I just dont know any of them anymore, I dont see the point. Ill visit my mom cause she was there for me, but everyone else kinda sucked. Why should I play nice?
Family is supposed to be family. Why should I go out of my way to reach out to people who ONLY remember they're family when they need something? Luckily my grandparents and all my uncles are cool, and I've grown up with them. But ALL of my aunts (ie my dad's sisters) never really reached out to us. I haven't seen them in years, and I especially remember one incident on my birthday when my aunt was talking on the phone to my mom: my mom mentioned it was my birthday or something, and my aunt laughed and went on with her convo; it was on speakerphone. Now that may be a little thing (birthdays are meh) but that was pretty uncaring imo
Luckily my aunts on my mom's side (ie they're married to my mom's brothers) are cool. One got divorced from my uncle awhile ago but I still consider her my closest aunt. To this day she helps out my grandma, but sadly she doesn't come to many family events anymore to avoid seeing my uncle's new wife - who has a mustache