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xnikki118x

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« on: January 16, 2007, 02:28:11 AM »
I was raised a sheltered little Catholic girl whose small little Catholic school didn't teach anything about other religions, then I went to a public high school. I no longer consider myself Catholic, but that's besides the point.

One of my favorite professors told us today that she's pregnant. I asked her after class if she knew what she was having, if she had names picked, etc etc. She and her husband have a boy's name and a girl's name picked, but are keeping it secret. They also can't know the baby's sex until he or she is born. She said this is Jewish tradition.

What religious affiliation are you? Any traditions worth mentioning? I think this is so interesting, and I just feel so sheltered.
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« Reply #1 on: January 16, 2007, 02:42:15 AM »
Actually, nikki (if I may call you that), and Ecro, I want to know if this was the same in your area of PA as it was in mine.

I grew up in a predominantly Catholic area, to the extent that just about everyone I knew was Catholic.  Even when I went to public high school for a number of years, the vast majority of people I came across were Catholics.  I have a predominantly Catholic education, having gone to Jesuit schools up through college.

Is it the same in Wilkes Barre?  Does it seem like Catholicism is overwhelmingly predominant?  It's only since I spent time (as an adult) living in other places that the overview of my upbringing has been challenged, and I'd be lying if I said there was no degree of culture shock.

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« Reply #2 on: January 16, 2007, 02:49:49 AM »
My friend once fucked up slaughtering a goat (he claims).

edit:

how you do it is you
  • feed the animal, make it comfortable
  • wash it
  • take the machete or whatever, and brush it on it's neck until it stops being afraid of the blade
  • quickly slit the throat

he didn't finish cutting the neck enough and it made a big mess.
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Re: religious traditions
« Reply #3 on: January 16, 2007, 02:57:44 AM »
Actually, nikki (if I may call you that), and Ecro, I want to know if this was the same in your area of PA as it was in mine.

I grew up in a predominantly Catholic area, to the extent that just about everyone I knew was Catholic.  Even when I went to public high school for a number of years, the vast majority of people I came across were Catholics.  I have a predominantly Catholic education, having gone to Jesuit schools up through college.

Is it the same in Wilkes Barre?  Does it seem like Catholicism is overwhelmingly predominant?  It's only since I spent time (as an adult) living in other places that the overview of my upbringing has been challenged, and I'd be lying if I said there was no degree of culture shock.



Well, let's put it this way.

Most of the people I know, if they're religious at all, are catholic. I know a few protestants,  though I couldn't tell you which branch they are.

Wilkes-Barre has a Catholic College, King's College (the school I attend), right in the middle of the city. Nikki goes to another Catholic college really close by, and there's also the University of Scranton (a Jesuit college) close by us in Scranton.

Nikki could probably tell you better than I could, but I'm fairly sure Wilkes-Barre used to have Catholic churches all over the place. Several have closed and consolidated or whatever, but there's churches all over the place. Another close town, Pittston, has a Catholic church on like every corner. I can't fathom why they've got so many.

That being said, yea, Catholicism is really big here.
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« Reply #4 on: January 16, 2007, 03:26:27 AM »
I grew up Catholic and even when I was little, I thought the whole confirmation, first communion thing was odd.  Not to mention all the chanting.

Now, my father married a Pentecostal woman.  That shit was crazy.  I remember being told that I needed to speak in tongues and stuff.  I remember watching people during the service fall down and start flailing violently and speaking gibberish.  They did the whole hand healer things as well.  It literally scared me.  I also saw how confused all the children grew up.  I saw how a lot of people that went (including myself) didn't buy into it at all.  You could always tell too.  These were the people that looked around confused while people were screaming in "tongues."  Holidays were also taboo.  On Easter, we didn't hunt for eggs because it belittling to Jesus.  You were called evil if you said "X-mas."  And Halloween was awful.  I answered Bible questions all night and learned about how evil the holiday was.

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« Reply #5 on: January 16, 2007, 03:46:38 AM »
Actually, nikki (if I may call you that), and Ecro, I want to know if this was the same in your area of PA as it was in mine.

I grew up in a predominantly Catholic area, to the extent that just about everyone I knew was Catholic.  Even when I went to public high school for a number of years, the vast majority of people I came across were Catholics.  I have a predominantly Catholic education, having gone to Jesuit schools up through college.

Is it the same in Wilkes Barre?  Does it seem like Catholicism is overwhelmingly predominant?  It's only since I spent time (as an adult) living in other places that the overview of my upbringing has been challenged, and I'd be lying if I said there was no degree of culture shock.



Well, let's put it this way.

Most of the people I know, if they're religious at all, are catholic. I know a few protestants,  though I couldn't tell you which branch they are.

