I'd say I'm not more or less meshed as you. I come from a Judaeo-Christian household, with a menorah in one corner and a Jesus tree in the other. I've got family members of all races and religious creed.
There is a time and a place for responsibility, and I don't think any one religious group should shirk it simply because - hey - everyone's got bloody hands. I blame Western Jews for a lot of the stuff that goes down in Israel, but that's also a completely different scenario, defined by governments, terrorists, gunfire and political landscapes.
This is about a religious figure that quoted some text, albeit insensitive and perhaps offensive, and the violence that has erupted since. It's silly to demand and take blood over words, and not even his own words. And words he apologized for.
Moderate Muslims are the first to go on television and claim that the violence has nothing to do with them, but at a certain point in time, this shit has to be condemned by the majority or this will continue until someone destroys the wrong landmark in the wrong country.