Yeah, I think I look better with a beard too since it outlines my chin from my neck. I never really learned a good way to keep the beard looking just right though so it's always a little messy looking when I have one. I'll probably have one in 2 days again; my beard grows fasssst.
Bebpo, you're an attractive guy, but I'm curious what kinds of girls you're going after. It sounds like you're a "friend zone" kind of guy. Don't be friends with these girls first, that's a game killer.
I am completely a friend zone person. I like to become friends with someone so they get really get to know me because I think I'm pretty awesome and if they know me like my guy friends know me that they'd fall for me and when I asked them on a date or something they'd be like AWESOME SOUNDS GOOD THANKS.
I can't do the other type where you hook 'em with a smile or line or something and then wait x days for followup and then wait x days and the whole time be all not really yourself but what the game asks you to be.
I don't want dating to be something you have to game; I want it to be all normal and cute and like the movies
As to the girls I am interested in, I'm kinda narrow I'll admit. I don't find normal people attractive. Like people who go to school, get a job, buy a house, get married, have kids. That's not my type of personality AT ALL even though it's a little hypocritical since I go to school to get a job (but I'd like to think I'm pretty artistically free outside of school; and punk on the inside). I go for either:
A. Girls who have problems because I find their faults make them interesting and exciting
B. Girls who are more awesome and outgoing and artistic than me and thus inspire me to be more awesome, outgoing, and artistic like them.
This time was A+B so booooooooooooo
Physically I'm ok with any weight that's not fat, mostly because at 110 pounds I don't want a gf who will actually INJURE ME by sitting on me. Plus I like to give piggyback rides. I like dark, red, or unusual hair colors (blonde hair does nothing for me for some reason). For some reason I've only ever really been attracted to white women. I prefer pale skin probably because I'm pale and I like me, lol (actuallly now that I look at these descriptions I think I AM attracted to women who are similar looking to me wtffff; I love myself too much
). I mean you'd think living in Japan I would have found attraction in Japanese girls but I really didn't and that's why I didn't pursue any dating while I lived there for a year.
Also I don't really have much experience meeting people irl; I have ok confidence in talking to people and can go up to someone and say hi but I don't find it really comfortable and so it never leads anywhere. I also find bars and concerts to loud to actually HEAR WHAT THE OTHER PERSON IS SAYING; which causes problems in communication haha. All the girls I meet tend to be met online where I'm comfortable being myself from years of im-ing with all my various friends.
-Tiesto: The problem with finding girls shorter than me is that they are pretty rare! At least around these parts with online dating. Plus most smaller girls tend to be asian and generally I'm not really into asian women. I'd love to date a super tall girl as all my local friends are super tall and I'm used to it. I did flirt with a girl who was like 6"7 or something once but it never went anywhere.
