Maybe the real NeoGAF was the friends we made along the way...

[nudemacusers]

Well regardless of where you stand in this specific incident it’s pretty clear that encouraging a community atmosphere driven by hot take first glance responses, with us or against us polarization of practically every current event or social issue, and a discouragement of actual intellectual discussion, all the while going out of your way to hide and ban the problematic shot you’ve done, regardless of severity, is a powderkeg that just needs a fresh match. I mean even in the voat-iest of fantasies did anyone seriously think the site would implode within like 2 hours?

[Nintex]

As for not being assertive enough. Trying to sneak into a shower with someone - or in bed like the other dude in this thread is bragging about - is not being assertive. Be assertive when she is right there, laughing, talking or dancing with you. Make your move then. If someone calls you a sexual predator for going in for a kiss after getting some signals, they are out of their mind. Just... don't take everything as a signal of course.

I agree. That's not being assertive, that's making a bold ass drunk move that can go bad. If it's out of the blue with no prior signals than that is creepy.

In my situation i was confident the girl was signaling she wanted to screw around and i was right. I'm sure that's what he was thinking as well, he just happened to fail at that moment, and later succeeded with whatever he was doing because he did eventually have a physical relationship with her.

I like how he went into a room with her. Sat around waiting, probably clothed. Started to undress until suddenly..

"BLEeuehhgggrrrr.... sploosh"

"My my...", captain Malka thought, "I have just what she needs to plug the puke hole." 

[etiolate]

Andy, I'm saying you used to come off as a real person and now you come off as a forum persona wanting  pack approval. That people think this is a good step up for you is worrying.

Dude you need to chill, lmao. What the hell man.

I'm chill. I'm just serious as well.

[Hobies cat]

he got into a shower naked with someone who didn't want him to be there

you fucking distinguished mentally-challenged fellow

But he didn't know she didn't want him there. They were on a road trip, she was staying in a hotel with him and they both just got back from a night of binge drinking. She was in an open relationship (apparently only with girls though). The elf thought he had it in the bag, he didn't and got out. So??

None of those things give him the right to act that way.

Have you been in a relationship before? These are kind of accepted normal human courtesies we're supposed to offer to others. You don't get to do stupid shit and get away with it just because you "didn't know."

Have you? I used to be like some of you until I realized women would call you a fucking pussy behind your back if you're not assertive enough. Now, what Evilore did was pathetic and too forward but even kissing a woman makes you a sexual predator now with SJ Ws. It basically boils down to this: Did it work? How romantic! It didn't? SEXUAL PREDATOR! RAPIST! SCUM!

Evilore is a special fellow who doesn't understand women there's no doubt about that, but does it deserve that kind of response? Fuck no. Like I said the other incident he described about grabbing a woman's ass is far, FAR worse than this one.

I agree that the response with the whole website going down is a bit much. But that is his fault for fucking up the response to this all.

As for not being assertive enough. Trying to sneak into a shower with someone - or in bed like the other dude in this thread is bragging about - is not being assertive. Be assertive when she is right there, laughing, talking or dancing with you. Make your move then. If someone calls you a sexual predator for going in for a kiss after getting some signals, they are out of their mind. Just... don't take everything as a signal of course.

The whole website went down because all the mods quit.  No way he could have kept it under control alone.

Not having a statement within like 2 hours is inexcusable though

Perhaps when the mods departed they had for the briefest of moments, by brief I mean roughly equivalent to the half life of Hydrogen 7, but for the briefest of moments had a hint of decency and for the first time in their lives acted for the greater good to make sure things could not just be turned back on at the flip of a switch.

EDIT: Wait...Decency, who the hell am I kidding.

[Himu]

Any new fuckery?

[who is ted danson?]

Well regardless of where you stand in this specific incident it’s pretty clear that encouraging a community atmosphere driven by hot take first glance responses, with us or against us polarization of practically every current event or social issue, and a discouragement of actual intellectual discussion, all the while going out of your way to hide and ban the problematic shot you’ve done, regardless of severity, is a powderkeg that just needs a fresh match. I mean even in the voat-iest of fantasies did anyone seriously think the site would implode within like 2 hours?

Pretty sure Sigmund Freud once said that one broken window is all it takes to bring down an empire. So it's happened before. It's happened now. It will happen again.

[Assimilate]

As for not being assertive enough. Trying to sneak into a shower with someone - or in bed like the other dude in this thread is bragging about - is not being assertive. Be assertive when she is right there, laughing, talking or dancing with you. Make your move then. If someone calls you a sexual predator for going in for a kiss after getting some signals, they are out of their mind. Just... don't take everything as a signal of course.

I agree. That's not being assertive, that's making a bold ass drunk move that can go bad. If it's out of the blue with no prior signals than that is creepy.

