Oh, please, whiteACID, stop spinning. It was a mildly racist remark. You're a white girl in the midwest, so it's not all that surprising that you'd make that sort of statement (it's a cultural thing), but at least own up to it and apologize instead of acting like a politician and deflecting blame and trying to give new meaning to your comment. You were drunk and/or high and you said something racist. That's all that happened. *shrug*