TBH, I don't dress female (though I only wear women's pants now), look female and I'm very objectively, to the world, a dude at this point. A very pretty dude with nice cheekbones and soft ass skin. So I have no problems with people calling me 'he' because I'm clearly not a 'she' yet and don't deserve the label. Those guys are transitioning along with me, so I can give them some time to do it, and there's nothing transphobic or wrong about what they're doing.