In my situation i was confident the girl was signaling she wanted to screw around and i was right. I'm sure that's what he was thinking as well, he just happened to fail at that moment, and later succeeded with whatever he was doing because he did eventually have a physical relationship with her.

I like how he went into a room with her. Sat around waiting, probably clothed. Started to undress until suddenly..

"BLEeuehhgggrrrr.... sploosh"

"My my...", captain Malka thought, "I have just what she needs to plug the puke hole." 

Yeah if he actually heard her puking hard... haha

[Raist]

Andy, I'm saying you used to come off as a real person and now you come off as a forum persona wanting  pack approval. That people think this is a good step up for you is worrying.

Dude you need to chill, lmao. What the hell man.

I'm chill. I'm just serious as well.

[Nere]

Tyler, first thing you do is unban me.

I will talk about new PC game Elex, a new Euro-jank RPG from the makers of Risen, post some screenshots, the crowd goes wild.

It will be like the old days.

Otherwise it will just be non-stop trolling and bullshit. You know it is true.

How is Elex actually? Thinking of getting it.

[Boredfrom]

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera published a statement, Benji posted some pages ago.

[benjipwns]

So what is the consensus as to which site will be up first. GAF or Reset?

GAF he just has to find some moderators or something because otherwise it'll be a huge shitshow for him to try and manage alone. It's already up, is full of threads, has user accounts. He can lock off-topic already, etc.

#YearZero has to not only start up their forum, purge the potentially Trump supporting infiltrator from their LLC, then go through their extensive background check level approval process and then deal with what happens when the giddy first week of posting slows down, that's assuming they don't have a draconian posting system or moderation, i mean they're going to have to setup a thread to determine who makes the official threads right? and remember, no negativity please

[injurai]

Well regardless of where you stand in this specific incident it’s pretty clear that encouraging a community atmosphere driven by hot take first glance responses, with us or against us polarization of practically every current event or social issue, and a discouragement of actual intellectual discussion, all the while going out of your way to hide and ban the problematic shot you’ve done, regardless of severity, is a powderkeg that just needs a fresh match. I mean even in the voat-iest of fantasies did anyone seriously think the site would implode within like 2 hours?

Much like the election, there will be no reflection done.

[Broseidon]

imagine having as little self-awareness as etoilet 

[toku]

leave tasty alone

[wenis]

As for not being assertive enough. Trying to sneak into a shower with someone - or in bed like the other dude in this thread is bragging about - is not being assertive. Be assertive when she is right there, laughing, talking or dancing with you. Make your move then. If someone calls you a sexual predator for going in for a kiss after getting some signals, they are out of their mind. Just... don't take everything as a signal of course.

I agree. That's not being assertive, that's making a bold ass drunk move that can go bad. If it's out of the blue with no prior signals than that is creepy.

In my situation i was confident the girl was signaling she wanted to screw around and i was right. I'm sure that's what he was thinking as well, he just happened to fail at that moment, and later succeeded with whatever he was doing because he did eventually have a physical relationship with her.

I like how he went into a room with her. Sat around waiting, probably clothed. Started to undress until suddenly..

"BLEeuehhgggrrrr.... sploosh"

"My my...", captain Malka thought, "I have just what she needs to plug the puke hole." 

That’s what I dont understand. He must be into scat or puke because there’s certain sounds you hear in life that you know, maybe I shouldn’t step foot in there rn.

Common sense, but I guess if you’re throwing around your internet admin weight in real life you lack common sense completely.

[Assimilate]

After all that has transpired there's still people pushing that holier than thou bullshit like they've never made bad calls or mistakes.

It always comes back to bite ya in the arse. 

[Van Cruncheon]

Seems like some of you never partied in your fucking lives. Could only imagine how some of you are IRL

I've partied plenty and never took any sort of risk like crawling into a bed uninvited, flirting or not.  Closing the deal while they are still standing seems like a much safer route to go, or even sitting on the bed and asking them if they are awake before just crawling in.

I understand the "bold move" strategy but always worked for me just to say bold things first.

ends apparently justify the means when yer a sociopath, brehs

[Marhunchy]

i, for one, welcome our new resetter overlords

[nudemacusers]

Also the mods pulling a Meryl Streep and holding their cups out for progressive points scraps get no quarters from me. Just be real about not wanting to lose your “status” (infinite lols) as gaf moderator so you could wear it like a 1st grader’s plastic deputy badge on social media 😂

[benjipwns]

Much like the election, there will be no reflection done.

reflection was done, the problem was found to be other people

[Himu]

Leave Tasty alone!

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera

omfg Best Reset joke by far.

[Kyougar]

So what is the consensus as to which site will be up first. GAF or Reset?

