Not “relate” to the gender. AM the gender. Both, together, at all times.
Also I rarely, if ever, get offended for men lol.
This seems contradictory.
I'm a man and rarely, if ever, get offended for men.
Not sure why you think that would be contradictory.
To be precise, I didn't say it was contradictory, but seems so.
This disconnect for you, as it would seem to be for cream, is that you just don't truly realize or contemplate the male experience. For example, "men feel they can't express emotions" quickly followed by "male complaints are whining and reactionary".
If you're really being an active thinker then you poke at the seeming contradiction and then the real contradiction emerges.