and as much as I like those other movies, Punch Drunk Love is still my favorite.
It was just so affecting to me, and I'm still not sure why. It presented its damaged protagionist in such a marvelous way that it just struck me deeply, its also pretty dang funny/scary.
It helps to think of it as what a romantic comedy would look like if any of them actually occured in a world like the one we live in.