I think it depends.
I come from a family where I sorta just had to do things on my own and rarely got "family support" or encouragement. In fact the fear years after the divorce were probably the most miserable years of my life, not counting that year and a half in Arizona a fear years ago.
My mom treated me better when I went to live with her when I was 12, but shes kinda like me in that we are just largely solitary people. What can I do, its kinda how I was raised.