Wilkes-Barre has a Catholic College, King's College (the school I attend), right in the middle of the city. Nikki goes to another Catholic college really close by, and there's also the University of Scranton (a Jesuit college) close by us in Scranton.

Nikki could probably tell you better than I could, but I'm fairly sure Wilkes-Barre used to have Catholic churches all over the place. Several have closed and consolidated or whatever, but there's churches all over the place. Another close town, Pittston, has a Catholic church on like every corner. I can't fathom why they've got so many.

That being said, yea, Catholicism is really big here.

Wilkes-Barre basically has churches, bars, and funeral homes on every corner. Seriously.

Most of the people who settled this area were coal miners. They came from Ireland, Poland, Italy, Germany, Austria, Czech (can't spell the rest!), the whole nine yards.

Within three blocks from my house, there are three Catholic churches and one Russian Orthodox church. There's also another Catholic church, the one my parents married in, that has since closed.

I know a few Protestants and a family of Baptists, but the vast majority of people I know who are some type of religion are Catholic.

Oh and TVC, you can call me Nikki, that's fine lol. :)

Mupepe, I loved Confirmation because I got to pick a name! For Roman Catholics, Confirmation gives you a new name that Jesus calls you by when you accept the Holy Spirit into your life. Or some shit like that. I chose Caroline because I think it's pretty.

Reconciliation/Confession was interesting though. You receive that when you're 7 or so, and you have to go to a priest and tell him your sins. I remember telling a priest that I killed bugs and stuff and being sorry for it, because you know, "thou shalt not kill" and stuff. :lol




Oh, and TVC, what area were you from if you don't mind my asking? I go to College Misericordia in Dallas (the Back Mountain, if you will) and people come here from New York and Jersey and stuff, and they're like "WTF is with all the white people!?!" There is very little diversity here. We're getting more and more Hispanics and all in the area, but for the old folk around here, different "races" are Italians and Polocks haha.
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« Reply #6 on: January 16, 2007, 03:51:58 AM »
lol religion
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« Reply #7 on: January 16, 2007, 04:13:13 AM »
I grew up in the Bible belt of the South, which is an overwhelmingly Baptist area.  Other than the big cities, there's not much in the way of diversity for religion- you're pretty much either Baptist or Methodist.  The cooler kids always seemed to be the Methodists in school.

My parents were old hippies, and actually used to live in an Ashram (kind of like a commune dedicated to the teachings of Prem Rawat, an Indian holy man that also went by the title of Maharaji) before I was born.  Obviously, they didn't raise my sister or I to be anything- I came to my curious blend of agnosticism and Buddhism pretty much by trial and error.

After my parents split for the first time, my mom took us to a few Unitarian services.  I think it was more for her than us as she was kind of going through a tough time in her life at that point.  The Unitarians are the laid back Christians- we hardly talked about Jesus that much and couched our conversations in Sunday school the few times I went more in the terms of general right and wrong kind of stuff. 

As someone who came to his "religion" late in life, and has only been to one Buddhist temple in his life, I couldn't tell you much of what the traditions and rituals of the religion are.  I know how to meditate, however, and that has been the biggest benefit of the teachings that I've come away with.  I believe in the core teachings of Buddhism (The Four Noble Truths, The Noble Eightfold Path) but don't have any use for superstition and fairy tales.  I'm a pretty weird dude.
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« Reply #8 on: January 16, 2007, 04:19:04 AM »
I thought the Bible Belt was mostly Evangelical Christians? See how little I know?
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« Reply #9 on: January 16, 2007, 04:32:02 AM »
I thought the Bible Belt was mostly Evangelical Christians? See how little I know?

Evangelicals are Baptists.  And trust me, you should count your ignorance as bliss.
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« Reply #10 on: January 16, 2007, 04:35:36 AM »
I thought the Bible Belt was mostly Evangelical Christians? See how little I know?

Evangelicals are Baptists.  And trust me, you should count your ignorance as bliss.

:lol That's what I've heard. I knew someone who was a Born-Again Christian, and they were VERY preachy and all "you must find Jesus and repent~!!!!~!~ONE!!!!" I guess Evangelicals are similar? ;)
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« Reply #11 on: January 16, 2007, 04:45:32 AM »
I thought the Bible Belt was mostly Evangelical Christians? See how little I know?

Evangelicals are Baptists.  And trust me, you should count your ignorance as bliss.

:lol That's what I've heard. I knew someone who was a Born-Again Christian, and they were VERY preachy and all "you must find Jesus and repent~!!!!~!~ONE!!!!" I guess Evangelicals are similar? ;)

Yup, pretty much.  Our President is an Evangelical, to give an example... grumble mumble.

