Author Topic: When did you lose you virginity? (Read 5856 times)

Tasty · « **on:** August 10, 2015, 12:02:53 AM »

Watching tonight's Last Week Tonight got me wondering about our den of depravity. So, out with it y'all.

Himu · « **Reply #1 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:06:16 AM »

Lose virginity in what way?

CatsCatsCats · « **Reply #2 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:10:43 AM »

16, backseat of girlfriends car

Tasty · « **Reply #3 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:13:11 AM »

Quote from: Queen of Ice on August 10, 2015, 12:06:16 AM

Lose virginity in what way?

Whichever way is significant to you.

thisismyusername · « **Reply #4 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:13:15 AM »

Quote from: Queen of Ice on August 10, 2015, 12:06:16 AM

Lose virginity in what way?

Whatever makes you think of losing the "V-card" I guess.

ToxicAdam · « **Reply #5 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:20:48 AM »

I was one of the last ones in my circle of friends (many of which lost it at 13 or 14). 18 felt like 40.

So many failed tries.

StealthFan · « **Reply #6 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:36:50 AM »

Himu · « **Reply #7 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:38:14 AM »

Quote from: Tasty Meat on August 10, 2015, 12:13:11 AM

Quote from: Queen of Ice on August 10, 2015, 12:06:16 AM
Lose virginity in what way?

Whichever way is significant to you.

With a girl, 19.
With a man 24.

Rahxephon91 · « **Reply #8 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:47:19 AM »

21. Last time as well. It was a terrible experience and haven't had it since.

Human Snorenado · « **Reply #9 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:06:00 AM »

18, summer in between senior year of high school and freshman year of college.

Tasty · « **Reply #10 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:17:39 AM »

So for me, I didn't begin sexual activity until about two years ago (22.) Took something like two years of being in Boston to break out of my shell.

thisismyusername · « **Reply #11 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:21:49 AM »

Quote from: Tasty Meat on August 10, 2015, 01:17:39 AM

So for me, I didn't begin sexual activity until about two years ago (22.) Took something like two years of being in Boston to break out of my shell.

Gay men generally lose it (depending on your criteria) older than hetero men. You're not out of the norm for homosexuals.

Tasty · « **Reply #12 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:26:41 AM »

I figured that was probably the case. Looking back, I'm surprised I lost it that "early" as it is.

TBH I was never really concerned about it. Might have been typical nerd-thinking or my homo resignation, but I didn't feel compelled to seek it out. But there came a point where I began to mature as a person and it seemed like an obvious logical step.

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Himu · « **Reply #13 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:51:31 AM »

lgbt people in general tend to lose it later. Despite losing my virginity at 19, I don't really count it, and count having sex with men more important on the scale.

Kara · « **Reply #14 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:30:38 AM »

Young enough that I had an epic dry spell afterwards.

Tasty · « **Reply #15 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:34:43 AM »

Quote from: Vularai on August 10, 2015, 02:30:38 AM

Young enough that I had an epic dry spell afterwards.

Do tell.

Kara · « **Reply #16 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:39:16 AM »

First year of high school and then I didn't have sex again until juco.

brawndolicious · « **Reply #17 on:** August 10, 2015, 03:39:09 AM »

23, to a pretty desperate chubby chick I barely knew. Next year of dating was all super volatile as I always tried to pass myself off as experienced but after "coming out of the closet" and admitting to an ex that I ended it because I was intimidated by her experience, my confidence and (physical) self-image has been shit and have had all rejections since then. Been in a dry spell now for two years and have no idea what to do. Probably can't be honest as a deformed dude largely gets judged by the way other people see him.

Cerveza mas fina · « **Reply #18 on:** August 10, 2015, 07:41:49 AM »

Losing virginity is a very christian inspired concept, as if it is something you will miss and it is something dear you lost.

I think we should sop to calling it that and should adapt a more positive view of sex and just call it having sex for the first time.

Olivia Wilde Homo · « **Reply #19 on:** August 10, 2015, 07:55:41 AM »

Lost it at 19.

I lost a bunch of weight when I was 18 and I was pissed at myself for being a virgin for the first year of college. So I was determined to lose it between the first and second years of college. I was at the music section of Best Buy, where I'm pretty sure I was getting the new Cee Lo album (Cee Lo Green is the Soul Machine) and saw a girl with giant boobs in the same section. I swallowed my pride and approached her. She was very receptive, we talked about music for a few minutes, and got her number. I'm pretty sure I was stumbling all over my words when asking for it but she did. We wound up going on four dates. Before the fourth date, she let it be known that we were probably going to have sex. I never told her I was a virgin but deep down, I suspect she knew (not that it was difficult to figure out lol) so she was helping me out by letting me know (how nice of her). So I remember being embarrassed as hell to buy a pack of condoms so I did the usual "buy a bunch of other shit" routine.

I remember it being pretty uninspiring. I couldn't feel anything at all with the condom and I also jacked off earlier that day since I didn't want to look like a two pump chump. As a result, it was about 30 minutes. I remember having to break once to drink some water. It was not a magical experience. Afterwards I think we just watched TV at her place the rest of the afternoon.