Depends who writes their 9000 word STATEMENT first.

Recettear  already did, Benji posted it some pages ago.

Is there a URL yet for ResetERA?  resetera.com doesn't bring up anything.

safespace.com ?

If the normal political spectrum is 0 to 33% left, 34 to 66 centrist and 67 to 100 right,
2017 gaf and resetera felt/feel like 0 to 5% left and rest is nazi scum. With my political view in the twentie percent area, I must tell myself, I am not alt-right only because the left is radicalising a thousand times. Feels like a left civil-war with hundreds of factions.

[Boredfrom]

Much like the election, there will be no reflection done.

reflection was done, the problem was found to be other people

That pesky Bannon.

[Jenkem]

so Lime is now posting in this thread?

 

[Boredfrom]

Leave Tasty alone!

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera

omfg Best Reset joke by far.

Is not mine, someone already posted pages ago in the morning.

[benjipwns]

Any new fuckery?

#YearZero

Friends and expats,
 
It is difficult to create a community.
 
You can build a website and write a mission statement, but these things are only structural. It takes interest, passion, and participation from users to turn an inanimate website into a living thing. It will take the effort of every member here to turn our burgeoning congregation into the true community we are looking for. No moderator or administrator can be responsible for that – this is a responsibility every user shares. It is rare so many people have the opportunity to start something new together. If we are going to be successful, we must believe in what we are doing.
 
Many of us have come from someplace else and have nowhere else to go. We must be humble and mindful of this fact. As we adapt and recreate the homes we’ve lost, we must be conscious and leave certain things behind. We must shape them in a more perfect vision. If we aim to create someplace respectable and dignified, we must individually uphold those values. While first and foremost this is a hobby forum, it also aims to be much more than that for hundreds of its members. This is our pocket world. It’s our place to go. We are all each other’s neighbors and must treat each other as such.
 
There is no place else on the internet like what we are trying to build. We must take it seriously.
 
As you post and get acclimated with our new forum, channel your energy into reconstruction. Do not fall victim to petty arguments, do not capitalize on every opportunity to be negative, and remember that everyone here is a refugee. Seek positive conversation. Remove your ironic veil and speak honestly. Post thoughtfully and thoroughly and remember everything you contribute is a building block. Do not let our menagerie collapse under the same heavy-handed negativity that defines other forums we find distasteful.
 

• Conversation is invigorated by dissent. It is natural to disagree with your fellow posters and it is commendable to take a stand on something you believe in. If you argue, do so in good faith. Allow members to speak their mind and answer them sincerely. Do not declare your fellow member a lost cause before the conversation has had the chance to conclude.
• Restrain your urge to hyperbolize. Exaggeration overstates your investment and encourages extreme responses from others who feel the need to mirror your position. Attempt to articulate why you care about things, or how things makes you feel, and leave room for others to respond at different levels of intensity.
• Be inclusive in your language, beliefs, and expectations. For this forum to become a massive multinational destination, no human being can feel unwelcome in its environment. Respect their culture, respect their gender, and respect the identity of every member at all times. Nobody should ever feel defensive of their humanity. This kind of hostility cannot be tolerated here. This kind of standard is non-negotiable and should be upheld by every member.
• Do not forget where you came from, but focus on our future. Everyone here comes from somewhere else and we mustn’t cling to our nostalgia. This is a new era free from the burden of history. Embrace your new home, believe in its livelihood, and relish in this occasion. Do not fall victim to the false comforts of the past. Remember why we are moving forward and do so with pride.
• Lastly, be accommodating to the growing pains of the website. There are bound to be technical hurdles. There are bound to be trolls who slip through the grate. There will be some quiet days as members are approved and you may feel like important faces are missing. But you must have patience and support your new board through its afterbirth.

As the clock ticks towards our mutual restart, be confident in yourself and others. Remember what you want the forum to be and hold yourself to that ideal. Demand it of your peers by setting the example. Nobody would be here if they felt at home anywhere else. Remember, we really are the last of us.
 
With admiration, respect, and confidence,
A fellow Resetter

[dridru]

Any new fuckery?

Malka saying to Waypoint that the girl is mentally ill and it is all a Gamergate plot or something.

[Occam]

Does this forum automatically replace "justice" with "studies" when a specific combination of words is used? Or why does everyone keep posting about "social studies"?

[Assimilate]

Seems like some of you never partied in your fucking lives. Could only imagine how some of you are IRL

I've partied plenty and never took any sort of risk like crawling into a bed uninvited, flirting or not.  Closing the deal while they are still standing seems like a much safer route to go, or even sitting on the bed and asking them if they are awake before just crawling in.

