I really dont understand this girl

[FlameOfCallandor]

I have compiled everything she has said about me or to me on facebook. Is it possible she is just flirint/being nice and she is NOT into me?

[Mupepe]

I don't think so.  Why do you think she might not be into you?

[FlameOfCallandor]

Thats the same girl that slept over.

The reason I think she isnt into me is becuase when I ask her to do something she says shes doing something else. Shes also the same girl who told me I was too nice to date last semester after I told her how I felt. All these comments came after that.

[Phoenix Dark]

Sounds like she's labeled you as a nice guy and therefore feels she can treat you - and talk to you - however she wants. She's hot, but if she wants to play mind games forget her

[Van Cruncheon]

she so playin' ya

[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

You really love lookin at pics of yourself, huh? o_O

[FlameOfCallandor]

What should I do?

[Van Cruncheon]

stop tryin' to get with her, she'll either come back after you in earnest or forget you

[Phoenix Dark]

Listen to Drinky

It's the "put the nice guy on the yoyo" trick.

[The Miles Trahan Burger Experiment]

Listen to Drinky

It's the "put the nice guy on the yoyo" trick.

How's things with the vampiress, duders?

[FlameOfCallandor]

I did stop talking to her. After last semester when she told me she wanted to be friends I pretty much just dropped her. I only saw her in class and we didnt really talk that much. She would eave messages on facebook and say stuff like "We need to hang out." My reply was always "Call me" but she never called. She did that a few times and my response was always the same. So the day before school started this semester she calls and I figure we just go get coffee, but every place was closed so we just went back to my place and she stayed the night. She made two comments that made me think. The first was she made a comment out of nowhere that she broke up with her boyfriend. The second was when I mentioned how hot that red head in the first picture was. She then turned to me and said "Galen, we need to hang out more"



What should I do? Should I be straight up and just talk to her? Thats what I have been wanting to do, but she hasnt been able to meet in person with just me in a few days. I want to tell her that I need to get my priorites straight before the semester really gets kicking.

[demi]

[Boogie]

ask her out/try to kiss her.  If she declines, cut her off for good.

[FlameOfCallandor]

ask her out/try to kiss her.  If she declines, cut her off for good.

  I have definitly done this before. Not with this girl but another. It was pretty embarrasing.

[Boogie]

ask her out/try to kiss her.  If she declines, cut her off for good.

  I have definitly done this before. Not with this girl but another. It was pretty embarrasing.

well, the indirect approach sure ain't doing you any favours here.  If you don't make your case clear, it won't do you any good.  You gotta get a straight answer out of her quick, so that you don't waste any more time on her if you find out she's just messin' with you and isn't interested.

[FlameOfCallandor]

I hear ya boogie. I want to just ask her, but if we cant meet in person should I just do it over aim or facebook?

[Phoenix Dark]

Listen to Drinky

It's the "put the nice guy on the yoyo" trick.

How's things with the vampiress, duders?

[Mupepe]

Thats the same girl that slept over.

The reason I think she isnt into me is becuase when I ask her to do something she says shes doing something else. Shes also the same girl who told me I was too nice to date last semester after I told her how I felt. All these comments came after that.

Oh, i already told you, man!

She wants you at arms length!  You're not good enough to actually be with, but you're good to get her an ego boost.

[FlameOfCallandor]

Even after all those comments you think thats it? Thats pretty cruel to say stuff like that when she knows how I feel about her.

If that is the case, I want to tell her in person that what she did was pretty bad and shes a tease. That might give me a piece of mind.

[Mupepe]

Even after all those comments you think thats it? Thats pretty cruel to say stuff like that when she knows how I feel about her.

Yes.  I've been in that situation before.  Sorry, man.  Text book case.  How far has she gone physically with you?  I have a feeling your answer is going to prove my point.

[FlameOfCallandor]

she was sleeping in my arms that one night. Thats not much i guess.

[Mupepe]

she was sleeping in my arms that one night. Thats not much i guess.

Exactly.  Nothing sexual, am I right?

Listen, she likes to play games.  She likes the fact that you like her, that is it. 

Here's my advice if you want to escalate it and possibly get laid...

Start ignoring her.  When she calls, let it go to voicemail and never call back.  Or answer and say "I'm out with Sheila (or some other girls name), I'll call you back."  She'll think "What's wrong with me??" and up the ante.  I've encountered girls like this.  I'll bet my balls on that.

[FlameOfCallandor]

Yea I might do that. If I learned anything from the movie "Gone with the Wind" Its that girls only want what they cant have. I might just do that, but she is really fun to hang around and  I dont want to push her away.


Should even bother talking to her ans asking her whats up?

[Boogie]

Listen to Drinky

It's the "put the nice guy on the yoyo" trick.

How's things with the vampiress, duders?

oh look, someone's being coy.

[Mupepe]

She's not going anywhere.  I'll bet my urinary tract on that.  She's going to respond by trying to get closer to you.  Just don't blatantly blow her off.  Just act like you're always really busy.

[FlameOfCallandor]

Should I talk to her before I act like im to busy for her? Should I ask her what the deal between us is and why did she say those things.

[Mupepe]

Should I talk to her before I act like im to busy for her? Should I ask her what the deal between us is and why did she say those things.

Um, that's going to push her away most likely.  But if you really want an answer, that's the best way to do it.  No healthy relationship can amount from what I'm suggesting.  That's if you want to get laid. 

[FlameOfCallandor]

Should I talk to her before I act like im to busy for her? Should I ask her what the deal between us is and why did she say those things.

Um, that's going to push her away most likely.  But if you really want an answer, that's the best way to do it.  No healthy relationship can amount from what I'm suggesting.  That's if you want to get laid. 

I dont think that would get me laid. Shes not the type that puts out. ever.

[Mupepe]

Should I talk to her before I act like im to busy for her? Should I ask her what the deal between us is and why did she say those things.

Um, that's going to push her away most likely.  But if you really want an answer, that's the best way to do it.  No healthy relationship can amount from what I'm suggesting.  That's if you want to get laid. 

I dont think that would get me laid. Shes not the type that puts out. ever.

Well, I said possibly.  I can guarantee it will get your more action.  GUARANTEE

But if you want to try to have a healthy relationship, just ask her what's up. 

I mean, not being direct is why most relationship fail in the first place.  Might as well start off on the right foot.  Just ask her dude. 

But, if you want a makeout session, ignore her.  LOLZ