The funniest are the Pentecostals that handle snakes, though.  My fine deductive reasoning AND my religion both tell me not to fuck with poisonous critters.  I am winnar!
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« Reply #12 on: January 16, 2007, 07:22:42 AM »
I was raised non-denominational Christian and am now along the Quaker line of jeudo-christian faith.

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« Reply #13 on: January 16, 2007, 08:43:32 AM »
I am roman catholic if anything. But I never went to church or had religion taught to me as a kid by my parents. My parents were very secular, never took me to church or anything. I got baptized late when I was 6 just because my parents were tired of people bugging them about it.  Yet oddly they sent me to a catholic school while I grew up in Ohio. We moved before I ever had the chance for the school to get me confirmed though.

Yet in Michigan I ended up going to a Lutheran High School.  :lol That ended up making me more catholic than anything. I grew to hate the obsessive pro-life anti-evolution insanity of the evangelical movement amongst protestants. I found myself defending my more secular catholicism stances and have grown now to hate the protestant evangelical movement more than just about anything in the world.  :lol

So I guess I call myself catholic when people ask what I am even though I have never been confirmed nor have I really ever gone to church. I always feel the need to defend the Vatican and the pope when I see them bashed for some reason.

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« Reply #14 on: January 16, 2007, 10:21:29 AM »
What is a "secular catholic" stance?
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« Reply #15 on: January 16, 2007, 10:38:15 AM »
There is no God/Buddah/Allah etc etc etc
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« Reply #16 on: January 16, 2007, 10:52:09 AM »
I was raised Roman Catholic and attended a Catholic elementary school. Though my mother is very devout I was never religious. From early on in life I was agnostic or leaning towards atheism and was certain that the Christian God did not exist. Despite protestations from my parents and school I was the only student in my class who wasn't confirmed. Shortly thereafter while my sister was dying I had a halfhearted relapse, but after she died I became a staunch atheist. During the last ten years I have I have drifted between different forms of agnosticism and atheism while at times believing in the "noble lie". Currently I am a strong atheist.

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« Reply #17 on: January 16, 2007, 12:25:37 PM »
Hey Nikki,

I'm from a small town several miles away from Frackville.  About 10 miles north of Pottsville.
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« Reply #18 on: January 16, 2007, 04:49:13 PM »
There is no God/Buddah/Allah/Miyamoto etc etc etc

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« Reply #19 on: January 16, 2007, 04:52:23 PM »
I believe in a high power and spirituality, but that's about it.  I like to remove the dogma and religious-sponsored hate from the equation. I do respect some of my Hebrew traditions, but it's more cultural than religious.  I find organized religion fascinating, but I really don't prescribe to it.
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« Reply #20 on: January 16, 2007, 04:57:42 PM »
What is a "secular catholic" stance?
I don't know lol. The fact I am pro-choice, believe in evolution..etc yet still "respect" the pope and call myself catholic?  :lol

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« Reply #21 on: January 16, 2007, 05:06:21 PM »
I believe in a high power and spirituality, but that's about it.  I like to remove the dogma and religious-sponsored hate from the equation. I do respect some of my Hebrew traditions, but it's more cultural than religious.  I find organized religion fascinating, but I really don't prescribe to it.

Bullshit!  You just play this faux-religious line so you can get Christmas, Channukah and Kwanza gifts!
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« Reply #22 on: January 16, 2007, 05:10:55 PM »
Kwanza isn't religious!
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« Reply #23 on: January 16, 2007, 05:13:08 PM »
Kwanza isn't religious!

Whatever it is, Willco



IT'S NOT CHRISTIAN!!!!!!!
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« Reply #24 on: January 16, 2007, 06:02:14 PM »
Kwanza isn't religious!

Kwanza is black Hanukkah; are you saying Hanukkah is a fake holiday, too?!

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« Reply #25 on: January 16, 2007, 06:12:27 PM »
What is a "secular catholic" stance?
I don't know lol. The fact I am pro-choice, believe in evolution..etc yet still "respect" the pope and call myself catholic?  :lol

Yeah, I can't figure you people out.  :P


As for me, protestant Christian.  Officially a member of the United Church of Canada, but I'm not very tied to the organization, I occasionally attend a Presbyterian church near campus when I'm at school.
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« Reply #26 on: January 16, 2007, 07:12:04 PM »
I believe in a high power and spirituality, but that's about it.  I like to remove the dogma and religious-sponsored hate from the equation. I do respect some of my Hebrew traditions, but it's more cultural than religious.  I find organized religion fascinating, but I really don't prescribe to it.

You're one of those people who will become very religious as you get older. I can tell.