I understand the "bold move" strategy but always worked for me just to say bold things first.

ends apparently justify the means when yer a sociopath, brehs

On the other end of this spectrum is the bf sitting at home while his girl is having an elf take her out drinking and eventually fucking her sometime later....


it's always the white knights that get cheated on. it's why so many gaf threads were about dudes finding out their girlfriends were getting pounded on the side by another guy.

[TVC15]

Leave Tasty alone!

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera

omfg Best Reset joke by far.

Is not mine, someone already posted pages ago in the morning.

That was me, and credit where credit's due: I was only able to make that joke because of an extensive history of Van Cruncheon exposing me to Atelier games and trying to convince me they were good and not creepy.

[Dennis]

Also the mods pulling a Meryl Streep and holding their cups out for progressive points scraps get no quarters from me. Just be real about not wanting to lose your “status” (infinite lols) as gaf moderator so you could wear it like a 1st grader’s plastic deputy badge on social media 😂

Leave Besada alone!

[Optimus]

he got into a shower naked with someone who didn't want him to be there

you fucking distinguished mentally-challenged fellow

But he didn't know she didn't want him there. They were on a road trip, she was staying in a hotel with him and they both just got back from a night of binge drinking. She was in an open relationship (apparently only with girls though). The elf thought he had it in the bag, he didn't and got out. So??

None of those things give him the right to act that way.

Have you been in a relationship before? These are kind of accepted normal human courtesies we're supposed to offer to others. You don't get to do stupid shit and get away with it just because you "didn't know."

Have you? I used to be like some of you until I realized women would call you a fucking pussy behind your back if you're not assertive enough. Now, what Evilore did was pathetic and too forward but even kissing a woman makes you a sexual predator now with SJ Ws. It basically boils down to this: Did it work? How romantic! It didn't? SEXUAL PREDATOR! RAPIST! SCUM!

Evilore is a special fellow who doesn't understand women there's no doubt about that, but does it deserve that kind of response? Fuck no. Like I said the other incident he described about grabbing a woman's ass is far, FAR worse than this one.

I agree that the response with the whole website going down is a bit much. But that is his fault for fucking up the response to this all.

As for not being assertive enough. Trying to sneak into a shower with someone - or in bed like the other dude in this thread is bragging about - is not being assertive. Be assertive when she is right there, laughing, talking or dancing with you. Make your move then. If someone calls you a sexual predator for going in for a kiss after getting some signals, they are out of their mind. Just... don't take everything as a signal of course.

The loons have started entire witch-hunts based on a kiss or a touch. Especially if they're co-workers (stressing the co-worker part, I'm not even talking about boss-employee) even outside a work environment these fucks will crucify you. Americans waste most of their lives working and these distinguished mentally-challenged fellows basically expect no romantic relationships in the workplace whatsoever. Jesus Christ, they're completely out of touch with reality, they think people are fucking robots.

As for Evilore, yeah it was too much but it wasn't that bad. Given what she said on kotaku and If it happened like she described and hasn't omitted context (which my money is that she has because people looking for empathy on facebook tend to exaggerate and omit) that makes him drunk and kind of creepy and the second one we already knew.

[Nola]

he got into a shower naked with someone who didn't want him to be there

you fucking distinguished mentally-challenged fellow

But he didn't know she didn't want him there. They were on a road trip, she was staying in a hotel with him and they both just got back from a night of binge drinking. She was in an open relationship (apparently only with girls though). The elf thought he had it in the bag, he didn't and got out. So??

None of those things give him the right to act that way.

Have you been in a relationship before? These are kind of accepted normal human courtesies we're supposed to offer to others. You don't get to do stupid shit and get away with it just because you "didn't know."

Have you? I used to be like some of you until I realized women would call you a fucking pussy behind your back if you're not assertive enough. Now, what Evilore did was pathetic and too forward but even kissing a woman makes you a sexual predator now with SJ Ws. It basically boils down to this: Did it work? How romantic! It didn't? SEXUAL PREDATOR! RAPIST! SCUM!

Evilore is a special fellow who doesn't understand women there's no doubt about that, but does it deserve that kind of response? Fuck no. Like I said the other incident he described about grabbing a woman's ass is far, FAR worse than this one.

Unless you are completely emotionally distinguished mentally-challenged and socially oblivious(and on this I often am with woman that show interest, which says something), most woman do in fact lead things in courting, just not overtly. Flirtations, insinuations, signaling, or the ones on the shy side with gossiping with friends that know will blab. You can be both assertive and confident in the flow and still just ride the waves of what a woman is comfortable with, using well-timed dialogue to feel out what they are open to escalating with emotionally or physically.

