yeah, but you have just one life.i never said that you didn't have more than one. you go through various stages in life. some people are able to stay with one person for life if they grow together and develop the same way as a person. most are not able to do that though
why not look at it as a journey, one that will see you come across multiple partners who contribute to the grow that occurs before you pass on into the afterlife?
She makes me happy.
*shrug*
it says, damn, i can't get anyone else, so i'll just stay with this one girl/boy.
Being ina committed relationship is the most challenging and rewarding I have ever done. I guess I could have fled at the slightest sign of trouble and found someone else but then I certainly wouldn't be as happy as I am now.
Being ina committed relationship is the most challenging and rewarding I have ever done. I guess I could have fled at the slightest sign of trouble and found someone else but then I certainly wouldn't be as happy as I am now.
Exactly. You're making it sound like being in a relationship is the easy way out, Futami, and people like you out there chasing freash meat are the ones doing it hard. Fuck that - that's the easy bit. Staying with someone for two, three, four, etc. years is fucking difficult, but it's worth all the shitty bits if you can actually do it with someone worthwhile and make it work.
sorry.
i don't want to be with just that one person for four years. where is it written that we HAVE to be with just that one person? why can't we be with not only her, but a few others who embody various other qualities that can't be found in her? that's exactly what i'm talking about.
the idea that your girlfriend comes in just one flavor is corny and misses the point.
I think that futami's reasoning makes a lot more sense if you remember that the girls he "dates" are shallow club sluts with no personality, interests, or redeeming qualities besides a quarter-bouncingly tight ass.
I doubt that I could stand them for more than 3 weeks, either.
I think that futami's reasoning makes a lot more sense if you remember that the girls he "dates" are shallow club sluts with no personality, interests, or redeeming qualities besides a quarter-bouncingly tight ass.
I doubt that I could stand them for more than 3 weeks, either.
I don't feel the need to deeply discuss my personal reasoning with someone who couldn't possibly understand it anyway.
Suffice to say, the easiest way to put it is that Nikki completes me in every way I can possibly imagine.
i've dated lawyers, doctors, dancers (modern) etc.
i've dated lawyers, doctors, dancers (modern) etc.
nicca please!
futami seems to me like he's a buster
Just cause they dress up like lawyers and docters for bangbros.com doesnt mean they are really lawyers or doctors.
I liked dating. I was never much of a monogamist. But you know how they say like, "Oh, you'll know". It's true. I can say with a startling certainty that this is it. I can't really elaborate on it, it's just a fact of nature.
At this point in my life, I totally agree with futami. I can't see myself being exclusive. Even when there's a girl I really think I like, I get kind of bored after sleeping with them, and start thinking of ways to bail out and pursue a new girl.
It sucks, since I really want to have kids someday, but don't know if I'll ever feel content with a single girl.
At this point in my life, I totally agree with futami. I can't see myself being exclusive. Even when there's a girl I really think I like, I get kind of bored after sleeping with them, and start thinking of ways to bail out and pursue a new girl.
It sucks, since I really want to have kids someday, but don't know if I'll ever feel content with a single girl.
well, i'm a little different in that i'm not looking to just bail on these females.
sorry.So you want to be with more than one chick at once. You wouldn't mind if some chick that you were with felt the same way?
i don't want to be with just that one person for four years. where is it written that we HAVE to be with just that one person? why can't we be with not only her, but a few others who embody various other qualities that can't be found in her? that's exactly what i'm talking about.
the idea that your girlfriend comes in just one flavor is corny and misses the point.
sorry.So you want to be with more than one chick at once. You wouldn't mind if some chick that you were with felt the same way?
i don't want to be with just that one person for four years. where is it written that we HAVE to be with just that one person? why can't we be with not only her, but a few others who embody various other qualities that can't be found in her? that's exactly what i'm talking about.
the idea that your girlfriend comes in just one flavor is corny and misses the point.
Great - we got to the point where i thought this would get to.
I have a friend who used to have the same patter as you Fu.
He went on and on and on about why i was in a long term relationship whilst he had this open minded thing going on.
It didn`t bother me at all, he was happy, i was happy, but for some reason the fact that I was in a relationship bugged him.
Anyways, eventually he met this amazingly stunning looking girl - i mean, just incredible. Witty, quite bright, beautiful - had the same outlook on life as him (totally open relationships etc)...
the big issue here is , there is somewhat of a trap...
