I don’t think the pronoun shit would be some h a big deal if there were not assholes using it to bully people or act like dipshits. I have some bad experiences IRL for even daring to question it with people that not even LGBT.
a friend of mine was kind of giving me the business about james stephanie sterling
a) I've known jim longer as a guy than as a "gendertrash" so no it's not natural
b) he sounds the same and looks the same except for a wig, but he's always been in random costumes
c) jim himself has at various times said he's not too precious about pronouns
d) jim is a provocateur, at one point he was practically alt right and tweeting at random women to call them bitches and cunts, he gives games troll scores to rile everyone up, and has now just done the next easy thing to be in the spotlight
e) re: "don't call them they for them's sake, but for the sake of listeners that might be offended and appreciate your allyship" there is a 0% chance I will ever mention jim in the presence of anyone who might be offended
sorry, I'm not going to expend a conscious effort to change anything for jim's comfort, who will never even read this