Yes, occasionally you might press further than a signal was evident, but its pretty fucking easy to not end up in a situation where you are following some drunk girl that just threw up, into the shower you weren't signaled into. Even if she is a bit crazy and clearly feeling out cheating on her man to satisfy her possible wannabe Zuckerberg elf fetish.

[Tasty]

I've been called a lot of shit on the forum but "apathetic" is definitely a new one. 

[Boredfrom]

Leave Tasty alone!

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera

omfg Best Reset joke by far.

Is not mine, someone already posted pages ago in the morning.

That was me, and credit where credit's due: I was only able to make that joke because of an extensive history of Van Cruncheon exposing me to Atelier games and trying to convince me they were good and not creepy.

Is called Moe.

[dridru]

Seems like some of you never partied in your fucking lives. Could only imagine how some of you are IRL

I've partied plenty and never took any sort of risk like crawling into a bed uninvited, flirting or not.  Closing the deal while they are still standing seems like a much safer route to go, or even sitting on the bed and asking them if they are awake before just crawling in.

I understand the "bold move" strategy but always worked for me just to say bold things first.

ends apparently justify the means when yer a sociopath, brehs

On the other end of this spectrum is the bf sitting at home while his girl is having an elf take her out drinking and eventually fucking her sometime later....


it's always the white knights that get cheated on. it's why so many gaf threads were about dudes finding out their girlfriends were getting pounded on the side by another guy.

Well, yeah, I probably wouldn't be too fond of having a girl I date sharing a hotel room with some other dude. But that's a separate issue.

[injurai]

WRT that "Friends & Expats" Wall-O-Text,

A recent life lesson that I've learned is that those who navigate the world with ever cautious design by committed narratives and gestures is that you can't count on them to act as a proper individual.

[Bananas]

Honestly, the whole culture regarding the fall of neogaf is kinda fascinating to watch. I think most people enjoy some drama, but here you have people doxxing them on twitter, /voat stalking them and people talking about neogaf users like they are "refugees" .

[EightBitNate]

Any new fuckery?

#YearZero

[Van Cruncheon]

Any new fuckery?

#YearZero

Friends and expats,
 
It is difficult to create a community.
 
You can build a website and write a mission statement, but these things are only structural. It takes interest, passion, and participation from users to turn an inanimate website into a living thing. It will take the effort of every member here to turn our burgeoning congregation into the true community we are looking for. No moderator or administrator can be responsible for that – this is a responsibility every user shares. It is rare so many people have the opportunity to start something new together. If we are going to be successful, we must believe in what we are doing.
 
Many of us have come from someplace else and have nowhere else to go. We must be humble and mindful of this fact. As we adapt and recreate the homes we’ve lost, we must be conscious and leave certain things behind. We must shape them in a more perfect vision. If we aim to create someplace respectable and dignified, we must individually uphold those values. While first and foremost this is a hobby forum, it also aims to be much more than that for hundreds of its members. This is our pocket world. It’s our place to go. We are all each other’s neighbors and must treat each other as such.
 
There is no place else on the internet like what we are trying to build. We must take it seriously.
 
As you post and get acclimated with our new forum, channel your energy into reconstruction. Do not fall victim to petty arguments, do not capitalize on every opportunity to be negative, and remember that everyone here is a refugee. Seek positive conversation. Remove your ironic veil and speak honestly. Post thoughtfully and thoroughly and remember everything you contribute is a building block. Do not let our menagerie collapse under the same heavy-handed negativity that defines other forums we find distasteful.
 

• Conversation is invigorated by dissent. It is natural to disagree with your fellow posters and it is commendable to take a stand on something you believe in. If you argue, do so in good faith. Allow members to speak their mind and answer them sincerely. Do not declare your fellow member a lost cause before the conversation has had the chance to conclude.
• Restrain your urge to hyperbolize. Exaggeration overstates your investment and encourages extreme responses from others who feel the need to mirror your position. Attempt to articulate why you care about things, or how things makes you feel, and leave room for others to respond at different levels of intensity.
• Be inclusive in your language, beliefs, and expectations. For this forum to become a massive multinational destination, no human being can feel unwelcome in its environment. Respect their culture, respect their gender, and respect the identity of every member at all times. Nobody should ever feel defensive of their humanity. This kind of hostility cannot be tolerated here. This kind of standard is non-negotiable and should be upheld by every member.
• Do not forget where you came from, but focus on our future. Everyone here comes from somewhere else and we mustn’t cling to our nostalgia. This is a new era free from the burden of history. Embrace your new home, believe in its livelihood, and relish in this occasion. Do not fall victim to the false comforts of the past. Remember why we are moving forward and do so with pride.
• Lastly, be accommodating to the growing pains of the website. There are bound to be technical hurdles. There are bound to be trolls who slip through the grate. There will be some quiet days as members are approved and you may feel like important faces are missing. But you must have patience and support your new board through its afterbirth.