He fell for her and slowly wanted to go on that part of the journey you are talking about.
They got married - and everything seemed to be fine... but it wasn`t...
Her journey wasn`t still going to go on - and as the sex in the marriage got more and more boring, then she started sleeping with other people...
obviously my friend did the same, but then she started coming home later...
then she wouldn`t come home on certain nights...
and then she just didn`t come home at all...
Her journey had clearly taken her somewhere else - and that one person he`d been looking for to "unlock that something" was gone.
And now, ironically, he`s spent the rest of his life hoping she`d one day show back up - lost interest in women....
Given that you and this guy are thinking on the same lines, do you not fear that someone who might be using you for the awesome sex might not be revealing anything true about themselves to you? that the person you`ll inevitably end up liking could well be on a REAL life journey with someone else and they are basically lying to you? And the person ultimately best suited to you (a sort of female equivalent to you) could potentially be hazardous if you were to hook up?
Also - another question - are you interested in having any children Fu?
And if so , i assume it would be okay if the child that you`re Life Partner has isn`t yours?
Why sacrifice the variety, the possibility of something greater,
to pusue a romanticized ideal?
if you care for these supposed "journey-partners" then how come you won't use protection during sex or even get an AIDS test?
believe i've already said this, but i think the stress and anxiety one endures after learning they're infect with HIV is what causes AIDS symptoms to arise.0_0
lol....Yeah, I gave up on this thread...
my mind just melted.
I don't feel the need to deeply discuss my personal reasoning with someone who couldn't possibly understand it anyway.
Suffice to say, the easiest way to put it is that Nikki completes me in every way I can possibly imagine.
i guess it`s a youth thing though - i think everyone on the planet has it all figured out at age 24 and below. It`s only when you get much older you think "Christ, i knew fuck all back then!" ...
I don't feel the need to deeply discuss my personal reasoning with someone who couldn't possibly understand it anyway.
Suffice to say, the easiest way to put it is that Nikki completes me in every way I can possibly imagine.
I haven't been here for a while so I bet he thought I wouldn't see this. :heart
A good friend of mine went away to college, broke up with her boyfriend, and started sleeping around. She told me a few times that it's somehow uplifting and stuff to have sex with someone and have no romantic involvement and no strings attached. That made no sense to me whatsoever.
The way I see it is this: Most people date to try to find the 'right' person. I got lucky and found mine earlier than most, so I skipped a step in a sense that I never slept around or slept with anyone else. But I still ended up where everyone else tries to and hopefully will, just a little bit earlier. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
I dunno futami. The normal thing in most societies is marriage. It's been like this for a really long fucking time.I don't feel the need to deeply discuss my personal reasoning with someone who couldn't possibly understand it anyway.
Suffice to say, the easiest way to put it is that Nikki completes me in every way I can possibly imagine.
I haven't been here for a while so I bet he thought I wouldn't see this. :heart
A good friend of mine went away to college, broke up with her boyfriend, and started sleeping around. She told me a few times that it's somehow uplifting and stuff to have sex with someone and have no romantic involvement and no strings attached. That made no sense to me whatsoever.
The way I see it is this: Most people date to try to find the 'right' person. I got lucky and found mine earlier than most, so I skipped a step in a sense that I never slept around or slept with anyone else. But I still ended up where everyone else tries to and hopefully will, just a little bit earlier. I don't think there's anything wrong with that.
learn to read, cunt.
i am NOT saying that we shouldn't have romantic relationships.
i am saying WHY should we have a relationship with just ONE person?
maturity means sacrificing freedom to be with just one person?
perhaps true maturity, the growth we experience, is breaking free from the bondage of social norms.
maturity means sacrificing freedom to be with just one person?
perhaps true maturity, the growth we experience, is breaking free from the bondage of social norms.
I dont know, does it mean spending $400 on a pair of jeans?
Least you dont chew your toe-nails like SOME people on this forum.
My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship, but we live together. We sleep in the same bed, we share bills and we genuinely care about each other. We just fuck other people when we want to. It works for us. We realize that staying with just one person in ANY way, shape or form can grow boring and tiresome, so we agreed to still hold feelings while exploring new territories. I hooked up with a guy last night, and I just saat my boyfriend down and said, "Baby, I'm hooking up with a boy tonight. Don't wait up for me." We made out and I left. It's really a great arrangement.
