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whiteACID

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Why am I different than most girls I know?
« on: September 25, 2006, 03:10:20 PM »
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

There's more I'll add later, can't think of much right now.

but how do you meet the cool girls to hang out with?
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #1 on: September 25, 2006, 03:14:18 PM »
Wanna be my date to the Junior Prom?
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whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #2 on: September 25, 2006, 03:14:35 PM »
My sister and I were raised pretty much the same way but we are complete opposites.
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whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #3 on: September 25, 2006, 03:14:57 PM »
Wanna be my date to the Junior Prom?
I'm a little to old for that sorry.
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Phoenix Dark

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #4 on: September 25, 2006, 03:15:16 PM »
:(

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Ecrofirt

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #5 on: September 25, 2006, 03:15:59 PM »
Wanna be my date to the Junior Prom?
I'm a little to old for that sorry.
So am I. Your point? :-* :-* :-*
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #6 on: September 25, 2006, 03:18:56 PM »
Aren't you a military brat with lots of brothers and sisters? It probably has to do with your upbringing (and I'm not insulting that).  Combine that with some modern day geekdom you acquired by whatever means as you grew up and that's what makes you what you are.
 

whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #7 on: September 25, 2006, 03:30:11 PM »
Aren't you a military brat with lots of brothers and sisters? It probably has to do with your upbringing (and I'm not insulting that).  Combine that with some modern day geekdom you acquired by whatever means as you grew up and that's what makes you what you are.
 
Ya, mom in the Air Force, dad in the Marines. I'm the oldest of 8.
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #8 on: September 25, 2006, 03:34:46 PM »
I think your neat-o!
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #9 on: September 25, 2006, 03:50:49 PM »
redwood has an awesome sense of humor

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #10 on: September 25, 2006, 03:57:31 PM »
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

There's more I'll add later, can't think of much right now.

but how do you meet the cool girls to hang out with?
:'(


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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #11 on: September 25, 2006, 04:10:12 PM »
My wife's the same, really, although she's not much of a gamer.
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #12 on: September 25, 2006, 04:14:56 PM »
You don't care about your boyfriend talking to other girls because you don't love him.

whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #13 on: September 25, 2006, 04:19:41 PM »
You don't care about your boyfriend talking to other girls because you don't love him.
I think I do, but how do you really know?
boo

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #14 on: September 25, 2006, 04:23:40 PM »
Because you love Bacon!
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #15 on: September 25, 2006, 04:27:42 PM »
Because you love Bacon!

I'm pretty sure it's purely sexual.

G The Resurrected

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #16 on: September 25, 2006, 04:35:18 PM »
I hate girls that get uber pissed off, they go fucking nuclear on your ass for the smallest of things. Those are the girls i hate, but i'm marrying one. I think all girls are different and they all got a disfunction. Much can be said about us males we all have issues too. Just have to find common ground and realize that you can change if you choose too.

And about love, you'll know when the time is right.

whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #17 on: September 25, 2006, 04:51:26 PM »
I think I'm addicted to love.
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #18 on: September 25, 2006, 04:52:30 PM »
I think I'm addicted to ZomBz's amusing anecdotes about his quirky life.
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whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #19 on: September 25, 2006, 04:54:56 PM »
I feel like I have no emotions though, except for a sense of humor. I never get angry or upset, I get excited but don't really show it, same for when I'm happy. People have called me cold.
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #20 on: September 25, 2006, 04:56:55 PM »
I feel like I have no emotions though, except for a sense of humor. I never get angry or upset, I get excited but don't really show it, same for when I'm happy. People have called me cold.

Same fuckin thing here. :-\
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #21 on: September 25, 2006, 05:12:08 PM »
You guys are absolutely worthless!
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #22 on: September 25, 2006, 05:13:17 PM »
Blame the internetz.
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G The Resurrected

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #23 on: September 25, 2006, 05:16:39 PM »
I think I'm addicted to love.

Ah so your crazy about love huh?

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Unrequited_love

Thats what i got sadly, but my partner she's got issues. She's in love with the idea of love being something so perfect. When in reality love is painful, hurtful and all else a bitch. But thats the downside of the rollercoaster that is love. Some of us are truely crazy about love and put ourselves through lots of shit cause of it.

