That -may- have been the thread where EL got very vocal about how he could never sleep with a transwoman.
Don't blame him. If you like hips you won't get that with a transwoman. That's not something you can easily fix and therefore one of the easiest tells if you're unsure lol
Not sure why you'd want to be a different sex for real though. Must be mental illness.
The way I look at it is that the brain is oppressing the body. Everything about you states that you are a particular sex, yet your mind wants to take control and subvert that which is true. So it forces your body to go through oppressive regimes like injections, designed to ruin your biology through completely unnatural means. There are legitimate fears with hormone shots, and the fact that they need to constantly be administered means that it is a farce the whole way.