The post script to this is that we went out a few more times but with college coming up, this wasn't a relationship that was going to last. She was 18 and going to some religious private college another state over. The drive time was going to be six hours and I saw pretty much every long term relationship fail so I wasn't dumb enough to assume it was going to work for us. So we broke it off a couple weeks before going back to school. I was still horny so I wound up hooking up with a Latina that I worked with at a throwaway summer job before I went back. After that was a several month long dry spell. That's one of the delusions of the virgin: that once you lose it, you'll keep having sex on a regular basis. Couldn't be further from the truth.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #20 on:** August 10, 2015, 08:12:30 AM »

And people here made fun of me for losing mine in college, yet look at that poll. Most of yall were in my boat after all.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #21 on:** August 10, 2015, 10:15:27 AM »

I don't fuck Demi's mom and tell.

studyguy · « **Reply #22 on:** August 10, 2015, 11:18:40 AM »

First girl I fucked I told her I'd love her forever.
Whatever it took to get those panties to drop.
Fast forward a year we're basically fucking on other people.

High school relationships brehs.

TakingBackSunday · « **Reply #23 on:** August 10, 2015, 11:36:06 AM »

21 on my couch with my then-girlfriend. It was awful

Tasty · « **Reply #24 on:** August 10, 2015, 11:43:50 AM »

Quote from: Mary Tyler Whore on August 10, 2015, 07:55:41 AM

I remember it being pretty uninspiring. I couldn't feel anything at all with the condom and I also jacked off earlier that day since I didn't want to look like a two pump chump. As a result, it was about 30 minutes.

Interesting. For me when I was starting out it was difficult for me to finish. General nervousness and inexperience maybe. Whenever I actually could, I felt pretty triumphant lol.

studyguy · « **Reply #25 on:** August 10, 2015, 11:53:56 AM »

First time was a race.
She just happened to lose.

Am_I_Anonymous · « **Reply #26 on:** August 10, 2015, 11:55:12 AM »

D3RANG3D · « **Reply #27 on:** August 10, 2015, 11:57:04 AM »

About a month shy of my 21st Birthday.

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Got a few BJ's in Highschool/College beforehand.

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Purrp Skirrp · « **Reply #28 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:24:00 PM »

16 in Italy with GF on a school trip.

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #29 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:46:48 PM »

Quote from: Tasty Meat on August 10, 2015, 11:43:50 AM

Quote from: Mary Tyler Whore on August 10, 2015, 07:55:41 AM
I remember it being pretty uninspiring. I couldn't feel anything at all with the condom and I also jacked off earlier that day since I didn't want to look like a two pump chump. As a result, it was about 30 minutes.

Interesting. For me when I was starting out it was difficult for me to finish. General nervousness and inexperience maybe. Whenever I actually could, I felt pretty triumphant lol.

Your first sexual experience was you topping? When did you become a bottom?

Your Stalker · « **Reply #30 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:48:12 PM »

shortly before my 16th birhtday

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #31 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:50:19 PM »

Quote from: Your Stalker on August 10, 2015, 12:48:12 PM

shortly before my 16th birhtday

Was she white?

Tasty · « **Reply #32 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:52:33 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 10, 2015, 12:46:48 PM

Quote from: Tasty Meat on August 10, 2015, 11:43:50 AM
Quote from: Mary Tyler Whore on August 10, 2015, 07:55:41 AM
I remember it being pretty uninspiring. I couldn't feel anything at all with the condom and I also jacked off earlier that day since I didn't want to look like a two pump chump. As a result, it was about 30 minutes.

Interesting. For me when I was starting out it was difficult for me to finish. General nervousness and inexperience maybe. Whenever I actually could, I felt pretty triumphant lol.

Your first sexual experience was you topping? When did you become a bottom?
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How did you get that out of it?

It was difficult for me regardless of position.

Your Stalker · « **Reply #33 on:** August 10, 2015, 12:59:27 PM »

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 10, 2015, 12:50:19 PM

Quote from: Your Stalker on August 10, 2015, 12:48:12 PM
shortly before my 16th birhtday

Was she white?
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Why do you ask?

Mr. Gundam · « **Reply #34 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:00:54 PM »

19. I had been dating the same girl since 15, but she wasn't ready until then. Did everything else previously.

Mr Gilhaney · « **Reply #35 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:03:16 PM »

Day before I turned 15.

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It was terrible.

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Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #36 on:** August 10, 2015, 01:26:03 PM »

Quote from: Tasty Meat on August 10, 2015, 12:52:33 PM

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 10, 2015, 12:46:48 PM
Quote from: Tasty Meat on August 10, 2015, 11:43:50 AM
Quote from: Mary Tyler Whore on August 10, 2015, 07:55:41 AM
I remember it being pretty uninspiring. I couldn't feel anything at all with the condom and I also jacked off earlier that day since I didn't want to look like a two pump chump. As a result, it was about 30 minutes.