My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship, but we live together. We sleep in the same bed, we share bills and we genuinely care about each other. We just fuck other people when we want to. It works for us. We realize that staying with just one person in ANY way, shape or form can grow boring and tiresome, so we agreed to still hold feelings while exploring new territories. I hooked up with a guy last night, and I just saat my boyfriend down and said, "Baby, I'm hooking up with a boy tonight. Don't wait up for me." We made out and I left. It's really a great arrangement.
My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship, but we live together. We sleep in the same bed, we share bills and we genuinely care about each other. We just fuck other people when we want to. It works for us. We realize that staying with just one person in ANY way, shape or form can grow boring and tiresome, so we agreed to still hold feelings while exploring new territories. I hooked up with a guy last night, and I just saat my boyfriend down and said, "Baby, I'm hooking up with a boy tonight. Don't wait up for me." We made out and I left. It's really a great arrangement.
My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship, but we live together. We sleep in the same bed, we share bills and we genuinely care about each other. We just fuck other people when we want to. It works for us. We realize that staying with just one person in ANY way, shape or form can grow boring and tiresome, so we agreed to still hold feelings while exploring new territories. I hooked up with a guy last night, and I just saat my boyfriend down and said, "Baby, I'm hooking up with a boy tonight. Don't wait up for me." We made out and I left. It's really a great arrangement.
See, I told you CajoleJuice!
My boyfriend and I are in an open relationship, but we live together. We sleep in the same bed, we share bills and we genuinely care about each other. We just fuck other people when we want to. It works for us. We realize that staying with just one person in ANY way, shape or form can grow boring and tiresome, so we agreed to still hold feelings while exploring new territories. I hooked up with a guy last night, and I just saat my boyfriend down and said, "Baby, I'm hooking up with a boy tonight. Don't wait up for me." We made out and I left. It's really a great arrangement.
wait, are you gay?
learn to read, cunt.
i am NOT saying that we shouldn't have romantic relationships.
i am saying WHY should we have a relationship with just ONE person?
I remain with her because I know there are simply no other women who can do what she does. No other women will listen to my dorky rants about starcraft and actually put up with it. she's much smarter than any other women i've ever met. she holds high standards which keeps me in good shape. she's faithful.
it's always nice that she's super hot as well ;)
Fu, do you have any feelings of fear regarding commitment or growing on your own with out a journey-partners help?
I mean - i know you say the situation suits you well (living with your parents) but that`s before i knew you were 30 years old. I mean... come on man... stepping out into your own place is growth too.
I remain with her because I know there are simply no other women who can do what she does. No other women will listen to my dorky rants about starcraft and actually put up with it. she's much smarter than any other women i've ever met. she holds high standards which keeps me in good shape. she's faithful.
it's always nice that she's super hot as well ;)
"no other women"
the only reason you believe that is because you don't make any attempt to explore.
there ARE plenty of women out there that would put up with your pathetic affinity for WoW.
you just have to find them.
and you know what?
i guarantee that some of them WILL introduce something different to your understanding of love between the sexes.
they will make you see the world differently.
that's a fact.
stop being so closed-minded.
I remain with her because I know there are simply no other women who can do what she does. No other women will listen to my dorky rants about starcraft and actually put up with it. she's much smarter than any other women i've ever met. she holds high standards which keeps me in good shape. she's faithful.
it's always nice that she's super hot as well ;)
"no other women"
the only reason you believe that is because you don't make any attempt to explore.
there ARE plenty of women out there that would put up with your pathetic affinity for WoW.
you just have to find them.
and you know what?
i guarantee that some of them WILL introduce something different to your understanding of love between the sexes.
they will make you see the world differently.
that's a fact.
stop being so closed-minded.
so why is it that everyone i know outside of OA of course..... always agress that catz is one in a million?
you're saying you want me to toss away the greatest thing in my life just for a chance to explore something new.
if it isn't broke, don't fix it.
plus i despise other women anyway. they all talk like they're from california and all want to be queens. then the ones that don't are hard workers that are defensive to guys. what other women could honestly kick my ass in super smash brothers? I strongly doubt you or anyone here could find a woman like that in all of America.
you say you want me to explore, but how many generic black women with big asses have you gone for.
great.... all black with big asses, you're sure going for variety there. that's not something a ton of other men have accomplished or anything.
your logic is flawed.