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #24 on: September 25, 2006, 05:18:44 PM »
ZOMBZ, YOU MAKE ME FEEL SO GOOD...





 :-\ :-\ :-\
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G The Resurrected

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #25 on: September 25, 2006, 05:22:56 PM »
Yeah yeah i know *tones it down*

Phoenix Dark

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #26 on: September 25, 2006, 05:36:42 PM »
That's why I turned down this one chick. She was extremely controlling and jealous. The funny thing is that she'd do it in an amost comical, chidlish way. So I'd be talking to a female friend, and then she'd come out of nowhere and stand right next to me, and say "what's goin on?"

I had enough of that, so now we barely talk; haven't really talked since we graduated earlier this year actually. :-\
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #27 on: September 25, 2006, 05:39:20 PM »
Sounds more like she was asking you a simple question and you, in your tremendous virgin stupidity, acted like a major asshole. Oh well. :-[
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Phoenix Dark

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #28 on: September 25, 2006, 05:41:40 PM »
Sounds more like she was asking you a simple question and you, in your tremendous virgin stupidity, acted like a major asshole. Oh well. :-[

Dude if you only knew. Can you imagine talking to a chick, and then another chick who annoys you walks up, grabs you, and tries to take you to the corner of the room to "talk"? As if you're in a relationship with her? God..annoying.

 I'd give you her MySpace page, but I fear you guys would fuck me up or something so no.

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #29 on: September 25, 2006, 05:42:26 PM »
Aw c'mon Mr. Gwumpy Gills.... ;)
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Phoenix Dark

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #30 on: September 25, 2006, 05:45:31 PM »
Aw c'mon Mr. Gwumpy Gills.... ;)



Very bad lighting
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #31 on: September 25, 2006, 05:46:21 PM »
AHHH!!!! :yuck
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Phoenix Dark

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #32 on: September 25, 2006, 05:47:22 PM »
AHHH!!!! :yuck
:lol

Bad lighting; imo it doesn't do her justice. She's not hot, but she's nice when she wants to be. We're "friends"


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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #33 on: September 25, 2006, 05:49:40 PM »
you're not a bitch?

Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #34 on: September 25, 2006, 05:57:28 PM »
you used to be a man?

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #35 on: September 25, 2006, 05:59:10 PM »
you used to be a man?
:D
that wasn't a bitch?

Phoenix Dark

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #36 on: September 25, 2006, 06:00:01 PM »
You guys are mean >:(
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« Reply #37 on: September 25, 2006, 06:01:02 PM »
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #38 on: September 25, 2006, 06:01:14 PM »
 ::) ::) ::)
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #39 on: September 25, 2006, 06:02:04 PM »
I don't understand. You.
she.  can.  keep.  her.  cool.

Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
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brawndolicious

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #41 on: September 25, 2006, 06:06:30 PM »
Right
??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
cause she's intelligent enough not to over-react?

Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #42 on: September 25, 2006, 06:11:18 PM »
Right
??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ??? ???
cause she's intelligent enough not to over-react?
I understand that. No idea where that came from though.
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #43 on: September 25, 2006, 06:13:17 PM »
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

There's more I'll add later, can't think of much right now.

but how do you meet the cool girls to hang out with?

Yeah.. you already told us you smoke pot, do you remember?
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brawndolicious

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #44 on: September 25, 2006, 06:13:32 PM »
I understand that. No idea where that came from though.
ah.

Waychel

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #45 on: September 25, 2006, 06:21:41 PM »
I've noticed that girls have a way that typically act for certain situations. After observing how every girl I know acts I'm completely different.

I think this can be said about everyone... we all act different, 'cus we're all different people.

I never get jealous. If my boyfriend is talking to another girl whether a friend or a stranger. If he's going to be at the bar and a girl friend is going to be there, I just don't care. I don't even get a twinge of jealous in my stomach. I've seen girls that will get pissed or act like that don't care but you can tell they do. But I really just don't care.

I think that when girls get jealous of their boyfriend talking to another girl (even a stranger), it is usually because there isn't enough trust in the relationship. I don't think that sporadic bouts of jealousy like that are normal or healthy for any relationship TBH.

I don't like to talk on the phone, I don't like to talk about how I feel about things, I don't like gossip and idle chit chat.