Interesting. For me when I was starting out it was difficult for me to finish. General nervousness and inexperience maybe. Whenever I actually could, I felt pretty triumphant lol.

Your first sexual experience was you topping? When did you become a bottom?
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How did you get that out of it?

It was difficult for me regardless of position.

I guess I assumed "finish" meant banging someone and not being able to...well, finish.

Tasty · « **Reply #37 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:04:22 PM »

Yes. Ejaculation was difficult/impossible when I was starting.

Atramental · « **Reply #38 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:07:52 PM »

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Tasty · « **Reply #39 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:23:33 PM »

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Hang in there bb <3

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #40 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:26:43 PM »

Quote from: Your Stalker on August 10, 2015, 12:59:27 PM

Quote from: Phoenix Dark on August 10, 2015, 12:50:19 PM
Quote from: Your Stalker on August 10, 2015, 12:48:12 PM
shortly before my 16th birhtday

Was she white?
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Why do you ask?

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I see myself in you breh. I know you chased pawgs in high school.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #41 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:46:47 PM »

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I could help you and after you'll be like
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Atramental · « **Reply #42 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:55:43 PM »

No butt stuff! Only bro-jobs.

Madrun Badrun · « **Reply #43 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:56:46 PM »

Nah, I'm not gay

Phoenix Dark · « **Reply #44 on:** August 10, 2015, 02:59:57 PM »

getting a brojob from a bald guy as you caress his smooth bald head

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Supermanisdead · « **Reply #46 on:** August 10, 2015, 03:08:14 PM »

my friends cottage in the summer after hs. didnt know him and never saw him again. it hurt

Tasty · « **Reply #47 on:** August 10, 2015, 03:10:40 PM »

Quote from: TheInfelicitousDandy on August 10, 2015, 02:56:46 PM

Nah, I'm not gay

studyguy · « **Reply #48 on:** August 10, 2015, 03:13:24 PM »

This entire thread is ruined for marriage

demi · « **Reply #49 on:** August 10, 2015, 03:20:36 PM »

Does anyone want to take my virginity?

studyguy · « **Reply #50 on:** August 10, 2015, 03:23:20 PM »

Quote from: WRATH VICE™ on August 10, 2015, 03:18:27 PM

17 with my then girlfriend in her house when her parents were away. Our only knowledge about sex was porn so we tried to do the same formula except we went anal instead of vaginal(cue pegging jokes) so she could "keep her hymen". Didn't find myself in the puss till 19 when I went to college. That was with some blonde bimbo with big tits after getting drunk in a house party.

Keep it intact

thisismyusername · « **Reply #51 on:** August 10, 2015, 04:30:34 PM »

Quote from: demi on August 10, 2015, 03:20:36 PM

Does anyone want to take my virginity?

You haven't done anal?

tiesto · « **Reply #52 on:** August 10, 2015, 05:31:00 PM »

22, I was a bit of a late bloomer... chalk it up to the following:
-being extremely shy and lacking in confidence
-ending up dating virgins and/or religious "not before marriage" girls
-wanted the first time to be with a girlfriend and not a hookup - even though I did have quite a few chances in college (me being naive innocent guy... how quickly that changed

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chronovore · « **Reply #53 on:** August 10, 2015, 07:26:35 PM »

Surprised to see that I was in the average; it seemed like most of my high school was hooking up before I did. Then again, they were also drinking and doing coke, which seemed like bad ideas, so I wasn't idealizing their life choices.

Cheddahz · « **Reply #54 on:** August 10, 2015, 07:36:32 PM »

18

i had taken a bunch of painkillers and was watching all five blade runner movies when my girl wanted some

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Joe Molotov · « **Reply #55 on:** August 10, 2015, 07:56:12 PM »

Quote from: Cheddahz on August 10, 2015, 07:36:32 PM

18

i had taken a bunch of painkillers and was watching all five blade runner movies when my girl wanted some

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fistfulofmetal · « **Reply #56 on:** August 10, 2015, 08:14:57 PM »

spring of last year. tho i did post about it so some people might remember

-first girl ever dated
-second date ever

whole relationship only lasted little over 2 months

way better relationship now!

Huff · « **Reply #57 on:** August 10, 2015, 08:44:53 PM »

18. Summer before college. So drunk the first time. Barely remember. Like most of my undergrad hook ups. I'm sure it was fun though

Beezy · « **Reply #58 on:** August 10, 2015, 08:56:55 PM »

26, September last year. Condom + nervousness for both me and the girl, so neither of us came. Condom again the 2nd time which was the following day, but it broke without me realizing. Came inside her, heart sunk when I realized, then she let me know she was on birth control and laughed at me. We never used a condom again after that. Haven't been with her or anyone else since March and the thought of having to use condoms again pisses me off.

studyguy · « **Reply #59 on:** August 10, 2015, 09:24:21 PM »

You sweat till she bleeds is like the worst
Not even joking.

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Author Topic: When did you lose you virginity? (Read 5856 times)