too late, was supposed to cast him to the mob at age 5 to teach him what's what
but yeah, so what exactly are we supposed to do with racists if dissuading them isn't nice?
You drink your beer with them and when they say something egregious you say, "Good ol' Racist Johnny here blaming people because his dicks too small," and then you laugh.
Or, "Goddammit, will you cut it with the race shit? I got enough to deal with given . . . "
You can change behavior when you do it in a person-to-person, bro-ish way. People feel shame when called out for a stupid belief. Well, not people on ERA. That's what they don't get. It's only the weirdos and the far gone that hunker down in their "everyone else but me," ideologies that bury deeper into their solipsistic world of hate.
Everyone needs and deserves a good nut punch to keep the world in check