Eh, it sucks, but I wouldn't say it's criminal. It's just a fact of adult life.
I'm a school psychologist, I only make $42,000 a year. If I wasn't married to my wife, who makes about $85,000 a year, I wouldn't be living in Seattle. I'd probably live in the town where I work, as the rent is much less than Seattle.
House hunting is horribly depressing, we'd like stay below $425,000, which pretty much puts us in the ghetto known as South Seattle.