As the clock ticks towards our mutual restart, be confident in yourself and others. Remember what you want the forum to be and hold yourself to that ideal. Demand it of your peers by setting the example. Nobody would be here if they felt at home anywhere else. Remember, we really are the last of us.
 
With admiration, respect, and confidence,
A fellow Resetter

ayy lmao

[gfm793]

The gloating isnt fun if they haven’t noticed so if one of you is in the discord, post this image. Links are locked but you can post an image directly.

https://i.imgur.com/TIFdzqe.png

Also you guys saw this right 

https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vQeAayBDKm2kliUxuA3qmBoplEbfTb8a_h3METSXILq3zin-fG70ix8g0g1SD0HzcxugU5-2AJ2h_0O/pub

Be inclusive in your language, beliefs, and expectations. For this forum to become a massive multinational destination, no human being can feel unwelcome in its environment. Respect their culture, respect their gender, and respect the identity of every member at all times. Nobody should ever feel defensive of their humanity. This kind of hostility cannot be tolerated here. This kind of standard is non-negotiable and should be upheld by every member.

What the fuck does this even mean? God it's up there with "lived experience" as some of the most mealy mouthed bullshit I have ever heard of. No one should ever feel defensive of their own humanity? Why would you? Why is what someone says an attack on your feeling of humanity?

[Hobies cat]

Honestly, the whole culture regarding the fall of neogaf is kinda fascinating to watch. I think most people enjoy some drama, but here you have people doxxing them on twitter, /voat stalking them and people talking about neogaf users like they are "refugees" .

Karma is a bitch, isn't it...

[Bananas]

Also this stuff makes me glad for being gay, because the whole shower discussion.   

[demi]

Why does it sound like Philosophy 101 when I'm just tryna talk about some Criminal Girls gameplay

[Tasty]

Is called Moe.

[nudemacusers]

In retrospect I would like to credit this whole mess for getting me up to speed on the ‘sex repulsed’ community

[Van Cruncheon]

Leave Tasty alone!

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera

omfg Best Reset joke by far.

Is not mine, someone already posted pages ago in the morning.

That was me, and credit where credit's due: I was only able to make that joke because of an extensive history of Van Cruncheon exposing me to Atelier games and trying to convince me they were good and not creepy.

well, there goes *my* mod dreams

[bmoequalsGOAT]

Is this necessary at the end tho "With admiration, respect, and confidence" ? 🤔 Is it really thoo 🤔🤔🤔

[Bananas]

Honestly, the whole culture regarding the fall of neogaf is kinda fascinating to watch. I think most people enjoy some drama, but here you have people doxxing them on twitter, /voat stalking them and people talking about neogaf users like they are "refugees" .

Karma is a bitch, isn't it...

Given that there are places far worse than GAF still open, yeah, not really. GAF worst crime was banning members.

[Finbarfin]

he got into a shower naked with someone who didn't want him to be there

you fucking distinguished mentally-challenged fellow

But he didn't know she didn't want him there. They were on a road trip, she was staying in a hotel with him and they both just got back from a night of binge drinking. She was in an open relationship (apparently only with girls though). The elf thought he had it in the bag, he didn't and got out. So??

None of those things give him the right to act that way.

Have you been in a relationship before? These are kind of accepted normal human courtesies we're supposed to offer to others. You don't get to do stupid shit and get away with it just because you "didn't know."

Have you? I used to be like some of you until I realized women would call you a fucking pussy behind your back if you're not assertive enough. Now, what Evilore did was pathetic and too forward but even kissing a woman makes you a sexual predator now with SJ Ws. It basically boils down to this: Did it work? How romantic! It didn't? SEXUAL PREDATOR! RAPIST! SCUM!

Evilore is a special fellow who doesn't understand women there's no doubt about that, but does it deserve that kind of response? Fuck no. Like I said the other incident he described about grabbing a woman's ass is far, FAR worse than this one.

I agree that the response with the whole website going down is a bit much. But that is his fault for fucking up the response to this all.

As for not being assertive enough. Trying to sneak into a shower with someone - or in bed like the other dude in this thread is bragging about - is not being assertive. Be assertive when she is right there, laughing, talking or dancing with you. Make your move then. If someone calls you a sexual predator for going in for a kiss after getting some signals, they are out of their mind. Just... don't take everything as a signal of course.

The only mistake he made with regard to his response was taking the site down at all and thinking the format of his response was in any way important (if he ever even thought that at all). Not that I'm sticking up for the guy, he seems to be a total shit, but it literally has never mattered even slightly what he says in response. He's not Weinstein he's a fucking video game forum owner and nobody gives a shit about him one way or the other.