I think that not wanting to talk on the phone is normal. Many people (whether guys or girls) prefer talking one-on-one to a person IRL. As for gossip, I think that it is a bad habit. When you get older it is really looked down upon, especially in the work place (it can get you fired). Only people that are idle have the time or care to gossip usually and chances are they aren't going to go very far in the workplace because of it.

I like video games, Star Trek, the West Wing, stuff like that. I can't stand reality tv, talk shows or drama's like Desperate Housewives and the like.

More and more girls these days are getting into fantasy, sci-fi, etc. instead of crappy reality TV shows. I used to feel like I was the only girl in the world that grew up on Japanese film and old sci-fi, but when I started going to different communities online I realized that this was not the case. I met many girls who grew up watching the same shows, reading the same books, enjoying the same hobbies. I realized that I wasn't so unusual afterall.

I think that if anything these interests are much more mainstream now than they were before the advent of the Internet. When I was growing up and reading JRR Tolkien, Peter Beagle, etc. it was considered extremely dorky. Now because of the success of Harry Potter and The Lord of the Rings in the box office, it seems to be the "in" thing right now for girls to be into fantasy novels. Just go to one of these communities and you will see that they are flooded with girls. Heck, visit a site like fanfiction.net if you want proof... thousands of fanworks there are written by girls. Depending on where you go online it will almost look as if girls make up the entire fandom.

I don't care about shit. I never get pissed off, someone has to do something extreme to piss me off before I blow, but it doesn't happen often. I can only recall maybe 3-4 times it has happened in my life.

Most normal people do not blow up and throw tantrums like 5-year-olds whenever they are upset...

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #46 on: September 25, 2006, 06:27:06 PM »
I think I'm addicted to love.

Might as well face it.

Catz

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #47 on: September 25, 2006, 06:33:09 PM »
You're addicted to love!
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #48 on: September 25, 2006, 08:26:51 PM »
 :lol :lol
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #49 on: September 25, 2006, 08:36:24 PM »
You're addicted to love!

:rofl

Well played
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #50 on: September 25, 2006, 09:01:40 PM »
Sounds like you're a tomboy. God blessed you with a little testosterone.

The only downside is you will start to look like Bea Arthur once menopause kicks in.

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #51 on: September 25, 2006, 09:29:12 PM »
I think I'm addicted to love.

Might as well face it.
Catz stole your thunder and got credit for your joke, sucker!

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #52 on: September 25, 2006, 10:19:44 PM »
I'm not in it for the recognition.

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #53 on: September 25, 2006, 10:34:30 PM »
it was a team effort  :pikachu
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #54 on: September 26, 2006, 01:15:27 AM »
I ilke a wide variety of girls, but when push comes to shove, they all behave according to their gender role. Maybe on the surface you're different, but I doubt that you seriously avoid the real gender role pitfalls and patterns.

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #55 on: September 26, 2006, 10:11:53 AM »
I ilke a wide variety of girls, but when push comes to shove, they all behave according to their gender role. Maybe on the surface you're different, but I doubt that you seriously avoid the real gender role pitfalls and patterns.

In other words if I set out some bread, lettice, tomatoes, and ham in the kitchen she'd fix me a sammich without thinking
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #56 on: September 26, 2006, 11:43:58 AM »
being into fantasy stuff is cute when you are a 12 years old girl with a room filled with unicorn related stuff.

Not when you are a 23 years old woman.

whiteACID

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #57 on: September 26, 2006, 11:57:28 AM »


I think that not wanting to talk on the phone is normal. Many people (whether guys or girls) prefer talking one-on-one to a person IRL. As for gossip, I think that it is a bad habit. When you get older it is really looked down upon, especially in the work place (it can get you fired). Only people that are idle have the time or care to gossip usually and chances are they aren't going to go very far in the workplace because of it.


Actually I don't really like to talk to people face to face either. Unless I have known someone for years and even then, I prefer to talk on IM or through e-mail.
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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #58 on: September 26, 2006, 03:42:11 PM »
redWOOD prefers cybering to real life fucking.  :shh

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Re: Why am I different than most girls I know?
« Reply #59 on: September 26, 2006, 04:04:48 PM »


Yeah.. you already told us you smoke pot, do you remember?

I smoke pot, and I guarantee I'm cooler than Catzgirl.  She seems all right, mind you.  Just not. . you know.

Redwood, I'll hang out with you.  You can play guitar and I'll roll the blunts.
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