this thread makes distinguished mentally-challenged fellows look bright :lolso you're saying that thinking he's stupid for buying $500 jeans that won't let him pay for rent, living with his parents at 30, and claiming he's a non-virgin who's immune to AIDS on an internet forum so that he can find a woman to pay for everything isn't at all racist?
this thread makes distinguished mentally-challenged fellows look bright :lolso you're saying that thinking he's stupid for buying $500 jeans that won't let him pay for rent, living with his parents at 30, and claiming he's a non-virgin who's immune to AIDS on an internet forum so that he can find a woman to pay for everything isn't at all racist?
this thread makes distinguished mentally-challenged fellows look bright :lolso you're saying that thinking he's stupid for buying $500 jeans that won't let him pay for rent, living with his parents at 30, and claiming he's a non-virgin who's immune to AIDS on an internet forum so that he can find a woman to pay for everything isn't at all racist?
it makes you afraid of failure (which you are) and that makes you like having a woman to fall back on (which you don't) and now you ignore the idea of AIDS (which you have not done anything to get).
you said you're not paying your student loans and living with your parents so you can buy jeans.
Quoteand that's great! but what if there's someone else who's also amazing in a different way?
that`s never not going to be the case -
Quoteso, you completely write off the possibility that a world of billions contains another female within whom you could find an equally amazing quality that your gf/wife lacks.
do you even understand how absurd that sounds?
the implausibility of it?
you know what is even more implausable? Actually sifting through these billions of other females and spending the time to get to REALLY know them (1 year AT LEAST) to find out whether they shape up.
I married because i am extremely happy about the qualities my wife has. And yes, i'm sure that out of X Billion people in the world - yes - there might just be someone even better. But for all you know that could be some game playing eskimo who is into 6ft chinese guys.... so unfortunately, my luck might be even out - and i'll take that chance. I'm incredibly happy right now and have no thoughts of whether the grass is greener elsewhere.
I know you dismiss that love is some romantic ideal , but man... this philosophy of billions of people out there, keep on searching, find the one sounds is even more distinguished mentally-challenged. No matter who you end up with there is ALWAYS the possibility that you could be with someone better - but your catchment area is limited, people have to actually like you, you have to retain your good points if you do find that someone(or several people), etc etc...
Seriously - what is your plan here futami ? to date everyone on the planet and then call up the lucky top 5 and ask them to move in with you and your folks?
Perhaps you should call Fox and ask if they want to film it because -i'd- watch it for sure.
but yes, i get what you are on about , but do you have what it takes to get anywhere near the class of women that would placate your wandering eye/cock lust? Again, it sounds like the dream of wannabe playboy.
Oh and to clarify - yes, when i got married, i decided i would stop looking for anyone else to share my life with. It's a valuable thing - i'm not going to share it with any old scrub.
what kind of a journey is it if you're always changing the destination?
that's not a journey--that's called being lost
I'd get bored waking up next to a different person every day. It's like ADD channel surfing vs. several seasons of a good serial drama. Make mine narrative coherency, please!
And while I hate to engage you in anything resembling conversation, I am curious: what would you describe as the destination and purpose of your "journey"?
The destination is you? But...
I've never been to me. :'(
This thread is so worthless. We all know Futami isn't in a committed relationship because bringing cheeseburgers home to mama's couch doesn't exactly make you look like marriage material. What have you got to offer anyone beyond a moderately large vocabulary, guy?
The REAL reason people stay in relationships is because youth, beauty, and expensive jeans all fade with time. Eventually you're going to run out of good variety and you'll be overripe and lonely, trying to find something real in a sea of fake tits and apathy.
What have you got to offer anyone beyond a moderately large vocabulary, guy?
This thread is so worthless. We all know Futami isn't in a committed relationship because bringing cheeseburgers home to mama's couch doesn't exactly make you look like marriage material. What have you got to offer anyone beyond a moderately large vocabulary, guy?
The REAL reason people stay in relationships is because youth, beauty, and expensive jeans all fade with time. Eventually you're going to run out of good variety and you'll be overripe and lonely, trying to find something real in a sea of fake tits and apathy.
unlike you, i didn't see a marriage dissolve because of my infidelity.
Quoteand, dcharlie, your reading comprehension is pretty fucking poor.
it's not about thinking with one's dick or sleeping around with a ton of females.
it's about falling in love with multiple women, all at the same time.
my reading comprehension is perfectly fine, thanks.