The internet and specifically the dumbfucks who think they're making social media waves about their pet issues of the day are due for a reckoning. I can't imagine what an absolute cunt you'd have to be to even possibly think the god damn optics of something like this amount to jack shit while trump is the fearless leader of the wealthiest nation in history and says and does worse shit almost every other minute. Evilore could take a shit right on a reporter's chest during an interview and people would still forget about it in a week.

TL/DR stop thinking anything you do on the internet matters.

[Atramental]

Does this forum automatically replace "justice" with "studies"?

https://youtu.be/TVRcxHnQVys?t=59s

[nudemacusers]

Leave Tasty alone!

Any new fuckery?

Atelier Resetera

omfg Best Reset joke by far.

Is not mine, someone already posted pages ago in the morning.

That was me, and credit where credit's due: I was only able to make that joke because of an extensive history of Van Cruncheon exposing me to Atelier games and trying to convince me they were good and not creepy.

well, there goes *my* mod dreams

U can mod my esophagus

[Assimilate]

following some drunk girl that just threw up, into the shower you weren't signaled into. Even if she is a bit crazy and clearly feeling out cheating on her man to satisfy her possible wannabe Zuckerberg elf fetish.

You're assuming he didn't get signals. Why after everythign you have learned about the situation you are still giving this chic the benefit of the doubt? She fucking slept with him eventually. She seems completely out of it (she closed the door, err well she might have left it a bit open) wut?

You're not defending a Weinstein situation here.

[Rocky]

Any new fuckery?

#YearZero

Friends and expats,
 
It is difficult to create a community.
 
You can build a website and write a mission statement, but these things are only structural. It takes interest, passion, and participation from users to turn an inanimate website into a living thing. It will take the effort of every member here to turn our burgeoning congregation into the true community we are looking for. No moderator or administrator can be responsible for that – this is a responsibility every user shares. It is rare so many people have the opportunity to start something new together. If we are going to be successful, we must believe in what we are doing.
 
Many of us have come from someplace else and have nowhere else to go. We must be humble and mindful of this fact. As we adapt and recreate the homes we’ve lost, we must be conscious and leave certain things behind. We must shape them in a more perfect vision. If we aim to create someplace respectable and dignified, we must individually uphold those values. While first and foremost this is a hobby forum, it also aims to be much more than that for hundreds of its members. This is our pocket world. It’s our place to go. We are all each other’s neighbors and must treat each other as such.
 
There is no place else on the internet like what we are trying to build. We must take it seriously.
 
As you post and get acclimated with our new forum, channel your energy into reconstruction. Do not fall victim to petty arguments, do not capitalize on every opportunity to be negative, and remember that everyone here is a refugee. Seek positive conversation. Remove your ironic veil and speak honestly. Post thoughtfully and thoroughly and remember everything you contribute is a building block. Do not let our menagerie collapse under the same heavy-handed negativity that defines other forums we find distasteful.
 

• Conversation is invigorated by dissent. It is natural to disagree with your fellow posters and it is commendable to take a stand on something you believe in. If you argue, do so in good faith. Allow members to speak their mind and answer them sincerely. Do not declare your fellow member a lost cause before the conversation has had the chance to conclude.
• Restrain your urge to hyperbolize. Exaggeration overstates your investment and encourages extreme responses from others who feel the need to mirror your position. Attempt to articulate why you care about things, or how things makes you feel, and leave room for others to respond at different levels of intensity.
• Be inclusive in your language, beliefs, and expectations. For this forum to become a massive multinational destination, no human being can feel unwelcome in its environment. Respect their culture, respect their gender, and respect the identity of every member at all times. Nobody should ever feel defensive of their humanity. This kind of hostility cannot be tolerated here. This kind of standard is non-negotiable and should be upheld by every member.
• Do not forget where you came from, but focus on our future. Everyone here comes from somewhere else and we mustn’t cling to our nostalgia. This is a new era free from the burden of history. Embrace your new home, believe in its livelihood, and relish in this occasion. Do not fall victim to the false comforts of the past. Remember why we are moving forward and do so with pride.
• Lastly, be accommodating to the growing pains of the website. There are bound to be technical hurdles. There are bound to be trolls who slip through the grate. There will be some quiet days as members are approved and you may feel like important faces are missing. But you must have patience and support your new board through its afterbirth.

As the clock ticks towards our mutual restart, be confident in yourself and others. Remember what you want the forum to be and hold yourself to that ideal. Demand it of your peers by setting the example. Nobody would be here if they felt at home anywhere else. Remember, we really are the last of us.
 
With admiration, respect, and confidence,
A fellow Resetter

This is friggin hilarious.  It sounds like I'm reading everything that was wrong with GAF.  This new site might be pretty entertaining. 

