Asking out a girl: Is this ok?

[BlackMage]

So I have a co-worker that I am interested in and ever since we met, we have hit it off pretty well. The thing is, I was going to ask her out, but our schedules have changed and I no longer work the same shifts as her. Anyway, I made an attempt to ask her out when I came in on one of her shifts, but she was too busy for me to talk to her, and that is usually the case where I work. My other strategy was to call her, but she never actually gave me her number. I have her phone number because they gave us all a list of co-workers numbers, but I don't think I should use it. Do you think it's ok to call her and ask her out, or should I find another way?

[Mupepe]

do not call it unless she gave it to you.  find that bitch at work, grab her by the throat, shove her in a corner and be like "YA LIKE POPCORN? "

[Madrun Badrun]

Listen to what Mupepe tells you!

[BlackMage]

but popcorn is gross.

[Mupepe]

do not call it unless she gave it to you.  find that bitch at work, grab her by the throat, shove her in a corner and be like "YA LIKE COTTON CANDY? "

there.

bitches love cotton candy.

[BlackMage]

OK how about this. I will go into work next time she does and if she's too busy, I'll just ask her If I can call her later?

[Saint Cornelius]

do NOT call her if she didn't give you her number. and also, don't shit where you eat

[BlackMage]

do NOT call her if she didn't give you her number. and also, don't shit where you eat

but but she's perfect for me!

[Saint Cornelius]

so let's say you hook up, and it's good. but then it isn't, and you have to break up with her. she's a crazy bitch that keys your car. And you have to work with it, still!

[Mupepe]

In all honesty, I completely agree with SC.  I almost lost my job last year because of complications with a relationship at work.  Don't do it.

[Madrun Badrun]

so let's say you hook up, and it's good. but then it isn't, and you have to break up with her. she's a crazy bitch that keys your car. And you have to work with it, still!

But she's perfect for him!

Chances are she's all ready perfect for another guy. 

[BlackMage]

so let's say you hook up, and it's good. but then it isn't, and you have to break up with her. she's a crazy bitch that keys your car. And you have to work with it, still!

But she's perfect for him!

Chances are she's all ready perfect for another guy. 

you shut your filthy whore mouth! 

[Madrun Badrun]

Well do you know her statues? 

[Mupepe]

or chances are it's a proximity infatuation.

listen, if you don't have her number, by law, you can't know her well... AT ALL.  You think she's perfect because of your limited knowledge of her.  Seriously.  Work Relationships != Outside Relationships.  People are usually completely different at work.

But in my serious advice, don't fuck with it.

[BlackMage]

Well do you know her statues? 

she is single and lonely. She just moved from North Carolina and doesn't have any friends.

[Madrun Badrun]

Then go for it.  Go Go Go!!!

[Mupepe]

just ignore me then

[BlackMage]

just ignore me then

I understand your advice, Rob. BUT I NEED A WOMAN! and now that's it's summer and I'm out of school, I have nowhere to turn to.

[Madrun Badrun]

Get a piece of it before she meets people and gains to much self-esteem!   

[BlackMage]

You can be fired for that without any problem.  Don't do it.

There's already couples at my work. They seem to only really care if a supervisor/manager is going out with a regular worker.

[Mupepe]

Most people learn this sort of thing the hard way anyways.  I'm pretty sure you're going to ask her out no matter how many people tell you not to.  I did the same thing.  It really is a BAD idea though.  

I guess you're lucky that you two don't work on the same shift though.  Are you in an office?  If you are, be prepared for some awesome fucking gossip and a bunch "wtf" made up stories.  

Go in knowing what you're getting yourself into though.  And never go into ANY relationship thinking "She's perfect."  That's always a bad idea as well.  

Also did Rob Thomas just quote Vanilla Sky?  LoL.

proximity infatuation is a phrase that has been around since before vanilla sky.  thank you very much.  and it descibes the situation perfectly.

[Madrun Badrun]

I think mupepe needs to tell his story. 

[BlackMage]

Most people learn this sort of thing the hard way anyways.  I'm pretty sure you're going to ask her out no matter how many people tell you not to.  I did the same thing.  It really is a BAD idea though. 

I guess you're lucky that you two don't work on the same shift though.  Are you in an office?  If you are, be prepared for some awesome fucking gossip and a bunch "wtf" made up stories. 

Go in knowing what you're getting yourself into though.  And never go into ANY relationship thinking "She's perfect."  That's always a bad idea as well. 

Also did Rob Thomas just quote Vanilla Sky?  LoL.

proximity infatuation is a phrase that has been around since before vanilla sky.  thank you very much.  and it descibes the situation perfectly.

now that we got that out of the way GIVE ME POINTERS! Tell me how you swooned Julia!

[Mupepe]

I think mupepe needs to tell his story. 

I made a thread about it on GAF in real time while everything went down.

Most people learn this sort of thing the hard way anyways.  I'm pretty sure you're going to ask her out no matter how many people tell you not to.  I did the same thing.  It really is a BAD idea though. 

I guess you're lucky that you two don't work on the same shift though.  Are you in an office?  If you are, be prepared for some awesome fucking gossip and a bunch "wtf" made up stories. 

Go in knowing what you're getting yourself into though.  And never go into ANY relationship thinking "She's perfect."  That's always a bad idea as well. 

Also did Rob Thomas just quote Vanilla Sky?  LoL.

proximity infatuation is a phrase that has been around since before vanilla sky.  thank you very much.  and it descibes the situation perfectly.

now that we got that out of the way GIVE ME POINTERS! Tell me how you swooned Julia!

start a normal conversation with her.  instead of directly approaching you and giving your whole game away.  towards the end of the conversation just ask something like "well, i'm about to head out.  you wanna do something this weekend?"   and if she says "sure" just be like "ok.  well what's your number?  i'll give you a call and we can do something"   

[Madrun Badrun]

link me to the thread! 

[Mupepe]

link me to the thread! 

http://www.neogaf.com/forum/showthread.php?t=120339

[brawndolicious]

wait isn't that guy gay?

[Mupepe]

wait isn't that guy gay?

who?

[brawndolicious]

who?

AlanHemberger

[Mupepe]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

[BlackMage]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

Teh Hamburgler is gay. You have similiar names.

[demi]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

Sending PMs that say I LOVE YOU to every guy on this board doesn't help your case.

[Mupepe]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

Sending PMs that say I LOVE YOU to every guy on this board doesn't help your case.

not every guy.  there were some females in there. 

[Madrun Badrun]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

I didn't know you were AlanHemberger on Gaf.  Did you have a mupep account too?  Because I remember the dancing girl avatar.

Also I thought AlanHemberger was gay too. I had to ask you. 

[$till LegendaryU2K]

 Be yourself, never lie, proceed to be smooth and just ask her when you have the time.

And most importantly, never worry.

[brawndolicious]

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

maybe I got your name mixed up, I don't read gaf, I just follow links.

*reads thread*

wtf, FOOD?

if he can get a number and they both like talking to each other then it seems all right because they have different shifts so it wouldn't be awkward if they broke up.

[demi]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

Sending PMs that say I LOVE YOU to every guy on this board doesn't help your case.

not every guy.  there were some females in there. 

Were they?

[Mupepe]

who?

AlanHemberger.

No.  That's me.  WHY DOES EVERYONE THINK I'M GAY ON GAF?

Sending PMs that say I LOVE YOU to every guy on this board doesn't help your case.

not every guy.  there were some females in there. 

Were they?

I fucking hope so  *shifty eyes*

And yeah, i already said, because they work different shifts, it MIGHT be alright.  but it will undoubtedly cause drama.  enjoy