As you`ve already said yourself, you`re not particularly good at keeping hold of these females.
So what this effectively boils down to is a sequence of you picking up women , taking them back to Hotel Fu, having sex, then not being able to tempt the same people back.
I understand it`s about falling in love with multiple women, but are they falling in love back?
Sounds like the answer is a resounding "NO" - which means your journey partners are nothing more than part of your middle age hippy stalker fantasy.
so you're unwilling to compromise what you want to give someone else what they want? are you sure you aren't trolling?
so you're unwilling to compromise what you want to give someone else what they want? are you sure you aren't trolling?
they want something that's fundamentally at odds with my philosophy on love.
i guess, i just haven't found a female who's willing to accept my approach to relationships.
As they say, some pictures - or this all didn`t / isn`t happening.
So when a woman wakes up in the basement of the parents of a guy who advocates promiscuity and who's on a journey to find himself, how exactly do you expect to keep them? oh right, you're not worried about AIDS. I can see why they'd LOVE that. Why wouldn't they like to chill in the basement of 30 year old guy living with his parents while he's journeying towards himself?spoiler (click to show/hide)If this doesn't make sense to somebody it's because you're in "charted waters". Some people call it sanity.[close]
i don't live in a basement, and none of the females i've dated care that i live at home.Isn't that because you lie and say you're apartment burned down?
Somehow, when you say that, I imagine it in Gene Wilder's voice, Patel.:lol
As they say, some pictures - or this all didn`t / isn`t happening.
f'real. it's put up or shut up time, fufu. you fucking herb.
I was talking with Doug and somehow wrote a Parappa song about futami
Clap, AIDS, it's all in the mind
If you wanna fuck me, I'm sure you'll find
We're VD sharin'
But I'm not carin'!
Have I mentioned the price of these jeans I'm wearin'
I was talking with Doug and somehow wrote a Parappa song about futami
Clap, AIDS, it's all in the mind
If you wanna fuck me, I'm sure you'll find
We're VD sharin'
But I'm not carin'!
Have I mentioned the price of these jeans I'm wearin'
I was talking with Doug and somehow wrote a Parappa song about futami
Clap, AIDS, it's all in the mind
If you wanna fuck me, I'm sure you'll find
We're VD sharin'
But I'm not carin'!
Have I mentioned the price of these jeans I'm wearin'
I was talking with Doug and somehow wrote a Parappa song about futami
Clap, AIDS, it's all in the mind
If you wanna fuck me, I'm sure you'll find
We're VD sharin'
But I'm not carin'!
Have I mentioned the price of these jeans I'm wearin'
Well I'm not with someone, but since I'm handicapped I want someone that will help me so that I can lead a more normal life, go and do things that I couldn't do any other way, and have someone to talk to of course.
I was talking with Doug and somehow wrote a Parappa song about futami:lol :lol :lol
Clap, AIDS, it's all in the mind
If you wanna fuck me, I'm sure you'll find
We're VD sharin'
But I'm not carin'!
Have I mentioned the price of these jeans I'm wearin'
I was talking with Doug and somehow wrote a Parappa song about futami
Clap, AIDS, it's all in the mind
If you wanna fuck me, I'm sure you'll find
We're VD sharin'
But I'm not carin'!
Have I mentioned the price of these jeans I'm wearin'
If we could have longer signatures this would be IT.
Well I'm not with someone, but since I'm handicapped I want someone that will help me so that I can lead a more normal life, go and do things that I couldn't do any other way, and have someone to talk to of course.
mine? lol..no.
i rarely do laundry, anyway.
i just have so many clothes, reducing the need to do it as frequently as others might.
and all these dirty clothes smell fantastic i`d assume!
i need to get out of investment banking and into a) my folks home b) proof reading and poetry :(
mine? lol..no.
i rarely do laundry, anyway.
i just have so many clothes, reducing the need to do it as frequently as others might.
:lol :lol :lol I would say we should leper this "man" but his comedic value is so high
i need to get out of investment banking and into a) my folks home b) proof reading and poetry :(
Hey fufu why are you so obsessed with my pics, honey?
Well Futami, I guess I'm not into putting up pics of various different black males, claiming it to be "me" each time
I'd like to be able to comment on your appearance, but sadly, you've yet to post a pic of yourself.
Also, repeatedly posting my pic seems a little "obsessed".