[EightBitNate]

Is this necessary at the end tho "With admiration, respect, and confidence" ? 🤔 Is it really thoo 🤔🤔🤔

I’m not posting a goddamn thing until we get confirmation that they support the Paris Agreement.

[Hobies cat]

Honestly, the whole culture regarding the fall of neogaf is kinda fascinating to watch. I think most people enjoy some drama, but here you have people doxxing them on twitter, /voat stalking them and people talking about neogaf users like they are "refugees" .

Karma is a bitch, isn't it...

Given that there are places far worse than GAF still open, yeah, not really. GAF worst crime was banning members.

Karma has to start somewhere. When I clean up after my dogs, I do not necessarily start with the biggest turd but rather the closest. And their worst crime was banning members? Please. Banning is hardly a crime and there were worse things about that sewer.

[VomKriege]

http://slaent.com/thread/1232086/page/164/post/1252055/

[kingv]

he got into a shower naked with someone who didn't want him to be there

you fucking distinguished mentally-challenged fellow

But he didn't know she didn't want him there. They were on a road trip, she was staying in a hotel with him and they both just got back from a night of binge drinking. She was in an open relationship (apparently only with girls though). The elf thought he had it in the bag, he didn't and got out. So??

None of those things give him the right to act that way.

Have you been in a relationship before? These are kind of accepted normal human courtesies we're supposed to offer to others. You don't get to do stupid shit and get away with it just because you "didn't know."

Have you? I used to be like some of you until I realized women would call you a fucking pussy behind your back if you're not assertive enough. Now, what Evilore did was pathetic and too forward but even kissing a woman makes you a sexual predator now with SJ Ws. It basically boils down to this: Did it work? How romantic! It didn't? SEXUAL PREDATOR! RAPIST! SCUM!

Evilore is a special fellow who doesn't understand women there's no doubt about that, but does it deserve that kind of response? Fuck no. Like I said the other incident he described about grabbing a woman's ass is far, FAR worse than this one.

Unless you are completely emotionally distinguished mentally-challenged and socially oblivious(and on this I often am with woman that show interest, which says something), most woman do in fact lead things in courting, just not overtly. Flirtations, insinuations, signaling, or the ones on the shy side with gossiping with friends that know will blab. You can be both assertive and confident in the flow and still just ride the waves of what a woman is comfortable with, using well-timed dialogue to feel out what they are open to escalating with emotionally or physically.

Yes, occasionally you might press further than a signal was evident, but its pretty fucking easy to not end up in a situation where you are following some drunk girl that just threw up, into the shower you weren't signaled into. Even if she is a bit crazy and clearly feeling out cheating on her man to satisfy her possible wannabe Zuckerberg elf fetish.

“Hey let’s go to Mardi Gras together and share a room” would mean  “go time” for most men.

Frankly, I wouldn’t go on a road trip alone with a woman unless I knew I was getting laid out of it unless they were family or I knew them for like 10+ years.

I’m not exactly excusing what he did as “fine”. It wasn’t fine, but it also wasn’t particularly outside of the ordinary for normal boy-girl interactions, especially among hard partiers.

[Nola]

The gloating isnt fun if they haven’t noticed so if one of you is in the discord, post this image. Links are locked but you can post an image directly.

https://i.imgur.com/TIFdzqe.png

Also you guys saw this right 

https://docs.google.com/document/d/e/2PACX-1vQeAayBDKm2kliUxuA3qmBoplEbfTb8a_h3METSXILq3zin-fG70ix8g0g1SD0HzcxugU5-2AJ2h_0O/pub

Be inclusive in your language, beliefs, and expectations. For this forum to become a massive multinational destination, no human being can feel unwelcome in its environment. Respect their culture, respect their gender, and respect the identity of every member at all times. Nobody should ever feel defensive of their humanity. This kind of hostility cannot be tolerated here. This kind of standard is non-negotiable and should be upheld by every member.

What the fuck does this even mean? God it's up there with "lived experience" as some of the most mealy mouthed bullshit I have ever heard of. No one should ever feel defensive of their own humanity? Why would you? Why is what someone says an attack on your feeling of humanity?

Sounds like a more on the nose attempt at the sort of gobbledygook nonsense GAF used to ban users that didn't align with their feels.  Your loosely shared opinion on this one specific issues that some alt-righters also loosely share implies to me you are likely a full blown alt-right cretin in hiding that must be moderated away while allowing those I perceive to be your target victims dog-pile and harass you without consequence.

[Nintex]

Is this necessary at the end tho "With admiration, respect, and confidence" ? 🤔 Is it really thoo 🤔🤔🤔

I’m not posting a goddamn thing until we get confirmation that they support the Paris Agreement.