetic to me. Natural hair styles are awesome, I don't see why more black women aren't rocking them. Sure it takes more time/effort but even weaves take a lot of time and effort apparently. My ladyfriend just has a big curly hair style similar to
this but shorter. Actually many black women can do that (or something similar) with their hair and natural products. And if not there are a host of great hair styles available to do.
The casual way some black people shit on their own hair is just repulsive to me. And I hear it all the time since I have natural waves, which constantly causes annoying conversations or comments.