You've posted my pics more times than you've posted pics of bitches with fat asses that you claim to have fucked.
Seems weird, doesn't it?
No they haven't been, Fufu.
But you know how you mentioned "don't care enough to be obsessed"?
I don't care enough to look.
I think you're a faker.
Isn't it kind of depressing that an unkempt nerdlinger such as myself and my dirty beard doesn't believe a word you say?
this isn't me?
(http://a433.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00819/23/45/819285432_l.jpg)
new pic of me.
(http://a990.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00033/98/98/33448989_l.jpg)
:lol at Fufu still rocking the same ol' played out pic for how many years now? I would think a rich man such as yourself could afford a camera to take some new pix.
I saw jeans like that at Old Navy, only they cost $12.99
i need to get out of investment banking and into a) my folks home b) proof reading and poetry :(
it's the same person.
are you guys blind?
it's the same person.
are you guys blind?
why are your ears so different in both pics
mine? lol..no.
i rarely do laundry, anyway.
i just have so many clothes, reducing the need to do it as frequently as others might.
:lol :lol :lol I would say we should leper this "man" but his comedic value is so high
what's funny about that?
mine? lol..no.
i rarely do laundry, anyway.
i just have so many clothes, reducing the need to do it as frequently as others might.
:lol :lol :lol I would say we should leper this "man" but his comedic value is so high
what's funny about that?
you sound like someone from my super sweet 16. :lol
:lolwhat's funny about that?you sound like someone from my super sweet 16. :lol
dude, I'm 30!
I'm getting married THIS SATURDAY. :o
YEAH! SINGLE!
Unfortunately since I live in a small town my options are limited, girls I have asked have rejected me because of it. I really wish they'd at least be willing to give me a chance, I'd treat her like a queen. The thing that really bothers me is that the same women would rather date guys that aren't handicapped that treat them like dirt, then someone who is handicapped that would treat them like a queen:(Well I'm not with someone, but since I'm handicapped I want someone that will help me so that I can lead a more normal life, go and do things that I couldn't do any other way, and have someone to talk to of course.
Where do you go pick up chicks, Synbios? And is it difficult for you, being disabled?
Unfortunately since I live in a small town my options are limited, girls I have asked have rejected me because of it. I really wish they'd at least be willing to give me a chance, I'd treat her like a queen. The thing that really bothers me is that the same women would rather date guys that aren't handicapped that treat them like dirt, then someone who is handicapped that would treat them like a queen:(Well I'm not with someone, but since I'm handicapped I want someone that will help me so that I can lead a more normal life, go and do things that I couldn't do any other way, and have someone to talk to of course.
Where do you go pick up chicks, Synbios? And is it difficult for you, being disabled?
womenz are soez craziez!!!spoiler (click to show/hide)but they got bewbs and vag :-*[close]
But I don't have a big ego. Nor do I want to do anything to make her upset, especially in my case where I would depend on her so much.Unfortunately since I live in a small town my options are limited, girls I have asked have rejected me because of it. I really wish they'd at least be willing to give me a chance, I'd treat her like a queen. The thing that really bothers me is that the same women would rather date guys that aren't handicapped that treat them like dirt, then someone who is handicapped that would treat them like a queen:(Well I'm not with someone, but since I'm handicapped I want someone that will help me so that I can lead a more normal life, go and do things that I couldn't do any other way, and have someone to talk to of course.
Where do you go pick up chicks, Synbios? And is it difficult for you, being disabled?
This is the case whether you are handicapped or not. In general, women like men with a bit of cockiness to them. Unless you are wanting to be the rebound/friend zone guy...it's highly suggested that a man needs to find that natural testosterone-filled ego inside himself to make a relationship successful.
A good percentage of women talk about how they want to be treated like a princess and want to be spoiled. But, in reality they like a man that can tell them, "hell no" and stand their ground. Always remember that most women don't always actually communicate what they really want. For some reason (not actually sure why), but they enjoy when a man can just know (usually after dropping several subtle hints) what it is they really want.
some women actually do, but they tend to be the very large and matronly sort.
Synbios459 needs a new avatar. YOU ARE MAKING MY EYES BLEED!
Uhm...no woman wants to be in a relationship where she has to be the caretaker of her partner, Synbios.Maybe not, but what am I supposed to do when I need her help a lot more than she needs mine and I can't afford to lose her as much as she could me?