She's stupid. Sorry, but it's true.
"So why didn't you leave?"
"Preservation of family. I didn't want my family to crumble!"
Bitch, grow a spine. You obviously don't deserve this. Pack up your shit, wait for the dick to go to work and leave. Forever. As terrible as this video is, I have little sympathy for those who choose these routes in life and STAY there. You made a mistake. Pick yourself up, divorce the twat and move on. Your kids will understand.